Izinto Engizithanda Ngayo Amawele

Ukuba amawele womzali noma ukuphindaphinda kuyisipiliyoni esiphelele kakhulu. Kunezikhathi eziningi eziyinselele, ngokuqinisekile, kodwa futhi nezikhathi eziningi lapho uzizwa unenhlanhla futhi ubusisiwe ukuba nazo. Lezi ezinye zezinto engizithandayo kakhulu ngokuba ngumama wamawele.

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Izikhali Nezandla
Uqinisekile ukuthi izandla zakho zigcwele amawele. Kodwa kunjalo izingalo nezinhliziyo zakho. Ruth Jenkison / Getty Images

Yonke ingane igcwalisa izinhliziyo zabazali nekhaya ngenjabulo. Yilokho engikuthanda ngempela mayelana namawele noma ngaphezulu. Uthando nenjabulo kuhlanganiswa. Ukubamba amawele amabili ezandleni zami kwakumangalisa kakhulu, cishe ngokungazelelwe, kumnandi. Ukubamba izandla nezincane ezimbili - omunye ngakwesokudla, omunye ngakwesobunxele - ngenkathi ewela emgwaqweni wangenza ngazizwa ngiphelele. Ama-double hugs, kisses aphindwe kabili, umama-in-middle-middle "sandwich" emakhaleni embhedeni ... ukuphila akutholaki okungcono kunaleyo.

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Ukucabanga Okubodwa
Lapho amawele womzali, ungagxila kwisigaba esisodwa ngesikhathi. UStephanie Rausser / Getty Izithombe

Ukubeletha kwenzeka ngezigaba. Kubantu abanengqondo eyodwa, njengami, kulula kakhulu ukuphatha izinsana ezimbili, izingane ezincane noma ezimbili, ngaphezu kokugqoka izidingo zengane nomntwana osemncane. Izigaba zokubeletha zihlangene kakhulu, ngezinye izikhathi, ngoba zisesikhathi sinye, kodwa ngiyayithanda ngaleyo ndlela.

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Ukufezwa okwabiwe
Kuyinto kabili enhle uma amawele ehlanganyela izinto ezibalulekile. Scott Suchman / Getty Izithombe

Kuyinto ejabulisayo njalo ukubona ingane yakho ihlangabezana nento ebaluleke kakhulu. Kodwa uma iziphindwe ezimbili noma ngaphezulu zifeza imigomo yazo kanyekanye, kuyinto enhle yomndeni. Isibonelo, ngangiziqhenya lapho amawele ami amabili enza udumo emakhadini abo okugcina, kepha impumelelo yayihle kakhulu ngoba bejabule omunye nomunye.

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Amahlaya abucala
Kabili amaGiggles namawele. I-Azem Ramadani / i-Getty Images

Kuyinto ejabulisayo kangaka ukuzwa bahlanganyele amahlaya, shayela omunye ngamanye ngamagama okudlala kanye nokudlala indima zabo ezikhethekile. Ngesinye isikhathi lapho beyizingane, ezinyangeni ezingu-10 ubudala, sasihamba emgwaqeni, lapho iziqu zivela ezihlalweni zezimoto esihlalweni sangemuva. Njengoba omunye ehleka, elinye laphuka ngama-giggles; bavuselelana kulo lonke uhambo oluya ekhaya. Yeka ukuthi umsindo othakazelisayo lawo mntwana wawunjani; kusengcono ukuzwa behleka ndawonye, ​​hhayi komunye nomunye, kodwa ngomunye nomunye.

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Ukufana, Kodwa Okuhlukile
Amawele amabili angafana, kepha ahlukile. UJames Woodson / Getty Images

Kuyathakazelisa ukuba ube umbukeli wamawele. Njengoba kufana nokufana okuningi, kodwa umehluko omkhulu kangaka, kuhlale kuthakazelisa ukubona ukuthi zikhula kanjani njengabantu ngabanye . Lapho abazali bama-singleton bangase bathi, "O, ufana nodade wakho owayengaleso sikhathi," abazali beziphindaphinda banesisindo esincane sokuqhathanisa nokuphambene phakathi kwezingane zabo.

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Ibhonasi ye-2-For-1
Okubili kokukhulelwa okulodwa namawele. Amaphikseli amaningi / E + / Getty Izithombe

Okufushane futhi kumnandi. Ukukhulelwa okulodwa = izinsana ezimbili! Into enjalo! Nakuba ukukhulelwa nge-multiples kungase kube nezingozi eziningi, futhi ngezinye izikhathi izinkinga eziningi, kuyinto ephathekayo yezinto ezimbili.

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Isimo Sesimo
Yebo, nginakho. I-Azem Ramadani / i-Getty Imaes

Kulungile, ngiyavuma. Ngiyajabula kakhulu ngokuziqhenya ngokuba ngumama wamawele. Kufana nokuba yingxenye yeqembu elite. Uzwa isibopho esisheshayo nabanye abazali beziphindaphindiwe. Ngithanda ukusabela engikuthola lapho ngitshela abantu ukuthi nginamawele. "Hewu!" "Ngangihlale ngifuna amawele." "Angazi ukuthi uyenze kanjani ..." Kungathi sifuna isimo esikhethekile ezweni lokubeletha, sithole inhlonipho encane yokudonsa umsebenzi ophindwe kabili.

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Ukwabelana
Amawele amabili afunda ukwabelana ekuqaleni kokuphila. Ruth Jenkinson / Getty Images

Amawele ahlanganyela konke - usuku lokuzalwa, ukunakwa kwabazali babo, nezinto eziningi zabo. Nakuba bangase bakhungatheke ngesimo sabo, njengomzali, kuyajabulisa kakhulu ukufakaza "isimo sami sengesakho" sengomzuzwana wobubele obungenabugovu.

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I-Bond Beautiful
I-Twin Bond - ayikho into efana nayo. UMaria Teijeiro / Getty Images

Isibopho esinezimpondo sihlala sikhula kunanoma yisiphi esinye ubudlelwane emhlabeni, siqala ngisho nangaphambi kokuzalwa, futhi sivame ukuqeda ubungane abaningi ngisho nemishado. Naphezu kokuhlukana kwabo, kuyaduduza ukwazi ukuthi bazobe (bajabulela) ubuhlobo babo obuhlukile kuzo zonke izimpilo zabo. Njengomama wabo, ngizizwa nginelungelo elikhulu lokuba yingxenye yesibopho sabo esikhethekile futhi nginethuba lokulikhulisa.

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Ukuthembela Ekuhlanganyeleni
Ukuba amawele kuletha ukuzethemba kokuxhumana. UVasilina Popova / Getty Images

Ngiyathanda ukuzethemba ukuthi amawele ami aboniswa ngoba nje ahlale ehlangane njalo. Ngithanda ukubheka ukuthi bangene ezimweni ezintsha, ezingajwayelekile ngokuqinisekiswa okuphelele ngoba bebonke. Ngiyakuthanda ukubona zonke izindlela zokuba yizinhlangothi ezimbili ezibukeka ngobuntu babo, kokubili njengenzuzo nokungalungi. Abakaze bazi isizungu ngoba bebelokhu bebambisana njengomngane.