Lapho Ucabangela Ukwamukelwa Kwezomphakathi
Ukwamukela ngaphandle kohlanga lwakho kuyisinqumo esikhulu. Kubuye kube nengxabano. Imibuzo ihlala ngokuqondene nokuthi umndeni omhlophe ungalungisa kanjani ingane emnyama ngokubhekana nokucwasana. Ngenxa yoMthetho Wokubekwa Kwemiphakathi ka-1994 kanye nokubuyekezwa okwenziwa ngawo ngo-1996, kuphikisana nomthetho ukuvimbela ukwemukelwa noma ukulibazisa ukutholwa ngokusekelwe kuphela emncintiswaneni wabazali noma ingane.
Manje isinqumo sithinta imindeni, abasebenzi bezenhlalakahle kanye nama-ejensi abathintekayo. Yiziphi izinkinga okufanele uzicabangele ngaphambi kokwenza isinqumo sokugcina sokwenza ngokweqile? Nazi ezinye imibuzo ozibuze yona.
Uzobhekana Kanjani Nokucwasana Kwezinye?
Naphezu kwezinguquko ezinkulu ezweni lethu, ukucwasa ubuhlanga kusekhona lapho. Ingabe ulungele ukusingatha imibuzo kubantu, ngezinye izikhathi abangaziwa, mayelana nefa lomntanakho noma umzali wakho? Kuthiwani ngemibono yomndeni wakho omningi? Ngokungafani nabantu abangabazi lapho ukuphawula kuyoba khona okusha, ngokuvamile umuntu uyazi ukuthi yini okufanele alindele emndenini. Ingabe kuzokukhathaza ukuthi umalume usebenzisa ama-racial slurs? Ubona kangaki lo muntu? Kanye ngonyaka? Ingabe lokho kuvame ukwanele ukuguqula isinqumo sakho ngandlela-thile? Qaphela ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi unqume ukunciphisa ukuxhumana namanye amalungu omndeni wakho ukuvikela ingane yakho.
Imibuzo Ngomphakathi Wakho
Kubalulekile ukuthi ingane yakho ikwazi ukuxhuma nabanye bohlanga olufanayo, ngakho-ke ungacabangela lokhu okulandelayo:
- Iyini ukuhlukunyezwa ngokobuhlanga komphakathi wakho?
- Ingabe izikole ziyahlukahluka?
- Ingabe unabangane bezizwe ezahlukene?
- Ingabe kukhona ukuhlukahluka ngokobuhlanga esontweni lakho?
- Uyazi abantu abamukele noma abashadile ngaphandle komncintiswano wabo?
Amasiko Ingane
Abanye baye bathi uma uthola emhlabeni wonke uthola ingane nomndeni wakhe.
Awudingi ukuguqula yonke impilo yakho ukuze uhambisane nalokhu. Izinguquko ezincane zingenza umthelela omkhulu. Ungakwazi yini ukusiza ingane ukuba ikwazi ukuziqhenya emasikweni nasefa lakhe?
Ezempilo, Isikhumba Nezinwele Zokunakekela
Umncintiswano ngamunye unokwethenjelwa ngokwabo ezinkingeni ezahlukene zezokwelapha. Uzifundele ngezimo ezihlukene zezokwelapha nezesikhumba ezingase zithuthukiswe izingane zombala? Uyaqonda yini izidingo ezahlukene zokunakekelwa kwesikhumba nezinwele zabantu abanamathoni esikhumba omnyama nokubunjwa kwezinwele?
Ukugubha ukuhlukana nokufana
Izingane ziqala ukubona ukuthi umuntu ngamunye unezici ezihlukahlukene zomzimba ezineminyaka engama-3 noma 4 ubudala. Enye yezinto zokuqala abazibona umbala wesikhumba. Kubalulekile ukuthi izingane zibone abantu abazungezile ababukeka bezodwa.