Amathiphu AmaMama Angabodwa Nabazali Ukubhekana Nezingane Abangeke Bakwenze Lokho Okushoyo
Njengomzali ongayedwa, usuvele wazi ukuthi kunzima kanjani ukwenza konke lokhu ngokwakho. Kodwa uma izingane zakho zingabambisani, izinto zingahle zinciphe - ngokushesha. Ngakho-ke ungenzenjani ukuze ulalele izingane zakho , ulandele izinkombandlela zakho, futhi uhlele umzila, ikakhulukazi uma usuke ucindezelwe kakhulu? Sebenzisa amathiphu alandelayo aneminyaka yobudala ukuze uthole imiphumela lapho izingane zakho zingabambisani.
Thola Umfana Wakho Ukuba Ahlanganyele
Khumbula ukuthi izingane ezincane zikwazi ukuveza ukuzimela kwazo. Bazimisele ukwenza konke ngokwabo, ngaphandle kosizo lwakho ... okungukuthi, uma bengabambeleli kuwe ukuze uthole ukuqinisekiswa. Uma ubhekana nezimo ezilandelayo, ezivame kumama abangashadile nabazali, nansi ongakwenza ukuze uthole ingane yakho ukuba ibambisane:
Lapho ingane yakho encane ingafuni ukulala yodwa. Kungase kube yisikhathi sokucabangela kabusha isikhathi sokulala kwengane yakho. Ingabe ingaguquguquki, futhi isikhathi sokulala kwengane yakho ngokuvamile sifana kusukela ebusuku kuya kusihlwa, ngisho nasendlini yakho yangaphambili? Ngezinga ongakwenza, yenza ukuvumelana ukuze ingane yakho ikwazi ukuthi yini ongayilindela. Futhi uma udinga ukuphoqelela imiphumela efanelekayo, yenza kanjalo
Ingane yakho ikhala uma sekuyisikhathi sokuya endlini yakho yangaphandle, bese ukhala futhi uma sekuyisikhathi sokubuyela ekhaya. Lokhu kujwayelekile ukuthi izinsana zidlula izinguquko. Ukuhlala uzolile futhi ungaphatheki ngokweqile kuzosiza. Zama ukuzwelana nokukhathazeka ngenkathi futhi ukhomba ezinye zezinto ozazi ukuthi ingane yakho ikulindele. Futhi njengoba uzama njengokunciphisa ukuvakashelwa lapho ingane yakho iphikisana, khumbula ukuthi ukunamathela emigqweni oyiqalile kubalulekile ekusizeni ingane yakho ilungise.
Ingane yakho iwalala kalula ngemuva kokuvakashelwa ngephambilini lakho. Ukubuyela emuva kungase kube ukukhathaza ngokomzwelo izingane ezincane. Yenza okusemandleni akho ukugcina izinto zilula futhi zilula ezinsukwini zokuguquka. Ungase uthole ukuthi kungcono ukuqhuba imizila yakho ngaphambi kokuba ingane yakho ibuyele ekhaya. Ngendlela efanayo, ukwenza ukudla kwangaphambi kwangaphambi kokudla kungakusiza ukuba uchithe isikhathi sokwenza noma yikuphi okunye okungafunwa yingane yakho lapho ibuya. Ukunaka lokho okusebenzayo kuzokusiza ukuthi udale imephu yakho ukuze uthole ingane yakho ukuthi ibambisane - ngisho nalapho ekhishiwe futhi ekhulile.
Yenza Ingane Yakho Ekhulile Ikwazi Ukusebenzisana
Ubuhle balesi sizwe ukuthi ubuntu bomntanakho buqala ngempela ukuphuma. Manje yisikhathi sokuzama izinto ezintsha ndawonye futhi ubukele ingane yakho iqhakaze, okuyinto eningi kumnandi. Kodwa lokho akusho ukuthi iminyaka eneminyaka esikoleni ayinayo izinselelo, ikakhulukazi uma uyingane yokubeletha. Nakhu ukubuka ezinye zezimpikiswano ongabhekana nazo njalo, nokuthi ungabhekana kanjani uma ingane yakho ingabambisani nalesi sikhathi:
Lapho ingane yakho ifuna i-ex yakho ukuya kuyo yonke imicimbi. Kuhle ukuthi ingane yakho ifuna ukuchitha isikhathi esiningi ne-ex yakho, kodwa kungenzeka ukuthi ayinakwenzeka ukuba naye abe khona kuyo yonke imicimbi, umdlalo, nomcimbi wesikole. Ukuze uxazulule le nkinga, zibuze ukuthi ngabe izingane zakho zithola isikhathi esanele yini nge-ex yakho, ekuqaleni. Uma kungenjalo, cabanga ukushintsha isimiso somzali womndeni wakho isikhathi sokwengeziwe, lapho kudingeka khona. Uma izinto sezivele zilingana, noma kungenakwenzeka ukwandisa isikhathi nesikhathi sakho sokuqala, cabanga ukusebenzisa izitika zekhalenda ukuphawula imicimbi yakho ex uzoba khona. Lokhu kwenza izinto ezimbili: kusiza ingane yakho ukuthi inkokhelo yakho isivele isesimweni esihle (ngoba kukhona isikhumbuzi esibukwayo), futhi siphuthukisa ukulindela njengendlela yokwabelana ngemicimbi.
Lapho ingane yakho yenqaba ukudla okunye, ikakhulukazi ngesikhathi sokuqala ngesikhathi sokuvakashelwa nokuningi. Kungaba nzima ukubhekana nabathengi abakhethiweyo, ikakhulukazi uma izingane zakho zichitha isikhathi bobabili futhi awuqiniseki ukuthi yini abayidlile ekudleni kwakho. Qala ngokugcina ilogi lokudla okwabelwana ngakho ukuze bobabili babone ukuthi badla yini ngesonto elinikeziwe. Khona-ke, shintsha umgomo wokuphela kumuntu ophumelelayo - njengokuzama ukudla okubili okusha ngesonto.
Lapho ingane yakho ishiya izinto ezibalulekile ekhaya. Inselele lapha ukuthi ingane yakho ingalindela ukuthi ugijimele esikoleni noma ukuphuma kwakho ukuze ulahle izinto ezikhohliwe. Eqinisweni, ezinye izikole manje sezivimbele lo mkhuba ukuze zikhuthaze izingane ukuba zibe nezindleko ezizimele futhi ezizimele. Ekupheleni kwakho, ungasiza ngokudala uhlu lokupakisha izingane zakho ezingasebenzisa ukuze zilungele izinto ezingaphezulu.
Thola amaTweens kanye nentsha yokubambisana
Ukuba nezingane ezingeke zisebenzisane nalesi sizukulwane zingase zizizwe zinjengezinselelo obhekana nazo lapho ziyizingane ezincane. Bafuna ukuzimela okuningi, futhi bazimisele ukumbamba izithende zabo ezinkingeni ezincane kunazo zonke, ukukhombisa ukuthi bangakwazi. Nazi ezinye izinselele ezivame ukubhekana nabazali abangabodwa ababhekene nezingane zokubambisana ngalesi sigaba, nokuthi yini ongayenza mayelana nabo:
Uma ingane yakho yenqaba ukuvakashelwa noma ukuhamba nge-ex yakho . Kule minyaka yobudala, izingane zakho sezivele zisezinhlelo zabo siqu namaqembu omngani. Ngakho ukungafuni ukubamba iqhaza ekuhambeleni nasezindaweni ezingaphezulu kungahle kubangelwe yingxenye ngokungafuni ukungena emisebenzini ebalulekile nabangani babo. Ukulwa nalesi sikhathazo, khuluma nezingane zakho ngalokho abazizwayo. Bese wenze uhlelo ndawonye ukuze uqiniseke ukuthi bangabamba iqhaza kwimicimbi ephezulu kakhulu ngaphandle kokulahlekelwa yisikhathi sekhwalithi nge-ex yakho. Ukuvuleka ukuxoxa ngale nkinga nge-ex yakho kuzosiza. Ngenkathi lokho kungase kungabi kuhlelekile kubantwana bakho, okungenani okokuqala, khumbula ukuthi ukufunda ukuxoxisana nokunciphisa ikhono lokuphila elihle abadinga ukuthuthukisa.
Uvame ukuphuthelwa isikhathi esiphezulu sokuguqula izabelo zesikole. Kungaba ukukhathazeka uma wazi ukuthi izingane zakho ziyakwazi ukwenza lo msebenzi, kodwa ngeke zenze noma azikhathazi ukuyivula. Okokuqala, khumbula ukuthi izingane zakho 'azikudala kakhulu' ukuze finyelela othisha babo ukuze bafake indlela yokuxazulula le nkinga. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, thola uhlelo endaweni yokufundisa izingane zakho ukuthi zilandele kanjani izabelo zazo. Uma lesi sikole sivumela ama-smartphones, cabanga ukusebenzisa enye yezinhlelo zokusebenza zasemakhaya ezitholakalayo, ezinezinzuzo ezengeziwe zokukuvumela ukuba ulandele intuthuko yazo futhi uhlole njalo. Uma lokho akuyona inketho, qinisekisa ukuthi banesistimu yokwengeza izabelo zomsebenzi emsebenzini wekhalenda indlela 'endala.'
Lapho izingane zakho zingeke zigcine amakamelo azo ahlanzekile. Lokhu kungcono kakhulu 'khetha inkinga yakho yokulwa'. Ngenkathi ufuna igumbi lomntanakho ukuba lihlanzeke ngokwanele lokuthi alikhiphi izinto zakhe, lingasiza ukuhlanza kabusha 'ukunqoba' oyifunayo. Kulesi simo, kungenzeka ukuthi ufunde amakhono amaningi okuhlanza jikelele ayokudinga esikhathini esizayo empilweni, ngisho noma igumbi lakhe lokulala alihlanzekile ngendlela ongathanda ukuba ngayo. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uma ingane yakho isiba 'isilingo sangempela sepakethe,' kungase kudingeke umqeqeshe indlela yokuhlunga nokunikela izinto ezingasetshenzisiwe. Kungasiza, futhi, ukuba ufanise lokhu ngokuhlanza ikhamera noma ezimbili ndawonye. Uma ethola i-hang yokuhlola ukuthi yini okufanele ayigcine, ayiphonsa, noma ayikele, uzokwazi ukusebenzisa le nqubo ngempahla yakhe ngokuzimela okukhulu.