Umhlahlandlela wabazali wokubhala Ukukhuthazela Izincwadi Kubantwana
Uma ubhalela ingane yakho incwadi, ingaba imilingo! Ikhuluma ngothando, ukuziqhenya, nokuzibophezela ngaphandle kwamandla amazwi akhulunywa nsuku zonke.
Kungumqondo omuhle wokwenza izincwadi zokubhala ezinganeni zakho umcimbi waminyaka yonke, kungaba ngamazinsuku zabo zokuzalwa noma ngamaholide. Indodana noma indodakazi yakho, kuyoba ngaphezu kwesinye isiko lomndeni. Incwadi ngayinye iyindlela ebonakalayo yothando lwakho nokuziqhenya, kuhlangene nethemba namaphupho onayo ngekusasa labo. Bangase bakhethe ngisho nebhokisi elilodwa eliphuma ngaphandle kwe-keepsake eminyakeni engama-20 futhi bakhunjuzwe ukuthi bayabaluleke kangakanani kuwe.
Incwadi yakho inganikeza isikhuthazo ngamazwi ayisishiyagalombili alula ukuthi zonke izingane kufanele zizwe.
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"Uthando"Yebo, ufuna ukutshela ingane yakho ukuthi uzizwa kanjani futhi "uthando" mhlawumbe igama elibaluleke kakhulu ongayisebenzisa. Ngisho noma "Ngiyakuthanda" into oyisho nsuku zonke, umlayezo udluliselwa ngokuhlukile uma amagama ebelwana ngokubhala.
Isibonelo, ungase uthi:
- Kunzima kimi ukuchaza okuningi engikuthandayo!
- Ukuba umzali wakho kube yisinye sezipho ezinkulu kakhulu empilweni yami.
- Akukho lutho oluzoshintsha ukuthi ngizizwa kanjani ngawe.
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"Phawula"Abazali "bayaqaphela" okuningi ngezingane zabo njengoba bekhula, kodwa kaningi kangakanani ubheka ngakho futhi ubatshele ngakho? Yabelana ngalokho okuqaphele muva nje mayelana nokuziphatha kwabo noma ukuvuthwa encwadini yakho. Ukhule kanjani? Iziphi izici ezinhle ozibonayo ezikhulayo?
Isibonelo, ungase ukhombe:
- Ukupha indodana yakho inezingane zakubo
- Umusa indodakazi yakho ibonisa abangane bayo
- Ukuvuthwa oye wabona ngendlela ingane yakho ilawula ngayo izingxabano
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"Jabulela"Kuzo zonke izigaba zokuthuthukiswa kwazo, kunezinto ozithandayo "zokwenza nomntanakho. Encwadini yakho, chaza into ekhethekile oyenzayo ndawonye njengamanje. Ukwazi ukuthi uthanda ukwenza into abayithandayo kuyosho okuningi. Kuzosiza futhi ukufaka lolo hlobo kwisimo lapho belifunda futhi eminyakeni ezayo.
Cabanga ngezinto ezilula eziletha ukumomotheka ebusweni bakho nangabo:
- Ukudlala imidlalo
- Ukupheka ndawonye
- Ukufunda ndawonye
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"Ziziqhenye"Yisho ngokuqondile uma uchaza ukuthi yini eyenza "uziqhenye." Lokhu kuyinto sonke esilangazelela ukuyizwa, futhi amagama azokondla izingane lapho befunda iminyaka le ncwadi kusukela manje.
Isibonelo, ungase uveze ukuziqhenya kwengane yakho:
- Ubuhlobo bomphakathi
- Intuthuko yezifundo noma ukuziphatha komsebenzi
- Amakhono okudlala noma amathalenta ahlukahlukene
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"Siyabonga"Encwadini ngayinye eya kumntanakho, yabelana ngezinkumbulo ezimbalwa 'ozithandayo.' Lezi yizikhathi ezithinta kakhulu kuwe futhi zingase zingaboni ukuthi isikhathi esithile sikhethekile kangakanani. Izindaba zakho zizoxoxisana iqiniso ngendlela ekhumbulekayo kunanoma yikuphi ukuncoma okungavunyelwe.
Isibonelo, ungafaka:
- Imemori yeholide eyabiwe
- Umbono awusoze ukhohlwa
- Isikhathi lapho uqaphela ukuthi ingane yakho ikhulile ngandlela-thile.
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"Ithemba"Cishe ube "nethemba" eliningi ngekusasa lomntanakho. Kuhle ukuwazisa mayelana namathemba akho namaphupho abo, kodwa akudingeki kube yinto enkulu kakhulu.
Zama ukubeka ingcindezi engadingekile kubo ngento ethi, "Ngithemba ukuthi uba udokotela." Kunalokho, nikeza isikhuthazo kulokho okubonayo okwamanje:
- Izinethemba zakho zobungane bengane yakho
- Ithemba lakho ngokubona komntwana wakho ngamakhono akhe
- Amathemba akho mayelana namaphupho akhe
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"Kholwa"Kubalulekile ukuthi izingane zakho zikwazi ukuthi "ukholwa" kuzo. Sebenzisa incwadi yakho njengethuba lokuhlanganyela ukuzethemba kwakho kwengane yakho, kanye nezinkolelo eziqhubeka zikugqugquzela wena uqobo.
Isibonelo, ungafaka:
- Izinkolelo zakho siqu ngekusasa lakhe
- Ivesi noma ivesi elikhuthazayo elikhuluma ngalesi sikhathi empilweni yakhe
- Ukucaphuna okukuthinte wena ngokwakho
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"Thembisa"Igama elithi "isithembiso" liyinkimbinkimbi encane ngoba kukhona nakanjani izithembiso ongazenzeki ezinganeni zakho. Uma isetshenziswe ngendlela efanele, noma kunjalo, "Ngiyathembisa" izitatimende zingabonisa ukuzinikezela ngendlela ecacile futhi egcwele.
Cabanga ngezithembiso owaziyo ongazigcina:
- Ngithembisa ukuthi ngizokuthanda njalo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yini.
- Ngithembisa ukulalela lokho okushoyo.
- Ngiyathembisa ukucabangela njalo imizwa yakho bese uzama ukubona izinto kusuka ekuboneni kwakho.