Ngakanani futhi nini ukunquma uma izimpande zakho kufanele zibe namakamelo azo.
Ingabe i-multiples yakho kufanele ihlanganyele ekamelweni?
Kusukela ezibelethweni ezibelethana nabokuhlala nabo, abazali abaningi beziphindaphindiwe bakuthola kulula kakhulu ukusetha i-nursery eyodwa yamawele, ama-triplets noma ngaphezulu. Indlu eyodwa yokulala igcina zonke izindlu; ikamelo elilodwa liqukethe izingubo eziningi ezincane zokusana. Lesi yisisombululo esimangalisayo sabantwana; Nokho, njengoba izingane zikhula, abazali abaningi baqala ukukala ezinye izinketho.
Amawele obulili obufanayo besifazane ngokuvamile avame ukuhlanganyela ekamelweni kunokuphindaphindiwe kobuhlobo besilisa abahlukile. Abaningana abajoyina umndeni nabantwana bakithi abadala bangabelana isikhala nomzalwane noma udade osekhulile.
Ukunquma ukuthi noma nini ukubeka izindlu zokulala ezihlukene kuyinkinga abazali abaningi ababhekana nayo ngesikhathi esithile. Yonke imindeni ihlukile, futhi yonke isethi yezinxephezelo ibelana ngesibopho esiyingqayizivele, ngakho ayikho isikhathi esicacile sokwenza ushintsho. Ukunciphisa isikhala semakhaya kunganquma impendulo yokugcina, noma izimplathi ngokwazo zingabonisa okukhethwa kukho okwenza ushintsho. Ngenkathi yonke imindeni izoba nomugqa wesikhathi sayo, kunezigaba eziningana uma kuvamile ukuthuthela emakamelweni okulala ahlukene.
Eminyakeni encane, ukulala okuhlangene kungase kube ukuphazanyiswa ngesikhathi sokulala, ikakhulukazi uma izingane ziguquka ziphuma ezikhungweni zibe emibhedeni lapho zingakhuphuka khona. I-Naptime iba yisikhathi sokudlala uma kukhona umngane egumbini!
Ngakho-ke, abazali bangase bashukunywe ukuhlukanisa izimpande zabo ukuze bathuthukise ukuthula okuningi.
Noma kunjalo, izinsana zingaba nobucayi kakhulu ekuhlukaneni; kungase kube nomuzwa wokuthi uyisijeziso kunokuba ube nelungelo. Ukuba khona kwama-multiple-co-yabo kungaba yinduduzo, futhi ukwehlukana kungadala ukuphazamiseka okuningi.
Uma ukhetha ukubeka izindlu zokulala ezihlukene zamathanga akho ezincane, isikhathi sokuhamba ngokucophelela ukugwema ukuphikisana nezinye izinguquko zokuphila, njengokuqeqeshwa kwamanzi noma ukuqala zasenkulisa.
Njengoba izimpande zikhula, zikwazi kangcono ukuxhumana imizwa nezifiso zabo. Ngaleso sikhathi abazali bangacela ukufakelwa, bevumela izimpande zabo ukuba ziveze okuthandayo futhi zifake izicelo zabo njengoba zibona zifanelekile. Ukuqala isikole kuvame ukubaluleka kokuphindaphindiwe; bangase babe amakilasi ahlukene okokuqala futhi baqale ukuthuthukisa ubunikazi babo.
Iminyaka yesikole yisikhathi esivamile sokwenza ushintsho emakamelweni ahlukene, ikakhulukazi njengoba abafundi befuna indawo yangasese yokutadisha nokuqeda umsebenzi wesikole. Uma izindlu zokulala ezihlukene zingenakwenzeka, okungenani abazali kufanele bacabangele ukusetha izindawo zedeskini ezimele ingane ngayinye ukukhuthaza imikhuba emihle yokutadisha.
Ukwakha umqondo wemithwalo yemfanelo kanye nokuziphendulela ngabanye kungenye into ekhuthazayo yamakamelo ahlukene. Eqinisweni, yilokho ngempela esinqume ukuhambisa amawele ami emakamelweni awo. Sithole kunzima ukuthi sikhuthaze ukuhlanzwa kokubambisana kwekamelo lokulala elihlangene; le nkinga yayihlale iphutha "udadewabo" futhi kwakukhona ukuphazamiseka okungapheli ngaphezu kwempahla.
Ngesikhathi bebuyiselwe emakamelweni abo, bakuthola kulula ukugcina ithrekhi "yezinto" zabo. Sithole kulula kakhulu ukubabamba ngamunye ukuba aphendule ekwakheni igumbi lawo.
Nakuba babe namakamelo abo cishe cishe unyaka manje, basakhetha ukulala ndawonye ngezikhathi ezithile. Bajabulela ubuhlobo, futhi angikwazi, uma nje belala embhedeni. Amahloni abo kanye namahlaya angikhumbuza ngezinsuku zakudala lapho bexoxa ngengane futhi bephonsa izilwane zabo ezigxotshiwe kusuka esikhungweni sokufaka isikhala.