Enye yezinto ezibaluleke kakhulu esingayenza njengabazali ifundisa izingane zethu ukuthi zingabasiza kanjani . Ukufundisa izingane ukuzithandela akusizi nje ukuzenza zibe ngabantu abalungile , kodwa futhi kubatshela izifundo ezibalulekile ezifana nendlela yokubonga izinto abanayo (umndeni, ikhaya, ukudla, nendawo yokukhosela, nezinye izinto eziyisisekelo ukuthi labo abahluphekile ukungabi nalutho), futhi ubakhuthaze ukuba babe nozwela kwabanye.
Indlela Yokukhetha Umsebenzi Wokuzithandela Wengane Yakho
Esinye isici okufanele usikhumbule ukuhlanganisa umsebenzi wokuzithandela obuntwini bomuntu, amakhono, kanye nezithakazelo zakhe. Isibonelo, uma ingane yakho isencane kakhulu, imisebenzi yokuzithandela edinga amahora omsebenzi wenyama angase ingabi kahle. Uma ethanda ukuba asebenze futhi angathanda ukuphuma ngaphandle, ukuhlanganyela epaki yokuhlanza noma ukugibela ibhayisikili noma ibhayisikili ngebhayisikili-a-thon kungaba indlela ejabulisayo ukuba asize abanye.
Ungase futhi ufune ukucabangela imisebenzi evumela ukuthi uzinikele ndawonye njengomndeni. Ukusebenza ndawonye njengomndeni ukusiza abanye akuyona nje indlela enhle yokubeka ingane yakho isibonelo, kodwa kuyindlela enhle yokuchitha isikhathi ndawonye futhi ujabule ukwenza okuthile okuzuzisa abanye.
Nazi ezinye imibono yezenzo zokuzithandela ezinkulu zezingane:
Ukuqoqa Ukudla Okuphawulwe
Amasonto amaningi wendawo kanye nezikhungo zomphakathi zinikeza ngokuqondile noma zibe nomugqa emaqenjini ahlanganisa imizamo yokusiza ezindaweni zokuhlala zendawo kanye nezinye izinhlaka ezihlinzeka imindeni kanye nabantu abadinga usizo.
Izingane zakho zingangena ekuthengeni nawe ukuze ukhethe izinto zokunikela, ezifana nokudla okusemathinini, ama-crackers, i-diapers, nokuningi, bese kukusiza ukuthi ulethe lezo zimpahla zokusabalalisa.
Ukunikela Amathoyizi Asetshenziswayo Namabhuku
Izingane zingabuye zibukeze izindlu eziseduze kodwa zingasasetshenziswa, njengamathoyizi kanye nezingubo abaye bazenza.
Ukuhamba noma Ukugibela Usizo
Nakhu umqondo omuhle wokuthi izingane zingenza kanjani umehluko futhi zilungele ngesikhathi esifanayo: hamba-tons noma ibhayisikili-a-thons. Izinhlangano eziningi zezwe ezifana neJajile Diabetes Research Foundation (JDRF) kanye nomphakathi waseMelika weCancer ziphethe umndeni kanye nabantwana abahamba ngezinyawo, nezibhedlela ezinjengeScott Sloan Kettering, okunikela ngemali engamaphesenti angu-100 emali evela ekuhambeni kwabo kuya ekuhloleni komdlavuza wezingane , hlela imicimbi yokuhamba emadolobheni amaningana.
Izinzuzo zokubamba iqhaza ekuhambeni- noma ngebhayisikili-a-thon zihamba ngaphezu komncintiswano uqobo. Ngaphandle kokunikeza izingane ukuziqhenya nokufeza lapho behlanganyela emcimbini onjengale, ukuqeqesha ukuhamba nomama nobaba kungaba yindlela enhle kakhulu yokuthi imindeni ichithe isikhathi ndawonye ngenkathi ithola kahle.
Ukuhlanza Amapaki
Njengoba izingane zikhula, zingabamba iqhaza ekuhlanzeni imicimbi epaki. Ngisho nezingane ezincane zingasiza ngokuqoqa udoti. Xhumana nepaki yakho yendawo ukuze ubone ukuthi imiphi imindeni engabamba iqhaza kuyo.
Ukusebenza eJenjini Lomphakathi
Ukusiza izimbali zezitshalo, imifino kanye nezinye izinto ezikhulayo ngumsebenzi omuhle wabantwana. Bazozuza umqondo omkhulu wokufeza njengoba bebuka imiphumela yomsebenzi wabo bekhula, futhi bazokwazi ukuchitha isikhathi ngaphandle kwemvelo ngenkathi benza okuthile okubalulekile emphakathini.
Ukusiza omakhelwane
Izingane zingazinikela ngokuzithandela ukusiza omakhelwane asebekhulile ngokugubha umgwaqo wazo noma ngokusiza umama nobaba ukuba bhakaze ukusebenzisana nomama noma ubaba ukuba bathathe kubo. Izingane ezindala zingasiza ukusiza abantwana abancane bendawo noma bazisize bafunde ukufunda. (Usizo lomntanakho lungabongwa ngokukhethekile ngumama ongashadile osebenzayo noma umndeni omatasa ukunakekela ingane entsha noma umzali osekhulile.)
Noma ngabe yini umsebenzi wena nomntanakho enquma ukuyenza ukuze ungene, ukusiza omakhelwane kuyindlela enhle yokuba ingane yakho ingatholi ukuziqhenya nokuzihlonipha kodwa kuyindlela enhle yokwenza ubungane nabantu emphakathini wakho.