Yeka ukuthi imidlalweni yamaViewu enobudlova ingaba kanjani "Fundisa" i-Aggressiveness
Uma ungumzali onabantwana ekhaya, amathuba ukuthi uyazi umbuzo othi "ukuvumela noma ukungavumeli": inkinga enkulu abazali ababhekana nayo lapho benquma ukuthi kufanele bavumele izingane zabo ukudlala imidlalo yevidiyo enobudlova.
Kube khona impikiswano eningi mayelana nendaba yokuthi ukuchayeka emidlalweni yevidiyo enobudlova nakweminye imidiya yezobudlova, njengama-movie nemidlalo ye-TV, ithinta izingane.
Ucwaningo oluningi lubonisa ukuthi ubudlova emithonjeni engaba yingozi engozini yokuthuthukiswa, kwezinye izingane, ukuhlukumezeka, ukunciphisa ukukhathalela abanye, ukukhuphula ukuziphatha okuphazamisayo nokuphazamisayo , kanye nokuziphatha okungahambisani nabanye.
Abaningi abacwaningi bathi akunakwenzeka ukuthi ukudlala imidlalo yevidiyo enobudlova kuzobangela ingane ingabikho nezinye izici eziyingozi zokuhlukumezeka ukuba zibe ngumuntu ohlukumeza kakhulu futhi ehlukumeza abanye. Noma kunjalo, enye yezingxabano ezingcono kakhulu zokunciphisa ukuvezwa kwezingane zonke emithonjeni yemidiya enobudlova, kungakhathaliseki isizinda sabo siqu, livela ocwaningweni lwamuva olushicilelwe ku- JAMA Pediatrics .
Imiphumela YeMidlalo YamaViyo Eyingozi: Okushiwo yiSifundo
Ucwaningo lwaluholwa nguDouglas Gentile, PhD, uprofesa othandana naye wezokwelapha e-Iowa State University kanye nochwepheshe owaziwayo ngemiphumela yezindaba ezinganeni nakubantu abadala. Kubonise ukuthi izingane ezidlala ngokuphindaphindiwe imidlalo yevidiyo enobudlova zifunde ukucabanga ngezindlela ezinonya ezingagcina zithonya ukuziphatha kwazo.
Ukuze kuhlolwe, abacwaningi balandelela izingane ezingaphezu kuka-3,000 ngezigaba ezintathu, 4, 7, kanye namatshumi ayisishiyagalombili iminyaka emithathu. Bathola ukuthi, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ukudlala imidlalo yevidiyo enobudlova kubangele ukuthi izingane zicabange ngokufutheka futhi ziphathe ngokufutheka.
"Izingane ziyashintsha indlela abacabanga ngayo" ngemva kokuvezwa isikhathi eside emidlalweni yevidiyo enobudlova, kusho uDkt. Gentile.
Uchaza ukuthi lokhu kungaholela ekushintsheni kokubili ukucabanga nokuziphatha: "Bachitha isikhathi esiningi befuna izitha futhi besabela ngokushesha emotweni."
Isibonelo, ingane evame ukufaka ingxabano enobudlova ezweni lomdlalo wevidiyo kungase ibe nomcabango wokucabanga, ukusho noma ukwenza okuthile okuthukuthele noma okungenabubele uma ephuthunyiswa ngengozi ngomunye umuntu egumbini esikoleni.
"Umzimba uwuphatha njengokulwa kwangempela," kusho uDkt. Gentile.
Yeka ukuthi "Ukuzikhandla" kanjani Ukunciphisa NgeMidlalo Yemidlalo Ufundisa Ukuqiniswa Kwangempela Kwokuphila
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kuyisidingo somculo, isimiso somdanso, noma iTaekwondo sihamba, izingane ziqhuba imisebenzi ngokuphindaphindiwe ukuze zikwazi ukuzenza ngcono futhi zibe ngcono. Bahlakulela imemori ye-muscle yezenzo futhi baba namakhono amaningi kubo bobabili ngokomzimba nangokweqile.
Ngokufanayo, kusho uDkt. Gentile, ukuvezwa ngokuphindaphindiwe kokuqukethwe okubudlova noma okungalungile kunganikeza isilungiselelo sokuziphatha "kokuziphatha" kuze kube yilapho ingane ifunda ukuthi ingayenza kanjani kahle.
"Okukhulunywa ngakho ngukufunda," kusho uDkt. Gentile. "Kuyiqiniso emithonjeni enobudlova noma engekho enobudlova."
Kuthiwani Ngokuboniswa Okuqukethwe Okungahambisani Nezobudlova? Emcwaningweni odlule, uDkt. Gentile wathola ukuthi imidlalo yevidiyo, imibukiso ye-TV, amabhayisikobho, nokunye okuqukethwe okuveza izinhlamvu njengeziwusizo, ezinomusa , nokubambisana kunethonya elihle ekuphatheni kwezingane.
(Khumbula zonke lezo zifundo ezinhle esizifundile njengezingane ezibuka iSesame Street?)
Ngamanye amazwi, ukunakekelwa nokwabelana, njengokuhlukunyezwa nobudlova, kungenziwa futhi kufundwe, futhi.
"Ngingakwenza ini njengomzali?"
Amaphesenti angu-90 wezingane acatshangwa ukuthi adlala imidlalo yevidiyo, ngakho awukwazi ukulindela ukubuyela emuva. Yini ongayenza ukuthi uthole okunye okubandakanyekile kulokho ingane yakho ikubona nokuyenza. Wena umgomo: ukunciphisa ukuvezwa kokuqukethwe okubudlova nokugxilisa imisebenzi yengane yakho kumathonya amnandi ngangokunokwenzeka.
Umthombo:
DA weZizwe, Li D, Khoo A, et al. "Ukuzikhandla, ukucabanga, nokusebenza: abalamuleli nabomengameli bemiphumela yegeyimu yevidiyo yodlame yesikhathi eside ekuphatheni okubi. JAMAPediatrics. 2014; 168 (5): 450-457.