Okufanele Ukwenze Uma Ukholelwa Izingane Zakho Zisesengozini
Uma ukwesaba ngempela ukuphepha kwezingane zakho, kumele ukhulume ngokukhathazeka kwakho. Kodwa wazi phambili ukuthi kungaba khona impumelelo. Ake sihlole.
Izinhlobo Zokukhathazeka Izinkantolo Zizibheka Njengomthetho
Uma wesaba ukuthi i-ex yakho ingozi kuwe noma izingane zakho, inkantolo izophatha lolu daba njengokukhathazeka okusemthethweni nangokweqile. Ngokuvamile, abahluleli baqaphele kakhulu ukuphenya ngokusobala ngezinsolo zokuhlukunyezwa, izinsongo zobudlova, nanoma yiluphi uhlobo lwezobudlova basekhaya ngaphambi kokunquma ukugcinwa kwengane.
Lokhu kusho nokuthi ngaphambi kokuba unikeze amalungelo okugcina noma amalungelo okuvakashela okwedlule, ijaji lizophenywa ngezinsolo ukuqinisekisa ukuthi awukwenzi. Izinsizakalo zokuvikela umndeni nazo zingabandakanyeka ukusiza uphenyo. Inkantolo kanye / noma izinsizakalo zokuzivikela ezinganeni zingathintana nomakhelwane bakho, amalungu omndeni anwetshiwe, ngisho nabafundisi bezingane zakho ngomzamo wokuqinisekisa indaba yakho.
Ngalesi sikhathi, ijaji lingavumela umzali osolwa ukuthi asebenzise isikhathi nezingane zakho. Kwezinye izimo, ukuvakashelwa kungabhekwa noma kwenzeke esimweni sokungathathi hlangothi ukuqinisekisa ukuphepha kwabantwana.
Indlela Yokuzivikela Ngama-Ex Yakho Ukuthi Ubhekisa Amanga
Ungathatha izinyathelo eziningana ukusekela icala lakho uma uqobo lwakho likuphikisa ukuthi wenza izinsolo zamanga. Uma i-ex yakho ikuhlukumezile noma ingane yakho esikhathini esidlule, kufanele uqinisekise ukuthi unemibhalo ebonisa lokhu. Lokhu kungabandakanya imibiko yamaphoyisa, amarekhodi wezokwelapha, noma ubufakazi obuvela kubantu abakwaziyo futhi abangakhuluma ngokuhlukunyezwa.
Uma ingane yakho ivakashele udokotela noma udokotela ukuze aphathe izimpawu zokuhlukunyezwa, thola amarekhodi okuvakashelwa ukubonisa ijaji.
Uma ingane yakho iqhubeka ibonisa izimpawu zokuhlukunyezwa noma ukuhlukunyezwa, kufanele uthathe ingane yakho kumchwepheshe wezokwelapha noma wezempilo yengqondo ukuze uhlole. Uchwepheshe uzobuyekeza icala lomntanakho futhi angethula umbono wezobuchwepheshe ukusekela isimangalo sakho.
Ezimweni eziphikisanayo phambi kwejaji, ijaji lingalaya omunye umhlinzeki ukuba ahlole ingane yakho ukuthola umbono wesibili. Ngeshwa, lokhu kusho ukuthi ingane yakho ingase ibe ngaphansi kokuhlola okuningi kanye nezingxoxo ukuqinisekisa ukuhlukunyezwa noma ukulimala.
Indlela Yokuvikela Izingane Zakho
Uma ukwesaba ukuphepha kwezingane zakho noma ukhathazekile ngekhono lomunye umzali lokunakekela izingane zakho lapho ungekho, kufanele ukhulume ngokushesha ngalezi zinkinga kumjaji. Uma ungakafaki esitokisini, ungabeka i-custody enkantolo, uchaze ukwesaba kwakho, futhi unikeze icala lokugcinwa komzimba kanye nokuvakashelwa okulinganiselwe. Kodwa-ke, kuzodingeka unikeze ubufakazi bokusekela izimangalo zakho, ezifana nemilayezo yombhalo, imilayezo yezwi, kanye nama-akhawunti wokufakaza.
Uma ukuhlukunyezwa kwakho noma kusongela ukulimaza wena noma izingane zakho, ungacela i-oda lokuzivikela, ngezinye izikhathi elibizwa ngokuthi ukuvimbela i-oda. Ungakwazi ukufaka i-oda lokuzivikela enkantolo yokuphatha icala lakho (noma inkantolo yomndeni oseduze nawe). Ngokujwayelekile, umyalelo wesikhashana uzokhishwa uma umuntu ehlukunyezwa noma esongelwa, futhi umyalelo wokugcina uzokhishwa emva kokulalela okusemthethweni ngosuku oluthile. Ngisho ne-oda lokuzivikela endaweni, i-ex yakho ingahle iphule i-oda futhi isondele wena noma izingane zakho.
Kodwa-ke, uma i-ex yakho iphula i-oda, ibhekene nemiphumela emibi, kufaka phakathi isikhathi sejele.