Iningi labazali bayazi ukuthi kunjani ukuzwa imizwa ehambisana nenkinga yangempela yokusebenzisa isikhathi semfanelo nengane yabo. Sifisa kangaki ukuthi singaba nezingane zethu uma kudingeka sisebenze noma sigcwalise ezinye izibopho ezisisusa kuzo? Ngaki izikhathi esifisa ukuba 'isikhathi esincane' sesikhathi esincane lapho sinezinto ezanele zansukuzonke zokuqapha umsebenzi wesikole kanye nemisebenzi yasekhaya; ukushisa izingane; nokuya esikoleni nasemisebenzini yangaphandle ?
Imibono nezinkolelo mayelana nenani kanye nesilinganiso sekhwalithi nezingane zibukhali futhi sibonisa umzabalazo wethu ukuthola ibhalansi empilweni yomndeni. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi sisebenza ngaphandle kwekhaya noma cha, ukuphila komndeni nezingane ezineminyaka esikoleni kuyingozi kakhulu. Kulula ukungena esimisweni esimatasa esisiholela ekuzizwa sizihlukanisiwe nezingane zethu.
Lapho izinhlelo zethu nezibopho zethu zithatha, imizwa yethu ingasishukumisela ukuba silungise umsebenzi womndeni okhethekile ndawonye. Uma sizizwa sengathi silahlekile emhlabeni wezingane, imizwa yethu ingasishukumisela ukuba sixoxe kabusha nomlingani wethu noma sikhulise intshiseko yethu ngokuzikhandla noma ngokuzikhandla. Uma imizwa enzima isisiqondisa ukuba silungise ukulinganisa empilweni yethu kanye nobuningi kanye nesilinganiso sesikhathi sethu nengane yethu, izinyathelo ezimbalwa ezilula zizosibuyisela emuva.
Vumela ukuba ujabule njengomntwana.
Uma ukhohliwe kanjani, unomfundisi ophelele kumntanakho. Vumela ingane yakho ikuholele emhlabeni wakhe omnandi.
Into ayithandayo iyomisa kabusha leyo ngane kuwe; bese-ke, hamba nawe.
Hlela izikhathi ezimnandi ndawonye.
Beka esimisweni futhi ujabulele ukuhlela nokulindela umsebenzi womndeni ojabulisayo . Uma kufika isikhathi, faka zonke izibopho zakho engqondweni yakho, uphumule futhi ube nesikhathi esihle. Kuyangisiza ukuba ngibhale phansi uhlu lwami lokuzokwenza emva kwalokho ukuze ngisuse ingqondo yami.
Thatha isikhathi emini.
Uma umsebenzi wakho uvumela, thatha isidlo sasemini kanye ngenyanga bese uphatha ingane yakho kanye nawe ngokwesikhashana ndawonye. Uma ungenalo lolu hlobo lokuguquguquka, thola izindlela zokuvumela ingane yakho ukuthi uyicabanga ngaye emini. Ungenza amanothi wezinsuku zamasondo noma uhlole ngocingo usuku ngalunye.
Isihluthulelo ukuthola izindlela zokuchitha isikhathi esimnandi ndawonye, ukuhleka nokudlala futhi uphinde uxhumane nengane yakho. Elinye lamasu engiwuthandayo ngesikhathi esengeziwe somatasa emsebenzini ukuhlela izingane esikoleni sokufunda esikoleni ngemuva kokufunda esikoleni. Uma sonke sifika ekhaya, singasebenzisa isikhathi sokuphumula ndawonye kunokuba sisebenze ngomsebenzi wesikole. Thola imibono yokwenza umndeni womndeni ubusuku obumnandi obungahle uhlele. Kodwa, ngaphezu kwakho konke, thola izindlela zokuphumula futhi ujabulele ukuchitha isikhathi nengane yakho njalo. Uzothola lowo mzwa wokulinganisela empilweni yakho yomndeni futhi ujabule ngesikhathi esifanayo.