Ukufundisa izingane ukubaluleka kwezinto ezingekho izinto ezibonakalayo ezweni le-gimme
Kuye kwaba nezingxoxo eziningi emashumini eminyaka edlule mayelana "ne-influlux," igama elihlanganisiwe kusuka kuma-mash-up lamagama athi "ukuthatha" kanye "nomkhuhlane." I-Affluenza iye ichazwe ngokuthi isimo "sokudluliselwa emphakathini" noma "esithathelwanayo" lapho abantu bazizwa bengagcwaliseki, begcwele ngokweqile futhi bagxiliwe ngenxa yesifiso esihlala njalo sokuceba futhi bathole izinto ezibonakalayo ezengeziwe.
Kuye kwachazwa njengokuntuleka kwesisusa noma ukufaneleka kwamalungelo abo abazuze njengefa noma benze imali eningi.
Abahlaziyi bokuthengwa kwempahla baye baveza nemithelela yomphakathi kanye nemvelo ye-influenza, ehlanganisa ukuguqulwa kwamanzi, ukuchitha (okubangelwa ukukhiqizwa, ukuthenga, nokukhipha izimpahla ezingaphezu kwempahla kanye nezinto ezibonakalayo ekuphishekeleni ukuba nokuningi), futhi igebe elikhulayo phakathi ama-haves kanye ne-non-nots.
Leli gama elithi affluenza lihamba phambili futhi, ngenxa yecala lika-Ethan Couch, intsha eneminyaka engu-16 ubudala owagwetshwa iminyaka engu-10 ukuhlolwa kokushayela ngesikhathi ephuzile futhi ebulala abantu abane futhi elimaza ababili ngokugxeka. Abameli bakhe babeke bathi umfana osemusha futhi ocebile wayebe yisisulu sokuphila okungathí sina nokukhuliswa okungakafaki imiphumela yokuziphatha okubi.
Ingabe i-influluenza iholela kubantwana abaphangiwe?
Izingxoxo mayelana ne-influenza ziye zahluka ngokuthi kungabizwa yini ukugula kwangempela noma akunjalo (akusikho kwi-Manual Diagnostic and Statistical, noma i-DSM, enyatheliswa yi-American Psychiatric Association), noma ngabe ukuxhuma phakathi kwe-influluenza nokuziphatha okubi kubantu, ikakhulukazi ezinganeni.
Ngenkathi kunikezwa izinto eziningi ezibonakalayo ngokuqinisekile kungaba nomthelela ezinganeni eziba yingozi, cishe kungenzeka ukuthi izingane zivuma-futhi zingabeki imingcele noma ziba nemiphumela uma zihlukumezeka-mhlawumbe zingaphezulu, noma ngaphezulu indlela izingane eziphuma ngayo. Iminye imindeni enemali ingaba nezingane ezinhle, ezinomqondo omuhle onabantu abahle, abanomusa ngenkathi eminye imindeni ephakathi kwezigaba eziphakathi-noma ezingenayo ephansi ingaba nabantwana ababi, abanobugovu nabahahayo abazizwa benelungelo.
Ngamanye amazwi, i-influluenza ingaba yisikhathi esetshenzisiwe kubantu abacebile kodwa kubalulekile ukuphawula ukuthi noma ubani angakwazi ukuhlupheka kulo. Noma ubani ochitha imali enkulu yokukhokha ukuze athenge izinto ezingase azidinge, noma ubani ocabanga ukuthi ukuphila kuyoba ngcono kakhulu uma bephethe izinto ezibonakalayo kuphela (izingubo ezingaphezu kwezimpahla, indlu enkulu, izinto eziningi zokugcwalisa indlu yabo) ukuphila ngokuphishekela imantra ukuthi imali ilingana nenjabulo.
Indlela Yokuvimbela I-influenza
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uyavuma ukuthi izingane zingathola i-influluenza, nakanjani uzokuzama ukwenza konke ongakwenza ukuze uqiniseke ukuthi ungaphazamisi izingane zakho futhi ugcine nomntwana ozizwa sengathi kufanele abe nakho konke akufunayo, uma efuna. Kukhona izinto ezimbalwa ezingathandekayo kunomntwana ongabongi ngaso sonke isikhathi, othanda njalo, futhi ohahayo njalo. Uma i-influluenza yinto yangempela, nansi izinyathelo ezibalulekile ongazithatha ukuze uqinisekise ukuthi ingane yakho ingcolisiwe.
Fundisa Ukubaluleka Kwemali
Ingabe leyo ntoyi entsha idinga into ehambisana nesabelomali somndeni ? Umndeni usebenza kanjani ndawonye ukuze unqume ukuthi ungakwazi yini noma awukwazi ukuchitha imali? Futhi kuyini ukubaluleka kokulondoloza imali nokusebenza kanzima kuso? Izingane zidinga ukufunda lezi nezinye izifundo ezibalulekile ngemali.
Ngisho nabasenkulisa nabasesikoleni samabanga aphansi bangaqala ukufunda ngemali bese baqala ukuqonda ukuthi yimali nokuthi kanjani noma ingasetshenziswa kanjani.
Fundisa Ukuziphatha Okuhle
Abantu abagxile kulokho abafuna ukuthenga nokuthi yini abayifunayo ngokwabo bancane amathuba okuzithiba nokuziphatha. Ukufundisa izingane ukuthi ungaba nesineke kanjani, ube nemikhuba emihle yetafula , ukucabangela abanye abantu kungenakwenzeka ukuthi kungabonakali futhi kube nobugovu njalo.
Yenza Izinto Zonke Akubandakanyi Ukuthenga Izinto
Sonke sithenga okuthile esikufunayo noma esikudingayo manje kodwa sizama ukugcina isikhathi somndeni esitolo. Yenza imisebenzi yomndeni ejabulisayo efana nokudlala imidlalo yebhodi noma ukudlala umdlalo ongaphandle wokuzijabulisa (noma ubusika noma umsebenzi wokuwa , kuye ngenkathi).
Yenza ukudla okunempilo ndawonye ukuze ufundise ngokudla okunempilo , noma wenze amakhemikhali amnandi ukugqugquzela izingane ukuba zisebenzise imicabango yazo futhi zisebenze ngamakhono amahle.
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Yala ingane yakho
Izingane ezinemikhawulo nemithwalo yemfanelo (njengemisebenzi yomsebenzi) zijabule kunalabo abangaqeqeshiwe. Ukuyala izingane akusho ukusho noma ukujezisa njalo; kusho ukuzinikeza isiqondiso esihle nesakhiwo, ukuphoqelela imiphumela uma bephule imithetho futhi bazisize zibe izingane ezinhle ezizokhula zibe abantu abadala abahle. Uma uke wabona umntwana owonakele-mhlawumbe ingane enesifo sofuba-ovunyelwe ukwenza ngendlela ayithanda ngayo, akungabazeki ukuthi ubonile isibonelo esicacile sokuthi kungani sidinga ukuyala izingane . Esinye seziphambeko ezinkulu esizenzayo njengabazali ukungaqondisi ingane nhlobo.
Fundisa Indlela Yokusiza Abanye
Ingane ehlala icabanga ngalokho ayifunayo futhi ihlale ifuna ukuthokozisa okusheshayo ingase isebenzise umthamo wangempela. Mfundise ukuthi abone ukuthi yini ephakathi kwakhe, kubantu abasemphakathini wakhe noma esikoleni noma edolobheni noma edolobheni abangenalutho kakhulu futhi badinga usizo. Mkhulume ngezinye zezindlela angazivolontiya , njengokunikela ngezincwadi ezindala nezingubo, noma ngokusiza umakhelwane osekhulile ukuba athole ukudla. Mbonise ukuthi ungaba kanjani usizo , futhi wabeka isibonelo ngokusebenza naye ukusiza abanye abaseduze nawe.