Izinhlobo Zamaqembu Asekela Abazali Abantwana Abadinga Izidingo Ezikhethekile

Khetha iqembu elihlangabezana nezidingo zakho

Uma ungumzali wengane enezidingo ezikhethekile, ungase uzizwe uhlukanisiwe futhi uwedwa. Kodwa ukholwe noma cha, kunezidingo ezikhethekile zezidingo ezikhethekile zezigidi ezingu-6.6 ezikoleni zomphakathi zaseMelika, okwenza cishe amaphesenti angu-13 esikoleni samabanga. Ecabanga ukuthi abazali ababili nganezinyane, kunento efana nabazali abayizigidi ezingu-13 ezidinga izidingo ezikhethekile e-United States (banike noma uthathe, futhi kunamaphutha amaningi!).

Njengoba kunezidingo eziningi ezikhethekile zemindeni ekhona, kunezinhlobo eziningi zokusekela kanye namaqembu okukhuthaza ukujoyina. Amanye amaqembu ahloselwe ukusekelwa ngokomzwelo kanti amanye asebenza ngokujulile. Ezinye zikhona nje zendawo, kanti ezinye ziyizwe noma zizwe ngezizwe. Ezinye ziphathelene nokugqugquzela kwezombusazwe kanti abanye banikeza izinhlelo zobudlelwano nokuphuma.

Ungase ungenze noma ungeke unqume ukujoyina iqembu lokusekela. Uma wenza, noma kunjalo, unokuningi okukhethayo. Nazi izinhlobo ezahlukene zamaqembu atholakalayo; ukuthola okuhambisana nezidingo zakho, vele ucele nxazonke noma uhlole i-Google!

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Amaqembu Wokusekela Emoya

Kunezizathu eziningi zokuthi kungani imindeni enezidingo ezikhethekile ingase ifune ukwesekwa ngokomzwelo. Ukuthola ingane kunesidingo esikhethekile kungaba nzima futhi kunzima. Ukubhekana nezidingo ezikhethekile kungadala futhi kuphazamise. Ukubhekana nokuwa komndeni osondelene kungazama. Ukusingatha izinkathazo zezezimali kungaba ukukhubazeka. Lapho ubhekene nobunzima obunzima obungokomzwelo, kuhlale kuwusizo ukuhlangana nabanye abaye bakhona futhi benze lokho. Ngezinye izikhathi okuhlangenwe nakho komunye umuntu noma izixazululo kungasiza kakhulu kunanoma isiphi isazi.

Uma isikhathi sifushane, noma uma uzizwa ungakhululekile mayelana nokwabelana ngemizwa yomuntu siqu neqembu lendawo, ungabheka futhi amaqembu asekela inthanethi. Lezi zinikeza ukusekelwa okungase kudingeke ngebhonasi eyengeziwe yokungaziwa. Izinhlangano ezinjengeMzali kuya kumzali empeleni zizokufananisa nomeluleki womzali oye wahlala ngokuhlangenwe nakho okufanayo.

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Amaqembu asekelwe ezikoleni

Izifunda eziningi zesikole zaseMelika zinamaqembu omzali azinikele ngqo emindenini enezidingo ezikhethekile zezifundo. Lawa maqembu, ngokusobala, awaziwa. Kunalokho, inhloso yabo ukuxoxa nokugqugquzela izidingo zezingane ezidinga izidingo ezikhethekile esifundeni sendawo. Bangase futhi bameme izikhulumi ngezihloko ezifanele, kuhlanganise namalungu omsebenzi wesifunda angakwazi ukuphendula ukukhathazeka komzali nemibuzo.

Amaqembu asekelwe ezikoleni, ngenkathi engekho yokwelashwa, angasiza kakhulu. Abazali basekhaya bayazi ngaphezu kwanoma ubani omunye mayelana nokubhekana nezimpikiswano esikoleni, lapho ukuthola khona abahlinzeki abangcono kakhulu, yiziphi izinhlobo zezinhlelo ezitholakalayo, futhi ezifanele isikhathi sakho. Abazali bendawo nabo bangabangane bemvelo, futhi izingane zabo zingase zibe abangane nomntanakho.

Ngaphansi kwalokho, abazali bangase bangavumelani omunye nomunye ngalokho okumele isifunda kufanele sikhokhe noma sikhokhele. Umzali A angase abe nomuzwa oqinile ngamakilasi ahlanganisiwe ngenkathi uMzali B ekhuthaza izinhlelo zokusekela ezikhethekile. Umzali C angaba nengane enezinkinga ezincane ezidinga ulwazi lochwepheshe ngenkathi uMzali D ekhungathekile ngenxa yokuntuleka kwamathuluzi okufundisa okufanele ingane yabo ekhubazekile.

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Amaqembu Esifunda

Ezinye izindawo zisekhaya ezinhlanganweni zokusekela ezihlinzeka ngezinsiza, izinsizakalo, nokusekela kwabazali endaweni ethile. Lezi zivame ukungabi nzuzo ngokusemthethweni okungenani nabasebenzi abathile abakhokhelwayo kanye namavolontiya.

Isibonelo seqembu elinjalo lesifunda yi-Asperger / Autism Network (AANE) ekhonza imindeni enezimele ze-autistic endaweni yaseNew England. Ngaphezu kokunikeza ama-webinars, izikhulumi, nezinsiza, inhlangano ibuye isebenze izinhlelo zeqembu lokusekela abantu abaningi.

Kukhona amaqembu okusekela ngokukhethekile kubazali bamantombazane asebasha, abazali bezintombi ezisencane, abazali bezingane, abazali abaneminyaka eyishumi nambili, abantu abadala abashadile nabantu abane-autism, abadala abangashadile abane-autism-ngamafishana, uma unelungu lomndeni nge-autism uzoba thola iqembu lokusekela ubuso nobuso elibhekene nezinselelo ezifanayo kanye nezinkinga obhekene nazo.

Ukuphazamiseka kwenhlangano yesifunda ukuthi kungase kube ibanga elide ukusuka lapho uhlala khona. Lokho kusho ukuthi kufanele uhambisane neqembu lakho lokusekela noma uxhuma ku-inthanethi.

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Amaqembu Kazwelonke

Izinhlangano zikazwelonke zigcwele ngokugcwele, ezingenanzuzo enkulu, kepha lokho akusho ukuthi abakwazi ukuhlinzeka ukwesekwa kwendawo kubazali. Abanye, njengeziPhawu ze-Easter, i-Variety Club, ne-ARC, isahluko sendawo sinikeza izinsiza eziningi ezahlukene kubazali nezingane.

Ngezinye izindlela, ukuxhuma nenhlangano kazwelonke kungasiza kakhulu. Amalungu abasebenzi baxhunyaniswe nakho futhi banolwazi mayelana nakho konke okuvela ekuvikelekeni kwezenhlalakahle kuya kumasevisi omdala kuya ezindlini, futhi bangasiza ekutholeni izinsizakalo, izimali, izikole, izindlu, izinhlelo, ngisho nokuqashwa kwengane yakho.

Yiqiniso, izinhlangano zikazwelonke ngeke zikwazi ukukunika ulwazi lomzali nomzali noma usekela ukuthi ungathola esikoleni noma eqenjini lendawo. Ngakho-ke kungase kusizakale kakhulu ukuxuba nokufanisa.

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Ukumemezela kanye namaqembu omgomo womphakathi

Amaqembu kanye nezinqubomgomo zomphakathi akuzona amaqembu asekela ngomqondo ovamile wegama. Ngenkathi basiza ukusekela izimali kanye nezinhlelo ezenza impilo yansuku zonke imindeni eminingi ibe khona, ayike ihlinzeke nganoma isiphi iseluleko, amaqembu, noma izinhlelo. Abanye, noma kunjalo, benza okungaphezulu nje kokubamba iqhaza kanye nommeli. Isibonelo, i-American Diabetes Foundation inikeza izinhlelo ezinjengamakamu ehlobo kanye nemicimbi yokuqwashisa, amakhalenda wendawo, kanye nokusiza ngezimali zokwakha.

Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ingane yakho isifo sini, uzothola inhlangano kazwelonke enikezelwe ekusizeni. Ngeke uthole abangane bangakini, kepha uzothola ulwazi, amathuba okuvota ngezinkinga ezikukhathazayo, izikweletu zezimali kanye nezinye izindlela zokusekela imbangela.

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Amaqembu e-Inthanethi Ezimfuneko Eziqondile Nezintshisekelo

Uqala inkambo entsha yokwelashwa kwengane yakho, futhi ufuna abanye behamba ngendlela efanayo. Noma uyahlukana futhi uzama ukuthola ukuthi ungatshela kanjani ingane yakho izidingo ezikhethekile. Noma ufuna ukukhuluma ngokujulile nge-ins futhi ngaphandle kweziphi izindlela zokufundisa eziphumelela kakhulu kubantwana abanokukhubazeka okufunda.

Amathuba ukuthi iqembu lakho lokusekela lendawo ngeke libe usizo olukhulu. Futhi ngeke iqembu lakho lesikole, noma ngisho nenhlangano yakho eqondene ne-disorder yenzwe. Udinga ukuthola abantu owazi kahle ukuthi ukhuluma ngani nokuthi ngubani okhuluma ulimi lwakho.

Uma ubheka iqembu elincanyana kakhulu, elinamandla, eligxile, okukhethwa kukho ukuhamba ku-intanethi. Yilapho uzothola khona abantu abavela kuzo zonke izimo emnyunyweni (nakwamanye amazwe emhlabeni jikelele) abesevele nje bezokwabelana ngokukhathazeka kwakho noma ukuqondisa. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ufuna ukukhuluma ngani , kungenzeka ukuthi kukhona iqembu lakho.