Uma umzali ohlukumezayo efa, umzali ongabheki namalungu omndeni angakhathazeka ngokuthi ngubani ozokwamukela ingane. Labo abafuna ukusiza kufanele bafunde ngezinqubo ezifanele ukulandela nenkantolo yomndeni wangakini ukuze uthole imvume yokugcina izingane. Ulwazi olulandelayo mayelana nokugcinwa kwengane emva kokufa komzali lungakusiza ukulungisa.
Ikhwalithi Ngemuva Kokuthi Umzali Uhambe
Umbuzo wokuthi ubani okufanele athole ukugcinwa kwengane lapho umzali ehlukumelayo efa kunzima. Nazi ezinye izakhamuzi ezingenzeka ukuthi zizimisele ukukhonza njengabagcini:
- Umzali ongabambeleli, uma ubuntwana bamukelekile
- Ugogo nomkhulu
- Ezinye izihlobo, njengo -kazikazi, omalume noma omzala
- Abangane bomndeni njengabazali bomama noma omakhelwane
- Umbuso
Lowo wokugcina ubonakala njengendlela engcono kakhulu. Kodwa-ke, uma kungekho ezinye izindlela, ingane ingaba yisigceme sezwe. Uma kwenzeka lokhu, ingane ingena ohlelweni lokukhulelwa . Ngeshwa, ayikho indlela yamalungu omndeni othintekayo ukukhetha ikhaya elithile lezingane zokuhlala noma ngisho nendawo. Ezimweni eziningi, ukuhambela kungasungulwa ngamashaneli avamile, kodwa izihlobo ezifisa ukuphishekela ukuhambela zingase zifake ukungena esikhundleni somgcini esikhundleni. Lokhu kuzovimbela isidingo sokunakekelwa kwabantwana.
Amalungu omndeni okhathazekile angase futhi afune ukwazi ukuthi ukutholwa komuntu ngokusebenzisa uhlelo lokukhulisa kungenzeka. Ngokuqinisekile impendulo inguyebo, kodwa izingane eziningi ezikhulayo azikaze zamukelwe. Nalapha, lesi yisizathu esicindezelayo sokuzithandela njengomlondolozi.
Ukuzalwa komzali kanye nokufa komzali wokugcina
Njengoba kukhonjisiwe ngenhla, umzali ongekho ngaphansi komthetho angase abe nelungelo lokugcinwa kwengane uma umzali ohlukunyezwayo efa.
Kodwa-ke, ukuze lokhu kwenzeke, kufanele kube khona ubuhlobo obuseduze. Ukuvuma ngokusemthethweni ukuzala kuyadingeka:
- Isiginesha sikababa besayensi esizalweni sokuzalwa, noma
- Ukuvuma okubhalwe phansi kwefayili, kufakwe enkantolo
Ubaba ophilayo angase futhi aqale ukuhlolwa kwesibindi emva kokufa komzali wokulondeka. Amazwe anenqubo ethize yokuvuma ukubeletha kwengane. Ukuze uthole ulwazi mayelana nokuthi yini ongayilindela uma uqala ukuhlolwa kwezingane, bhekisa emibhalweni yokugcina ingane yakho.
Yeka ukuthi Ithimba Lesithathu Kufanele Libe Nesithakazelo Sengane
Amakhotho azophinde abheke ukugcinwa kwezingane zangasese, njengokungumngani womndeni umgcini wezomthetho. Lokhu kukhathazeka lapho umzali ogcina ukuhlukumeza efa, futhi noma yiziphi izimo ezilandelayo zikhona:
- Azikho izihlobo eziseduze ezicela ukwesekwa kwengane
- Kukhona ubudlelwano obuqinisiwe phakathi kwengane nomuntu wesithathu
- Isitatimende sesithathu sisebenzela izidingo ezingcono kakhulu kwengane.
Kuze ezinkantolo ukuthi zithole ukuthi zinganikeza umuntu wesithathu ngemuva kokufa komzali. Kodwa-ke, abantu abathintekayo abafisa ukucatshangelwa kufanele baqhube phambili ngokushesha futhi bazise inkantolo ukuthi inentshisekelo yakho, ubuhlobo bakho obukhona nengane kanye nanoma yikuphi okuhlangenwe nakho noma iziqu ezifanele ngemuva kokufa komzali.
Kuyadabukisa kakhulu ingane kanye nabo bonke amaqembu ahilelekile lapho umzali ohlukumezayo efa. Kunzima nakakhulu kubathandekayo ukuthola ukuthi ngubani okufanele athole ingane yokugcina ingane yakhe yokufa. Ukuze uthole ukwaziswa okwengeziwe mayelana nokugcinwa kwengane ngemuva kokufa, bhekisa emibhalweni yokugcinwa kwengane yombuso wakho noma ukhulume nommeli oqeqeshiwe esifundazweni sakho.