Ingabe izingane zakho ziba nobuhlobo obuhle bomntakwethu? Noma ingabe bayakwazi ukulwa kunokuba bajabulele inkampani yomunye nomunye?
Kungakhathaliseki ukuhluka kwezingane zakubo, ukuziphatha komuntu noma ubulili, iqiniso liwukuthi ikhwalithi yezibopho zabo zakudala kungabalulekile kakhulu. Ucwaningo luye lwabonisa ukuthi ubudlelwane bomntakwethu bavame ukudlala indima enkulu endleleni esizosebenzisana ngayo nabanye ubudlelwane nabangane, abalingani bomlingani, nabanye ekuhambeni kwesikhathi ekuphileni.
Abazali bangadlala indima ebalulekile ekusizeni ukukhulisa ubudlelwane obuhle bezingane zakubo futhi bancishise ukulwa nokuxabana kwezingane zakubo. Ngokukhuthaza imisebenzi ekhuthaza ukusebenzisana, ukubeka izingane ukuze zijabule kanyekanye, futhi zinike izingane amathuluzi okwenza izingxabano ngendlela eyakhayo nehloniphekayo, abazali bangasiza abantakwethu ukuba bakhe ubuhlobo obuhle obuzobuthwala kuzo zonke izimpilo zabo.
Amathiphu okukhuthaza ukuboleka kwezibambiso ezinhle
- Ungaqhathanisi izingane zakho komunye nomunye. Okokuqala futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, zama ukungazisho izinto ezinjengalezi, "Kungani ungalaleli kanye nomfowenu?" Noma "Udade wakho akayikukhuluma nami." Ukuqhathanisa izingane zakho komunye nomunye ngumlilo oqinisekile indlela yokugubha imililo yokulwa nomntakwethu kanye nokwakha intukuthelo.
- Zama ukuthola ukuthi yini eyabangela izingxabano zakini. Ingabe izingane zakho zivame ukwehla uma umuntu ezama ukutholela omunye? Ingabe bayaphikisana nesikhathi sakho nokunakekelwa? Ingabe balwa ngaphezulu uma bekhathele noma bekhathele? Uma ubona iphethini engase ichaze lokhu kuziphatha, zama ukuxazulula lezo zinkinga ukuze unciphise ukulingana kwabantwana bakini. Isibonelo, ungazama ukusebenzisa isikhathi esisodwa ngomunye nomntwana ngamunye noma zama ukusiza ingane yakho ukuthola izindlela ezingcono, ezingezona izindlela zokuthola ukunakwa kwengane.
- Bafundise ukuqonda ukungezwani kwabo. Ingabe unomntwana oyedwa othanda ukuhlala nokufunda ngokuthula futhi omunye ongathandi lutho olungcono kunezemidlalo ephezulu nemisebenzi eqhubekayo? Lapho izingane zinesithakazelo esihluke kakhulu nezinkomba, izingxabano zingenzeka ngokwemvelo.
Into ebalulekile ukufundisa izingane ukuthi zihloniphe kanjani lokho okungafani, nokuthi ungabheka kanjani okubaluleke kakhulu: Ukuthandana. Ngakho-ke uma ingane eyodwa ifuna ukukhetha umsebenzi womndeni ohlanganisa isenzo esiningi ngenkathi enye ingane ifuna ukwenza okuthile okuthula nokukhiya okhiye, isibonelo, abazali bangasetha uhlelo lapho bangasebenza ndawonye ukuze bahlele ukuthi baphenduke kanjani noma thola ezinye izithakazelo ezivamile ezingaba mnandi kubo bobabili.
- Benze basebenze emisebenzini yomsebenzi noma iphrojekthi njengeqembu. Enye yezindlela izinkampani zakha umqondo wokubambisana nokubambisana phakathi kwabasebenzi bazo ukuthi abasebenzi bahlanganyele ekuzivocavoca nasekusebenzeni okukhuthaza ukusebenzisana ndawonye. Abazali bangenza okufanayo nezingane zabo, kungaba ngokuthi izingane zisebenze ndawonye emsebenzini noma ngokusizana ngemisebenzi .
Woza ngeprojekthi, efana nokudweba igumbi lokuphumula noma ukuhlanza igaraji, futhi izingane zisebenze ndawonye ukuze zenzeke. Futhi ungaba nezingane zithatha imisebenzi engcono kakhulu yobudala kanye namakhono abo , njengokungena noma ukusiza ukulungiselela isidlo sakusihlwa bese ubagijima ngokumelene nalabo abakhulile endlini ukuze babone ukuthi ubani owenza imisebenzi yabo ngokushesha. (Ukwenza izingane iqembu elilodwa kanye nabantu abadala bangakhuthaza izingane ukuba zisebenze ndawonye zibhekane nomgomo ovamile ukushaya umama nobaba.) - Khuthaza amakhono okulalela okuhle. Ikhono lokulalela ngempela lokho okushiwo othile yikhono elibalulekile lezingane zokuthuthukisa, futhi elibasiza bafunde ukuzwelana nabanye futhi babone izinto kusuka ekuboneni komunye umuntu. Yenza iphuzu lokuba nabantwana bakini balalele futhi bazame kanzima ukuqonda imibono nemicabango yomunye nomunye.
- Bafundise ukuhloniphana. Ukulalela yindlela eyodwa yokubonisa inhlonipho komunye nomunye, futhi inhlonipho ibalulekile ekwakheni ubuhlobo obuhle, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi phakathi kwabahlobo, ozakwethu, noma abantakwethu. Khumbuza izingane ukuthi kufanele baphathe abanye ngendlela abafuna ukuphathwa ngayo, ngomusa nokukhathazeka ngemizwa yabo. Ukuhlonipha kungabandakanya ukukhuluma komunye nomunye ngokusebenzisa izwi elihle noma okungenani elibi lezwi, ngisho nalapho kungavumelani; hhayi ukubeka phansi imibono yabantwana bakini; futhi ukhumbula isikhala somunye nomunye umuntu (ukungena egumbini lomntwana ngaphandle kwemvume noma ukuthinta izinto zakhe, isibonelo).
- Babonise ukuthi bangavumelani kanjani ngenhlonipho. Abantu abathandana bangavumelani ngezinye izikhathi - lokho kuyiqiniso nje lokuphila. Kodwa indlela esisingatha ngayo lezo zingxabano ezibalulekile. Fundisa izingane zakho ukuthi zingaboni ngaso sonke isikhathi izinto ezithinta izinto, kodwa ukuthi akufanele zibize amagama, vumela izimpikiswano zithinte ukuxhumana kwazo okuhle, futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke, zihlanganyele empini yangempela.
- Jabulela ndawonye njengomndeni. Imindeni ejabulisayo ndawonye ngeke ibe nempikiswano encane. Zama ukukhetha imidlalo nemisebenzi engayithokozela umndeni wonke, njengokugibela amabhayisikili noma ukubukela i- movie entsha yezingane .
- Gcizelela ukuthi yiziphi izibopho zomndeni ezikushoyo ngempela. Chaza izingane zakho futhi uzikhumbuze ngezikhathi ezithile lowo mndeni, ikakhulukazi izingane zakini, kungaba uhlobo lokuthandwa nokusekelwa okungaxhunyiwe okungenakufaneka kalula. Khumbuza izingane zakho ukuthi nakuba zivame ukukhetha inkampani yabangane phezu komfowenu noma udadewethu manje, bazobaluleke kakhulu komunye nomunye njengoba bekhula. Ngenkathi bengase bangaqondi ngokuphelele ukubaluleka kobudlelwane bomntakwethu okwamanje, lo myalezo owufanelekile ukuwuphindaphinda, futhi owodwa ekugcineni uzokhula uma ekhula njengoba ekhula.