Ngisho nezingane ungakwazi ukuphuma uphinde ujabule nomlingani wakho
Kuyinto yokuphazamiseka kokugcina. Kubazali abaningi bezingane ezincane, ubusuku obusuku buzwakala njengento yokunethezeka engakwazi ngisho nokucabanga ukucabanga ngalesi sikhathi. Kodwa ubusuku obusika kanye nesikhathi esedwa yinto abazali bezingane ezincane abadinga kakhulu kunanini ngaphambili. Ikhefu - nje amahora ambalwa - lihamba ngendlela ende yokubuyisela nokukhulisa umshado nobuhlobo.
Kungaba nzima, noma kunjalo. Ngoba uma usukwazi ukukhipha isikhathi phakathi komsebenzi esikoleni nasemva kokuhlelwa kwesikole, usenayo izintaba ezimbalwa ukunqoba: ukuthola umntanami nokucabanga ukuthi yini okufanele uyenze. Uma usuthole umntanami (noma unenhlanhla ngokwanele yokuba nomndeni noma abangane abaseduzane) ukukhetha lapho uya khona kungaba nzima, ikakhulukazi uma ungafuni ukuchitha imali eningi (ikakhulukazi kulabo abachitha imali kumsana !).
Noma kunjalo ubusuku obuseduze nomlingani wakho noma umlingani kubalulekile. Ngakho-ke yizindlela eziyishumi ezijabulisayo, zokudala, nezindleko zokufakela ngesikhathi esithile semfanelo. Yenza umzamo, uzojabula ujabule!
- Hit isitolo sezincwadi zendawo. Lezi zinsuku, iningi lamabhuku ezincwadi azigcini nje ukuthengisa amabhuku, yizindawo zokuzijabulisa eziphelele ngamakholomu futhi zihlala nomculo. Thatha itafula, iziphuzo ezimbalwa, nesidla bese uchitha isikhathi esithile ukuxoxa nabantu bebukele. (Azikho izincwadi ezidingekayo, nakuba kunjalo nakhona!)
- Volunteer. Ingabe kukhona imbangela oyithandayo kokubili? Noma mhlawumbe omunye wenu ungathanda ukwethula omunye kuwo? Thatha ekuseni noma ntambama ukusiza kangcono umphakathi. Akubandakanye nenhlangano ethize? Hamba epaki yendawo bese uhlanza ngokwakho, noma uthinte isiphephelo sezilwane bese ubona ukuthi badinga noma yikuphi usizo ngosuku. Cabanga endaweni yangakini!
- Ukuzivocavoca ndawonye. Noma okungenani hamba ukuhamba. Uma wena noshade naye niyindlela esebenzayo, sebenzisa isikhathi ndawonye ndawonye ukuze nifanele! Hamba ukuhamba, ukugibela ibhayisikili, ngisho nokubhukuda endaweni yokuzivocavoca noma indawo yomphakathi.
- Ubusuku be-Movie ekhaya. Uma ungeke ukwazi ukuthola umsizi (noma ngisho noma ungakwazi!) Lokhu kulula futhi akubizi. Shisha isevisi yakho yokusakaza okuthandayo, ukuhleleka kokudla noma wenze okuthile okukhethekile, futhi ubuke i-movie noma iziqephu ezimbalwa zesiboniso sakho ozithandayo. Uma kungabikho umntwana obatholakali, linda kuze izingane zilele ngaphambi kokuba uqale.
- Yiya esitolo. Akuyona ngempela ukuthenga, nakuba lokho kuhle kakhulu! Hamba, uhamba ngezindawo, ungenalo injongo yangempela engqondweni, Ukuthengwa nezingane kungabangela ukucindezeleka futhi kube nenhloso eningi. Thatha isikhathi sokuphumula futhi ujabulele. Hamba inkantolo yokudla isiphuzo futhi mhlawumbe abanye ababukele abantu.
- Vakashela i-museum. Uke wavakashela imyuziyamu nezingane zakho? Akuyona into efana nayo lapho uhamba nomunye umuntu omdala. Sebenzisa amahora ambalwa uhamba phakathi kwemiboniso, ubheke ngokuzenzekelayo lokho ofuna ukukubona. Khuluma ngalokho okubukayo, kanye nokuthi yini oyithandayo futhi ongayithandi. Uma usuqedile, hamba phansi esitolo sesipho bese uthatha isikhashana somdlalo wakho wokuzijabulisa! (Futhi hlola iwebhusayithi ye-museum ngaphambi kokuba uhambe, abaningi banikeza izaphulelo nezinsuku zamahhala.)
- Vuka indawo yakho. Kuwo wonke amadolobha (ngisho nezincane!) Kunezindawo zendawo "zezivakashi" abantu abahlala lapho abonakala bengasisebenzisi. Ngakho-ke uma kuyisibungu sebhishi noma iminyuziyamu engabonakali ukuthi ufika kuyo, thatha isikhathi sokuyenza!
- Hamba ngokushayela. Yenza uhlu lwadlalwayo, khetha indawo ozoyiyo, bese uphuma! Awudingi ngisho nokuphuma emotweni uma ufika. Vele uchithe isikhathi emotweni ndawonye, uhlabelele izingoma ezizithandayo, ukhulume, ujabulele ukuchitha isikhathi ndawonye.
- Yiba nomdlalo ebusuku. Ukuzijabulisa komndeni womndeni kusihlwa, kepha kunjalo nalabo oshade nabo! Emva kokuba izingane zilele zidlala umdlalo obabili owujabulela.
- Funda omunye nomunye. Lokhu kungu-oh-okhethekile. Khetha incwadi oyithandayo futhi uphenduke ngokuzwakalayo. Ngemva kokuqeda isahluko, xoxani. Lokhu ungakwenza ekhaya noma ngaphandle - empeleni noma iyiphi indawo ethule ezokuvumela ukuba ugxile.