Ayikho indlela ezungezile; ama-deployments anzima. Bacindezeleka ngaphambi, ngesikhathi, nangemva kwalokho-futhi kungaphezu nje kokukhathazeka ngothandekayo wakho ode kakhulu. Ngezinye izikhathi ungase ukhathazeke ngokuthi ukuphila kwezempi kwakuyisinqumo esingalungile noma ukuthi kunzima kuwe noma izingane zakho. Ungase ukhale ngaphakathi ngaphakathi kwezinsuku ezithile, kodwa ube namandla njengensika kwabanye.
Njengoba kunzima njenge-deployments, ungayithola . Phela, izigidi zemindeni kakade zinayo. Nansi indlela:
Amandla akho Engqondo Athinta Izingane Zakho
Ucwaningo lubonisa ukuthi izingane zixhomeke kakhulu kubazali bazo ukuze zibhekane nezimo ezinzima, njengokuthunyelwa komzali. Bavame ukulandela ukuhola kwakho ezikhathini ezinzima, ngakho isimo sakho sengqondo sinendima enkulu kakhulu. Uma uphatha kahle lesi simo, khetha ukusebenza kahle futhi uhle, futhi unamandla ngokwengqondo nangokomzwelo, kunethuba elihle lokuthi izingane zakho zizohamba kahle.
Zinike Isikhathi Sokulungisa
Inkathi yesikhathi nje emva kokuthola ama-oda wokuthunyelwa, futhi ukuthunyelwa kwangempela kuzobabili kugcwaliswe nezinselelo zabo eziyingqayizivele, ezingabandakanya isizungu, ukucindezeleka, ukhathazeka, nokwesaba (yingakho kufanele uzame ukungenzi izinqumo eziningi kakhulu ngaphambi kokuthunyelwa: ungase ungacabangi ngokucacile ngendlela ongathanda ngayo).
Futhi uma leso sikhathi esithandekayo, sokuthunyelwa kwe-honeymoon sekudlulile, ukujwayela ukuba nobaba noma umama ekhaya kuphinde kuthathe isikhathi. Lezi yizinguquko ezinkulu kuwo wonke umuntu, ngakho-ke ungabi nzima kakhulu.
Hlala njalo
Yonke into izozizwa isikhashana-futhi kulungile .. Kodwa, into ebaluleke kakhulu ongayenza ukuze usize umndeni wakho ngezikhathi ezinzima ukuwugcina esimisweni.
Qinisekisa ukuthi bafika esikoleni ngesikhathi ngasinye ekuseni, banikeze umshini wemisebenzi yezinyanga zabo, futhi baningi ukudla ndawonye ngangokunokwenzeka. Lezi zinto ezincane zizokwenza umehluko womndeni okhungethweyo. Kuzokwenza izingane zakho zibe nomuzwa wokujwayelekile esimweni esishintshayo futhi zinikeze ukuzinza.
Nquma ukuthi ungasiza kanjani
Ulwazi, njengoba isisho esidala lihamba, lingamandla. Futhi uma uqonda kabanzi mayelana nokuthi i-servicemember yakho, izingane zakho, futhi uzosabela kanjani ekuthunyelweni ngcono. Enye imithombo enhle ye-servicemember yakho ithi "Ubaba WaseMpi: Umhlahlandlela Wama-Hand for the Dads Deployed". Izingane zakho zizoba nezidingo ezihlukile, kuye ngokuthi zikhula kangakanani namazinga okuvuthwa. Izingane ezincane zingase zibe nesikhathi esinzima ukuqonda ukuthi kungani ubaba kufanele ahambe ekhaya okwesikhashana, kodwa uzoshintsha ngokushesha kuye. Izingane ezindala nezintsha ngokuvamile azifani nokuguquka futhi zingase ziphume, zivukele noma zibuyise kuwe. Njengoba kungathandeki njengoba kunjalo, konke kujwayelekile ngokuphelele. Uyazi izingane zakho futhi kuzodingeka uthembele esahlulelweni sakho ukunquma indlela engcono kakhulu yokubasiza. Ezinye izingane zizophendula kahle ngesikhathi esisodwa, kanti abanye badinga umsebenzi wezemidlalo noma isikhathi esivela emndenini ukuphumula.
Ungalindela isikhathi esibucayi ngemuva kokuba umlingani wakho efika ekhaya-angase aphathe izingane ezincane njengokungathi zineminyaka efanayo noma esiteshini esifanayo sokuthuthuka njengoba beyilapho ehamba. Angase angazi ukuthi angabenza kanjani noma angase azizwe engumfokazi ekhaya lakhe. Ungakhathazeki-eziningi zalezi zindlebe zivamile futhi zizophehla isikhathi esincane. Uma kungenjalo, uzofuna ukuthola usizo oluvela eminye imithombo.
Yazi ukuthi Awusuye Wodwa Futhi ukuthi Usizo Lutholakala Njalo
Uma unzima ukuzinakekela wena noma izingane zakho noma uzithola uzizwa ungathembi noma ucindezelekile, sicela usondele.
Kunezinhlangano ezizinikele ekusizeni abantu kulezi zimo eziqondile.Kukhona izinhlelo ezingakunika ithemba nokuphefumula. Kunezandla ezifuna ukukududuza. Abangani bakho nomndeni bakho bafuna ukuba khona kuwe, futhi, kodwa kufanele uvumele ukuba bangene. Konke kuqala ngokuvuma ukuthi udinga usizo. Sebenzisa izinsiza ezikhona kuwe kusukela empini-kunezindlela eziningi zokusiza umndeni wakho phakathi nalesi sikhathi esinzima-ungesabi ukucela usizo.
Ihlelwe futhi ibuyekezwe ngu- Armin Brott , ngoDisemba 2016