Uzungezwe abantu usuku lonke. Awusoze wedwa. Futhi ngisho nalapho uba imizuzwana engu-30 wena, ngokuvamile uphethe ingane elele noma ulinde isicelo esilandelayo esivela kubantwabakho abangenakuphika ukuthi badinga okuthile ngenkathi uhlala phansi. Kwenzeka kanjalo na? Kungenzeka yini ukuba ube nesizungu endlini egcwele izingane?
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi unabantwana abangakanani, kulula kakhulu futhi kuvamile ukuba uzizwe unesizungu, nakuba unabantwana endlini.
Nasi isizathu:
Uzihlukanisa
Abazali basekhaya bawela kalula emgodini wokuzihlukanisa. Kulula ukugwema ukuqubuka komphakathi kwezingane zakho ngokuhlala nje ekhaya. Futhi kulula ukuhlala kuma-pajamas akho kunokugqoka, phakamisa isikhwama se-diaper bese ushiya indlu ukuyoya endaweni yokudlala .
Ukuphila ekhaya lokubeletha ekhaya ngokwemvelo kukuvumela ukuba uhleleke ngokuzihlukanisa futhi akulungile kuwe. Ukuzihlukanisa, okungcono kakhulu kunokuzifihla ngokusuka empucuko, kuholela ekubeni nesizungu.
Ukhuluma Nezingane Zonke Usuku
Ukhathazeka mayelana nezingane zakho ezitholela umphakathi . Kodwa ingabe uthola ukwesekwa komphakathi okwanele? Ngokuqinisekile, ukhuluma nezingane zakho usuku lonke kodwa leyo nkulumo ifaka izingxoxo ezijulile njenge, "Ingabe i-diaper yakho ingcolile?" futhi "I-fussy yomunye umuntu udinga ukulala." Yiqiniso, i-banter emuva kuwe ngokuvamile, "Ngifuna," futhi "Mama, mama, mama."
Hlola nomlingani wakho ngesikhathi sokuphumula kwakhe.
Shayela umama wakho. Khuluma nabakhulile okungenani kathathu kulo lonke usuku lwakho ukuze uhlale uhlola.
Wena Cabanga Social Media Igcina Uxhumekile
Imithombo yezokuxhumana iyakhohlisa. Sizizwa sengathi sichitha isikhathi nabangani bethu ngoba sithande ukuthunyelwe kwabo noma basithumela impendulo emibili yemisho kulowo mfanekiso omuhle esiwafake wezingane zethu.
Kodwa abezindaba bezenhlalakahle akuzona ezomphakathi ngempela. Akufani nokuphuma lapho futhi ukuhlangana ubuso nobuso nabangani nomndeni wethu. Kufanele uvule ukuxhumeka ngempela nabanye.
Uzizwa Uyenzela Yonke Yodwa
Kuhle ukuvuma ukuthi kunezinsuku ezimbalwa onomhawu ngomunye wakho ophawulekayo njengoba edonsa ngaphandle kwendlela bese eqala ukusebenza. Unosuku olugcwele lwezingane olukhuphuka ngaphambi kwakho futhi ngezinye izikhathi ungathengisa ngenjabulo lokho ngokuhlala emhlanganweni omude ugqoke isambatho sebhizinisi kanye nezithende usuku lonke.
Ukwenza ube nomuzwa ozwakalayo ngokwengeziwe uma wenza wedwa wedwa, oshade naye ufika ekhaya ekupheleni kosuku alungele ukuphumula esihlalweni sakhe esiyintandokazi futhi ufuna ukuba angene futhi athathe ushintsho osebenza ngaso sonke isikhathi usuku. Nakuba kungcono ukukhuluma nomngane wakho womshado ngaphambi kokuba ube yi-SAHM ngakho-ke ungaba sekhasini elifanayo ngokulindela kwakho, akukaze kube sekwephuzile kakhulu ukuqala ingxoxo ngaphambi kokuba imizwa yakho iholele ekubeni nesizungu nokucasuka.
Awunakuze Uhambe Ngendlu Ngaphandle Kwezingane Zakho
Ngesikhathi sokugcina ushiye endlini ngaphandle kokusiza othile ukuba angene esihlalweni semoto? Udinga ukuphuma endlini futhi udinga ukuhamba wedwa.
Ungase ungakwazi ukuphuma njalo endlini ukuze ujabulele isikhathi esithile edolobheni kodwa ngisho nohambo oluya esitolo lingazizwa luqabula uma inqola yakho yokuthengwa ingagcwele izingane ezithungela okusanhlamvu kanye neswidi amashalofu njengoba uzama ukuthenga izithako zokudla kwansuku zonke.
Amanye amaMama Angaboni Ukukuthola
Uzizwa sengathi uyindlovu egumbini lapho uhlanganyela namanye amama. Babonakala bekanye ndawonye futhi bejabule lapho wonke umuntu onomuzwa wokuthi uyenzayo ukuxolisa mayelana ne- diaper ukukhwabanisa ukhilimu izingane zakho zifakwe kuzo zonke izithombe zakho zomshado. Ngenxa yokuthi wabelana nabanye ngobuntfu akusho ukuthi uhambisana nabangane.
Ubuhlobo bubaluleke kakhulu kumama futhi bungasiza ekulwa nalezi zinkinga. Njengokuphola, kufanele nje uthole umuntu ofanele. Funa amaqembu okusekela amamama afanayo. Thola inombolo yefoni yomama owawuxoxa naye ebaleni lokudlala.
Setha idethi yokudlala ikhuthaza umngane ngamunye ukuletha othile omusha ukuze unwebe ubungani bomngane wakho. Ukwenza ubungane obuseduze buzokusiza ukuthi ubone ukuthi awunabo futhi sonke sinezinsuku ezinhle nokubi.
Ukubeletha Kwamakhaya Ekhaya Kuwukuzibophezela kuka 24/7/365
Akukhona ukuthi omama abasebenza abazali abazali 24/7/365. Kodwa bayakwazi ukuphuma endlini ngesikhathi sokuhlela usuku ngalunye. Wena, ngakolunye uhlangothi, usekhaya nabantwana usuku lonke, nsuku zonke. Ukhona kuwo wonke ama-milestone, kodwa zonke i-diaper ziyashintsha futhi. Uthola injabulo yokuba khona kwabo kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yini, kodwa kufanele ubhekane nezidakamizwa eziqhubekayo uhlale uhlanzekile usuku lonke ngoba nonke niya ekhaya.
Awutholanga usuku. Awutholi ukushayela ogulayo. Uhlala njalo emsebenzini, ukhuluma, futhi awukwazi ngisho nokuya endlini yokugezela yedwa. Kuthatha isikhathi ukujwayela lokho kulungiswa futhi kungase kube nezinsuku ongazizwa uzithanda. Ukuzibophezela owenzile kungabonakala sengathi kuyisibusiso nesiqalekiso, kuye ngosuku. Zizungeze uhlelo lokusekela, zenzele isikhathi futhi ungakhohlwa ukujabulela usuku nosuku oshade naye. Uzoba umama ongcono, ojabulayo olahlekelwa yimizwa enesizungu ngokuhle.