Ukwenza isigijimi sinemiphumela emihle
Izingane nezidakamizwa ziyahamba ngezandla. Nokho, ngokuvamile, omama nabababa basebenza kanzima ukugwema ukuchithwa, amabala kanye nokukhubazeka okuvamile okubonakala kulandela izingane ezungeze. Kodwa akuwona wonke ama-messes adalwe alinganayo. Ngokuqinisekile, izandla ezingahlanjululwa etafuleni lesidlo kanye nezinqwaba zamathoyizi ezingalokothi zihlanjululwe awekho-nos, kodwa ezinye izinhlobo zokungcola nokugula zingakusiza ngempela ingane yakho.
Nazi ezinye zezizathu ongase ufune ukuzenza umncane wakho athole kahle futhi ahlasele:
Kungase Kuthuthukise Impilo Yabo:
Inani elikhulayo labacwaningi liye lagqugquzela ukuthi ukungcola kuyinto into izingane ezidinga. Encwadini ethi "Kungani Ukugqothula Kuhle: Izindlela Ezinhlanu Zokuwenza Amagciwane Abangane Bakho" Isazi sempilo yezinto ezincane kanye nesazi sokuzivikela komzimba uMary Ruebush, Ph.D., sisho ukuthi "ukuvezwa kokungcola kusiza izingane ukuba zakha amasosha omzimba aqinile azohlinzeka ngokuvikelwa okuqhubekayo."
I-hypothesis yokuhlanzeka, noma inkolelo yokuthi ukungcola kungavikela izingane ekuguleni komzimba nokugula, kuyinto eqhubekayo yokucwaningwa. Nakuba ososayensi bephikisana nale nkinga, ukuthatha abazali kuba lokhu: ukudlala kungcolile akubi kakhulu futhi kungase kuzuze ngempela. Kodwa-ke, kufanele ulandele imithetho yokuhlanzeka , kuhlanganise nokufundisa ingane yakho ukugeza izandla emva kokudlala odakeni noma ukutholakala namagciwane, futhi njengoba nje uDkt. Ruebush ephawula, kufanele ugcine imishanguzo kuze kube manje njengoba inikeza ukubaluleka okubalulekile kokuzivikela komzimba.
Ihlanganisa Ama-Senses:
Ukuzwa ngodaka ngaphansi kwezinyawo ezingenalutho, umsindo wezinyoni, iphunga lesitshalo ngokusondele - lezi zenzakalo ezizwayo zizosiza ingane yakho ukuba iqonde umhlaba kangcono kunanoma iyiphi incwadi noma i-DVD. Ungatshela ingane yakho konke mayelana namajikijolo, kodwa baze babone imibala yabo ekhanyayo, bazizwele inyama yabo futhi bethande ukuthi bumnandi kangakanani, ngeke bazi ukuthi berry.
Ucwaningo lubonisa ukuthi uma izinzwa eziningi zivuselelwa ubuchopho kungenzeka ukuthi ukhumbule okufundiswayo, ngakho-ke zama ukufundisa izinombolo, imibala, namagama amasha ngokusebenzisa izinto zemvelo ezibandakanya izinzwa eziningi. Cabanga izimbali ezimnandi, izinti ezinzima, namadwala.
Yakha Amakhono Emoto:
Yiqiniso, kunezindlela eziningi ezingezona ezimbi zokuthi ingane yakho isebenzise amakhono abo amakhono . Amaningi amaningi, amathoyizi ahlanzekile, isibonelo, khuthaza izingane ukuba ziqoqe futhi zidlale ngezinto ezincane noma zibhale emabhokisini okukhishwa okungahambi kahle. Ukukhathazeka ukuthi le midlalo ayivumeli ukudlala okuphelile. Ngamanye amazwi, ingane ingenza kuphela okulindelekile futhi ihlelwe ngaphambilini. Asikho ithuba lokuzama okungaphezu kwemikhawulo yezinto ezivele zikhona kudoti.
Nika ingane yakho amaphepha amakhulu ephepha, upende oluncane olwenziwe kalula kanye nanoma yiliphi inani lamathuluzi omnandi wokudweba futhi kungenzeka ukuthi ubone ukuthi bajabule kakhulu futhi bashukumisekile ukusebenzisa lezo zinhlanzi ezincane nezandla zomunwe. Lezi zinhlanzi yizo ezizozisebenzisa kuzo zonke izinto ezivela ekuziguliseni, ukufaka inkinobho ngebhokisi, ukubhala ngepensela.
Ukudlala okuphelile kubalulekile ekukhuthazeni ingane yakho ukuba isebenzise amaqembu amakhulu ama-muscle: imilenze, izingalo, emuva, emahlombe, njll.
Kuningi kakhulu okungenziwa enkundleni yokuzivocavoca. Ungase umangale ukuthi yini ingane ezoyithola ukuyenza egcekeni noma epaki elingenaminye imithi, amachibi amancane nomgodi ongcolile.
Yenza izingane zicabange:
Njengoba unikezwe ithuba lokukhuphuka, ukugoqa, ukugwaza nokugxuma ngokukhululekile, umhloli wakho omncane angasebenzisa umcabango wabo ukudala noma yini abayifunayo. Ibuye ibenze bahlole ukuthi "kuthiwani uma:" Kuthiwani uma ngilahla amanye amanzi kulowo mgodi wokungcola? Kuthiwani uma ngidonsa utshani? Lapha, ingane yakho ingaqala ukubuza imibuzo, ukwenza imibono nokushintsha isimo ukuze ubone uma ishintsha umphumela.
Yebo, bayothola ukungcola, kodwa nabo bayobe becabanga njengososayensi, okuzobabeka endleleni yokubuza nokuphendula imibuzo eminingi eminyakeni ezayo.
Yenza Abantwana Bangcono Ekuhlanzeni:
Esimweni esingaqondakali sezimiso, kuvame ukulula ukuthola izingane ukuhlanza emva kwesikhathi esikhululekile sokudlala, kodwa kuphela uma uthathe isikhathi sokubeka ezinye iziqondiso zesikhathi esilahlayo nesikhathi sokuhlanza ngaphambi kwesikhathi.
Okokuqala, cabanga ukudala indawo (eyodwa ngaphakathi, enye ingaphandle) lapho ingane yakho ingenza khona umonakalo futhi akudingeki ihlanzwe ngokushesha. Gcwalisa le ndawo ngamathoyizi nezinsiza ezigqugquzela ukudlala okumangalisayo nokwakhayo .
Okulandelayo, siza ingane yakho ilungiselele ukuguqulwa kusuka ekudlaleni okungcolile ukuhlanza ngokubanika isaziso imizuzu engu-15 ngaphambi kwesikhathi sokuhlanza. Khumbuza futhi emaminithini angu-10 bese kuthi amaminithi amabili ngaphambi kwesikhathi. Khumbuza ingane yakho njengoba uqala ukuqoqa izingxenye zomsebenzi futhi ukhulume ngalokho okwenzayo ngokulandelayo. Kuyasiza ukwenza into elandelayo izwakale ijabulise ngempela, noma ngabe yisikhathi sokuphumula.
Nika ingane yakho amathuluzi ahlanzekile akhethekile njenge-dustpan ne-brush noma i-apron ehlanzekile, bese uqala ukucula ingoma efana ne-Barney's "Everybody Clean Up". Ngale ndlela, ukuhlanza kuyasizwa njengomdlalo futhi kungakusiza ukukhuthaza imikhuba emihle elandela ukuhlunga okuhle.