Ukulungiswa Komzali Nokususwa Kugcina Wonke Umuntu Uphephile
Ukushaya, ukubetha, nokweqa izinto kungaba yingxenye yokudlala encane kanye nokusebenzisana nezinto. Ingxenye yokuhlangenwe nakho kwabo kokufunda ivela ngombangela nomphumela (kwenzekani uma ngenza lokhu?) Nokuphindaphinda (ukwakha amabhlokhi kuze kube lula ukuwashaya). Kodwa uma kuziwa ngokushaya ezinye izingane, kusobala ukuthi ayamukeleki. Yilapho ukuqeqeshwa kwengane kanye nokungenelela kwabazali kuyadingeka.
Okwenza izingane zifake
Izingane azikwazi ngokuzenzekelayo ukuthi izenzo zabo zokushaya zilimaza umuntu. Ngemuva kwakho konke, ukhuthaza i-tot yakho ukuphonsa ibhola, ukugibela ibha, noma ukushaya isandla sakho emazingeni aphezulu. Bashaya, badonsa futhi badlale ikhekhe lomuthi. Ingqondo encane ingase ingaqondi ukuthi yiyiphi into enkulu yokubambisana nontanga. Izingane azisho ukuthi zenze kabi noma zingalungile. Ukwazi ukuthi kungakusiza ukulahla ingane yakho ezolile. Uma ingane yakho ikhulile ngokwanele ukwazi kangcono kuyoba yindaba ebaluleke nakakhulu.
Ngokuvamile, abazali bayamangala lapho bebona ingane encane ishaya enye ingane. Kungabikho ndawo, mhlawumbe ngenxa yokuthi ingane ikhulile futhi ivuselelwe. Noma, othile unento ayifunayo, uyayithatha, futhi wenza lokho okubonakala kuvela ngokwemvelo uma kukhona ukumelana. Kuyabantu abadala abaqaphayo ukuyeka ukuziphatha ngesikhathi esisodwa futhi banikeze isiyalo esifanele ukunciphisa amathuba okushaya futhi aphinde avele.
Ukuyala Izeluleko Zokumisa Ingane Ekubambeni Abanye
- Khuluma nengane yakho ngaphambi kokujoyina abanye esigabeni sokudlala ngezindlela ezifanele zokwenza. Tshela ingane yakho ukuthi yini oyilindele ekulimeni okulula. Uma umntwana wakho esekhulile ngokwanele ukuze aqonde ngempela lokho okushoyo, usemdala ngokwanele ukuba aqale ukufunda okulungile nokungalungile.
- Qapha ingane yakho futhi ulungele ukusabela ngokushesha. Ngokuvamile, abazali abaqapheli ngokwanele ukuba izingane ezincane zidlala ndawonye. Bakhuluma nomunye umuntu omdala noma kuma-smartphones abo futhi aboni izimpawu zokuxwayisa zokuziphatha okulimazayo okuqala. Ungathembeli komunye umuntu ukuze ubukele ingane yakho. Ingane yakho nokuziphatha kwakhe kuyisibopho sakho njalo. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, ungenzi i-helicopter hover.
- Phinda uqondise noma yikuphi ukuziphatha okungaholela ekwakheni ngokomzimba noma ukushaya. Ezimweni eziningi, yini eqala njengomnandi futhi imidlalo iphetha ngomuntu olimazayo. Ungesabi ukususa into engabangela ukulimala noma ukucindezeleka. Ngisho noma ithoyizi elingathembeki elingalimazi ingane ngayinye lingakwazi ukuqinisa ukuziphatha okungalungile kokushaya, futhi kufanele nje kudangele.
- Susa ingane kunoma yisiphi isimo lapho eshaya enye ingane ngamabomu. Uma ingane ingumncanyana futhi iqalile ukuzijabulisa, cabanga ukuqeda i-playdate bese uhamba, ukukhala kanye nakho konke. Udinga ukufundisa ingane yakho ukuthi ukushaya enye ingane idiliza umsebenzi wonke umuntu. Ezimweni lapho ungakwazi khona ukuhamba, hlukanisa ingane yakho kwabanye futhi ungamvumeli ukuba adlale nabo. Ngemuva kwesikhathi esilinganiselwe futhi ngemuva kokuba wonke umuntu ethule, ungakhuluma nengane yakho mayelana nalesi sigameko bese uqala kabusha umdlalo wezenhlalo, kodwa qiniseka ukugcina iso eliseduze kakhulu ezenzweni zengane yakho. Nakuba ezinye zalezi zici zijwayelekile, kufanele zihlolwe ngokucophelela futhi zime.
- Hlala uzinzile futhi ungavumeli ingane yakho encane ikubone ukuthukuthela. Udinga ukukhombisa ubuso obuzolile kodwa obuqinile ukuze ingane yakho ikwazi ukuthi ngenkathi umthanda, ngeke uvumele izenzo zakhe nokuthi akulungile ukushaya. Gwema ukuphendula okuningi. Sebenzisa i-redirection futhi uqinisekise "ukushaya" amagama ngokuqinile ngenkathi ususa ophutha endaweni yokudlala kungaba yilokho okudingekayo.
- Yeka ukuvumela ingane yakho idlale ingalindelwe enye ingane ekhombisa njalo ukushaya ukuziphatha. Kungumsebenzi wakho ukuvikela ingane yakho nokufaka ukuziphatha okufanele. Uyazi ukuthi yini okufanele uyenze uma ingane yakho iyishaya, kodwa ungangabazi ukungena uma ngabe ingane yakho ishona (ngengozi noma cha). Awufuni ukuthi ingane yakho iqale ukucabanga ukuthi kufanele ibuye noma ibuyele emuva (noma uqale ezinye izimo ezimbi, ezifana nokushaya ) ngokuzivikela. Kungase kudingeke ukhulume ngisho nokuyala ingane yomunye umuntu ukuyeka izenzo ezingalungile uma umzali engavumi ukuthi kukhona inkinga. Uma ukhululekile, ngxoxisana ngokucacile nomzali wengane eshaya. Cabanga ukukhetha amagama akho ngokucophelela ukuze ugweme noma ubani ukuba abe nokuzivikela ngokweqile, futhi angaqeda ubungane. Emva kwakho konke, isikhathi esilandelayo kungaba ingane yakho ngokwenza ukuziphatha.
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Ukuba nengane ehlabayo akusho ukuthi uzokhula ukuze abe nobudlova noma abe ngumhlukumezi. Kungumsebenzi wakho ukuyeka isenzo futhi uqondise ingane yakho ngendlela efanele ngokusebenzisa isiqondiso sothando nokuxhumana okufanele iminyaka .