Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uyadla ekhaya, udla, noma udla ukudla nabangani, imikhuba emihle yetafula yezingane yingxenye ebalulekile yodlo lonke ukudla. Uma ufundisa ingane yakho imikhuba emihle yetafula, ubanika amathuluzi abalulekile ekuxhumaneni komphakathi okuzobakhonza kuzo zonke izimpilo zabo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukubeka isisekelo sobuhle obuhle etafuleni lokudla kusho ukuthi izingane zakho ziyoba ngamakhasimende amaningi amnandi ekudleni komndeni eminyakeni ezayo.
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1. Woza etafuleni ngezandla zakhe nobuso buhlanzekile. Fundisa izingane zakho njalo ukugeza ngaphambi kokudla, kusho uPatricia Rossi, umbhali we-Everyday Etiquette. Lokhu akubonisi nje ukuhlonipha umuntu olungiselela ukudla kanye nabanye etafuleni lokudla, kodwa futhi kuyindlela evamile yokuhlanzeka enhlanzekile .
2. Cela njalo uma kukhona ongakwenza. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ekhaya noma indlu yomunye umuntu, njalo ubuze abantu abadala uma ungasiza ukwenza noma yini ukuze ulungele isidlo sakusihlwa.
3. Uma uhlela itafula, khumbula BMW. Izingane ezindala ngokwanele ukusiza ukusetha itafula zingakhumbula ukuthi izinto zihamba kanjani nalo mthetho olula: BMW. Isinkwa nobisi kuya ngakwesobunxele namanzi ngakwesokudla. Bangakwazi futhi ukukhumbula lapho i-silverware ihamba khona nenani lezinhlamvu ngamazwi "ngakwesokunxele" futhi "ngakwesokudla," kusho uRoss. Imfoloko ihamba ngakwesobunxele futhi inezinhlamvu ezine. Ummese uqhubeka ngakwesokudla futhi unezinhlamvu ezinhlanu.
4. Buka umphathi ukuze ubone lapho kufanele uvule i-napkin yakho. Uma ebeka i-napkin yakhe ekhayeni lakhe, lokho kuyisignali ukuthi ubeke i-napkin yakho ngeyakho.
5. Linda kuze kube yilapho wonke umuntu ekhonzwa ngaphambi kokudla. Tshela ingane yakho ukuba ingalokothi idle kuze kube yilapho wonke umuntu ehlezi futhi ekhonza.
6. Ungalokothi uhlabe umlomo wakho uvule. Ukuhlafuna ngomlomo wakho kuvaliwe futhi ungakhulumi uma umlomo wakho ugcwele yimithetho emibili ekhadini yemikhuba emihle yetafula.
7. Ungalokothi ubeke umlomo wakho. Fundisa ingane yakho ukuthatha izinyembezi ezincane futhi ungalokothi uyivule ukudla kwayo.
8. Ungaphazamisi lapho omunye ekhuluma. Etafuleni lokudla, yenza umntanakho ukuba alinde ithuba lokukhuluma lapho ekhuluma ngosuku lwabo noma enye indaba. Yenza izingane zibe umkhuba wokukhuluma ngezindaba, abangane babo, ukuthi isikole sasikhona, nezinye izihloko ezithakazelisayo.
9. Ungalokothi ufinyelele ukuthola okuthile. Khumbuza ingane yakho ukuthi ingalokothi ifinyelele ngaphesheya kwetafula ukuze ithole usawoti noma yini enye ayidingayo. Menze umkhuba wokucela abalingani betafula ukuba badlulise into ayidingayo.
10. Faka i-napkin esihlalweni, hhayi itafula. Fundisa ingane yakho njalo ukufaka i-napkin esihlalweni sayo uma ifuna ukusebenzisa indlu yokudlela. Akufanele neze uhambe epulatifomu yakhe noma etafuleni.
11. Phakamisa njalo isihlalo sakhe lapho usuqedile. Uma evuka etafuleni, kufanele avuse isihlalo sakhe emuva etafuleni.
12. Hlala uthatha ipuleti yakho bese uthi ngiyabonga. Lena umkhuba obalulekile wokuthola ingane yakho ekhaya ngoba uma iba yingxenye yesimiso sakhe, cishe uyokwenza uma ehambela emzini womunye umuntu. Uma usendaweni yokudlela, fundisa ingane yakho ukuba ihlangane naso futhi isho ukuthi "ngiyabonga." "Siyakhuthaza izingane zethu ukuba zenzele zona futhi zithi ngiyabonga," kusho uRoss.
"Uma bengakwenzi, abawutholi ukudlala."
Imikhuba emihle yethebula, njengemikhuba emihle ngokujwayelekile, izokwaziswa ngabantu abahlangana nomntanakho. Mfundise ukuthi uma ebonisa inhlonipho ngabanye, uzothola izinto ezinhle ngokubuyisela.