Abantwana nabantwana abaneminyaka emibili banabantu abanomatasa ngokwemvelo, ngakho lokhu kubonakala sengathi kufanele kube nzima, kunjalo? Ha! Izingane zimatasa kahle kahle-zisebenza ngokudonsa konke okuvela emakhandini akho, zixakekile zonke izinkinobho zokuphepha. Ngamafuphi, bamatasa ukukugcina umatasa.
Ngakho-ke into yokuqala umzali osebenzayo ekhaya nomntwana oneminyaka emibili noma oneminyaka emibili okudingeka akwenze ukubona ukuthi ukunakekelwa kwengane kungadingeka .
Kungakanani nokuthi yiliphi uhlobo olungase lithembele emsebenzini wakhe nasemkhakheni womsebenzi wengane yakhe. Lokho kusho, ngisho nabazali bezingane ezincane kufanele bakwazi ukwenza izinto ezithile ngaphandle kokunakekelwa kwezingane okwengeziwe. Kumelwe nje uvume ukuthi ungasebenza kuphela ngezimpikiswano ezimfushane-njengokufana nentombazane encane.
Ngokuvamile, abazali basekhaya basekhaya kufanele balindele ukuthi izingane zifunde ukuzijabulisa ngemisebenzi yokudlala eyimfihlo ngoba ukufunda ukuthola injabulo yakho yikghono lokuphila elizobakhonza zibe ngabantu abadala. Ezinganeni ezindala, lokhu kusho ukuza nemibono yabo ngezinto zokwenza, ukulungiselela ukuzijabulisa nokuzihlanza emva kwalokho.
Kwabancane-nakwezinye iziqu zasenkulisa-ukuthi umude kakhulu umyalelo. (Ngisho nasezintwaneni ezindala, ukuthi abazali kufanele bahileleke kangakanani ngokuya ngobudala.)
Kodwa-ke, ukushada isikhathi yisikhathi sokuhlwanyela imbewu yokudlala okuzimele.
Dala isikhala esiphephile, esikhuthazayo
Ukuthatha isikhathi sokwakha isikhala esiphephile sezingane zakho noma ezimbili kuyisinyathelo sokuqala emgwaqweni womncane wakho kumdlalo ozimele.
Uma indawo ingaphephile, umzali kufanele ahambe. Futhi uma umzali ehambela, ingane izolindela ukunakekelwa.
Lokhu akusho ukuthi kufanele uvele umane ingane yakho ibe yindawo ephephile yendawo yokudlala bese uya emsebenzini. Indawo ephephile kufanele ivuselele futhi. Uma une laptop, ungasebenza lapho indawo ephephile yengane yakho ikhona.
Uma kungenjalo, kuzodingeka udale indawo ephephile ehhovisi lakho lasekhaya ngokuvimbela ingane yakho ihhovisi lakho futhi ujikeleze i-stash yamathoyizi ehhovisi lasekhaya.
Futhi, yiba nakho konke okudingayo okushiwo yi-diaper yokuguqula izinto, ukudla okulula , mhlawumbe isethi yezingubo ezengeziwe. Isikhathi esincane esichitha ukufuna okudingayo, isikhathi esiningi sokufeza imigomo yakho.
Ukusebenza Ngesigqi Sosuku Lomfana
Amaphuzu amabili ayisisekelo alawula usuku ekuphileni komntwana omncane: Abantfwana banamathela kancane, futhi izingane ezincane ziyakhathala kalula.
Usuku olujwayelekile lwezingane ezisetshenzisiwe lusetshenziswa ukusuka komunye umsebenzi noma ithoyizi kuya kokulandelayo, ukudla nokulala. Ngemuva kwesikhathi sokuphumula, iqala kabusha. Isihluthulelo ukwazi isimiso somntanakho bese uhlela ngokufanele. Yize impilo ihlala ishintsha nabantwana, ngokuvamile, uzofuna ukucabanga ngakho:
- Kuyoze kube nini umsebenzi othize wengane wakho uzomjabulisa, ngakho ungaba olandelayo olungele
- Ingabe ingane yakho ingadlala yedwa ngokujabulisayo isikhathi esingakanani ngaphambi kokuba idinga ukuthi wehle futhi udlale futhi
- Yini eyenza ingane yakho iwele ngokuthula ngesikhathi sokuphumula nokuthi yini eyenza ukuthunyiswa kwe-fussy esikhathini sokuphupha
- Ngabe ingane yakho ilambile nini futhi uyasabela kanjani lapho ekhona
Umsebenzi ohlela ukuwenza ngenkathi ingane yakho ivukile kufanele ibe into engaphazanyiswa kalula.
Londoloza izingcingo zenkomfa noma umsebenzi othatha ukuxilongwa okuningi uma unakekela izingane noma lapho ingane yakho ilala. Kodwa khumbula ukuthi amashejuli abancane nabesikhathi sokuphumula bayoshintsha, ngakho-ke hlalani.