Lapho abantwana bebancane, kwakulula ukuhlela umndeni ukuphuma e-zoo noma epaki yokuzijabulisa yendawo. Ukuqamba okuyinhloko kwakuwukungawavumeli kude kakhulu, hleze baphumele, futhi uma kungenzeka ukuthi ukuphuma kungenzeki (oh, i-tantrums!). Kodwa njengoba izingane zihlala ezincane kubantu abadala, kuba nzima kakhulu ukuhlela nokuthola ukuvakasha okufanele kujabule njengenhlangano yomndeni.
Okokuqala, izingane ezikhulile zibonakala zizinhlelo. Ukuthola nokuxhumanisa isikhathi samahhala esabelwe nabo kungaba yinto yokusebenza. Ngenye into, kune-gap yeminyaka yobudala-kungaba nzima ukuthola imisebenzi abazali nabazali abadala abangakujabulela ndawonye. Okokugcina, ngisho nalapho uthola izinto ongakujabulela ndawonye, imisebenzi ivame ukuba engxenyeni yentengo. Lokho akupholile uma uphonsa amapeni ukuze uwafake ekolishi.
Naphezu kobunzima, abazali abaningi banqwenela ukuchitha isikhathi nabantwana babo abadala futhi bazimisele ukudala ukwenza lokho kwenzeke. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, izingane ezikhulile zingathola isifiso sakho sokuchitha isikhathi nazo ezingenakwenzeka. Uma uyakwazi ukukukhipha, noma kunjalo, ukuvumelanisa kuyinto enhle kubo bonke. Yingakho akufanele uvumele izizathu zabo zikuvimbele ekukwenzeni kwenzeke. Ukwenza isikhathi sokuba nalabo abathandayo kuhlale kuwufanele umzamo owengeziwe.
Nazi izindlela eziyishumi zokuchitha isikhathi ndawonye njengomzali kanye (ingane esemdala).
Funa Ukukhathazeka Okukhululekile
Hlola amakhonsathi mahhala epaki edolobheni lakho. Wonke umuzi unemicimbi yamahhala. Futhi lapho bebanjwe epaki, umkhathi ungumngane omkhulu kakhulu. Kukhona lesi sibopho esikhulu phakathi kwamalungu wezithameli ngoba konke kubuyiselwe emuva.
Iqhinga lithola ikhonsathi nezingane zomdala abadala nabazali bobabili bajabulele. I-Jazz noma i-classic rock ingaba yizihlanganisi eziphelele zokunciphisa lelo ga lomculo.
Thatha i-Class ndawonye
Uke wafuna ukuthatha isigaba se-yoga njalo? Noma ufunde ukuphonsa izimbiza? Amakholeji amaningi kanye nezikhungo zomphakathi zinikeza izifundo zasehlobo ezipakisha ukufunda okuningi esikhathini esifushane. Izifundo ezinjalo, ngenkathi zingabizi, ngokuqinisekile zihamba kangcono kunokuhamba ezindizeni ezikude nokukhokha amakamelo amahhotela nokudla. Ngaphezu kwalokho, nonke ninomgomo wokufeza futhi niyithola ndawonye. Kuhle kakhulu ngokubambisana komndeni.
Iya Stargazing
Kukhona okuthile okunye okwenzayo ngobusuku ngaphansi kwesibhakabhaka esivunguvungu esinezinkanyezi ezimhlophe nezinkanyezi ezimhlophe. Awudingi imishini ekhethekile. Ungakwazi ukufaka inkanyezi kusuka endaweni yakho yokuhlola / iplanethiyamu yangakini noma usakaze ingubo bese ulula isisindo emagcekeni akho endaweni yokukhanya ebumnyama eqinisekisiwe. Thola umqondo wobuningi bomhlaba wonke. Zigcwalise ukwesaba ngenxa yezithombe ezimangalisayo zezulu ozibonayo. Wena noma izingane zakho ezindala ngeke nizikhohlwe lokhu okuhlangenwe nakho okungapheli, okungenakuqhathaniswa nakho.
Hamba Uhambo Lokuhamba Nge-Self-Guided Tour
Bhekane nayo, uhlale ufuna ukuhlola idolobha lakho ngokujula.
Kodwa izingane ezincane zivame ukuzithola lezi zinto zibopha. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, izingane ezindala zingayibamba. I-Google "uhambo oluqondiswayo" ngegama lakho lomuzi futhi ungase umangale ukuthola umcebo wolwazi olutholakalayo mahhala ngokuphelele. Isibonelo, ukusesha okungahleliwe kukukhombisa ukuvakashelwa okuzilandelwayo okulandelwayo ku-Pittsburgh, ukuvakasha okuhamba nge-inthanethi e-Chicago, nokukhetha kwakho ukulandwa okulandwayo noma okuku-inthanethi kohambo lwe-Boston Freedom Trail.
Volunteer Together
Kukhona ama-endorphin amaningi anomuzwa wokuzivocavoca ongakuthola kusukela ekuzivocavoca kakhulu! Ngaphandle kwalokhu, wake waphawula ukuthi ezinye izingxoxo ezingcono kakhulu ozitholile nezingane zakho ezindala zenzeke ngenkathi upheka noma u-ironing?
Okuthile mayelana nokumatasa ngezandla zakho kwenza kube lula ukukhuluma. Kungani ungathathi usuku ukuvolontiya ndawonye ekhishini lesobho noma indawo yokuhlala? Ngaphandle kokuba umatasa ngezandla zakho, uzobophezela kulokhu okuhlangenwe nakho okuhlanganyelwe kokusiza abanye.
Yiya Emakethe Yamafama
Vakashela isivakashi sabalimi, bese wenza okuthile okumnandi. Hamba ungalindeli. Thenga noma yini ebukeka inhle futhi inhle, bese uthola ukuthi uzokwenzani ndawonye njengeqembu. Ama-tomato ama-plum amahle namaqabunga e-basil aphunga? Beka ibhodlela elikhulu le-tomato sauce elenziwe ngokwenziwe ukuze likwazi noma lifakwe. Njalo uma omunye wenu esebenzisa ezinye ze-tomato sauce, ngisho nezinyanga kamuva, iphunga lezinkumbulo zasehlobo nezothando zokupheka ndawonye zizobuyela emuva.
Yiba ne-Night Night
Wonke umuntu unamabhayisikobho azintandokazi zomndeni. Ungesabi ukuthola i-retro yangempela. Ingabe umculo wawuyintandokazi yomndeni lapho izingane zakho zikhula? Buka ezintathu zazo emuva. Yenza lokhu ngobusuku obuvunguvungu. Stock up on snacks ezesabekayo movie like popcorn buttered kanye nobisi duds. Thola ngokuphelele ucebile. Hlabelela bese udansa nxazonke egumbini lakho lokuphumula. Uzokhumbula konke okuthandayo kakhulu ngokuba umndeni. Uzothola ukuthi kusesekhona.
I-Night Night
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi i-Monopoly, chess, noma imidlalo yamagama njenge-Scrabble noma i-Boggle, imidlalo iyindlela ejabulisayo yokubopha. Awukwazi ukugcina ubuntu bakho ekubukiseni umdlalo wakho ohambayo nokuthi uwina kanjani futhi ulahlekelwe. Imfihlo, ihlakaniphile, noma ihlezi? Imidlalo emihle? Konke kuzophuma. Beka ukuxubana kwesibhuloho, noma mhlawumbe, manje ukuthi nonke nina bantu abadala, iwayini elithile. Kunomthetho owodwa kuphela: akekho oshiya ekuqaleni. Nonke nihlala kulo kuze kube yilapho kunomdlali ocacile. Ukusikisela: imiklomelo yobuwula iyinhlangano ethintekayo.
Iya Bowling
Kuyinto intandokazi endala, ine-down-ekhaya uhlobo flavour, futhi ngeke aphule ibhange. Futhi, uzothola kulula ku-chillax nezingane zakho ezikhulile endaweni elula ye-bowling alley yendawo. Ukungasho, yonke idolobha linalo.
Thatha uhambo lomkhumbi
Ngakho-ke akekho kini isikhathi, ukuthambekela, noma imali yokuhamba ngesikebhe. Kodwa lokho akufanele kukuvimbele ukuthatha uhambo lwentambama noma kusihlwa kusikebhe. Ungathatha uhambo lokuvakasha kwamalanga ntambama noma i-cruise cruise kusihlwa. Kuyajabulisa futhi kuhlukile. Umntwana wakho omdala ngeke akwazi ukushayela umqondo wokuphuma emanzini, okuqinisekisiwe.
Ingabe amasondo ajika ekhanda lakho kwenye yale mibono? Ngabe ucabanga ukuthi, "Uzohamba lokho," noma, "Lokhu kungaba mnandi," njengoba ufunda lolu hlu lwemisebenzi yokuzilibazisa ongayenza nabantwana bakho abadala?
Ngakho cabanga ngalokho njengendawo yakho yokuqala. Bese uyaqhubeka ukhethe omunye. Ngaso sonke isikhathi wena nomntwana wakho omdala unomsebenzi ophumelelayo noma wokuzilibazisa, wenza kube lula ukuthi uzofuna ukuzama enye.