7 Izindlela Zokunciphisa Ukuboniswa Kwengane Yakho Kubudlova Emaphephandabeni

Yenza izingane zakho zingabikho okuqukethwe okwesabekayo noma okuvuthiwe ngalezi zeluleko

Ngokuqukethwe okuningi kwezindaba kanye nezindlela eziningi zokubuka imibukiso ye-TV, amavidiyo, nama-movie noma ukudlala imidlalo yevidiyo namhlanje, kuba nzima nakakhulu kubazali ukuhlunga okuqukethwe okuqukethwe izingane zabo zonke izinsuku. Futhi ngaphandle kokuthi ubeke ingane yakho ku-bubble, ngokuqinisekile uzokwazi ukuvezwa okuthile kokuthusa noma okungafanelekile esikoleni noma endlini yomngane, ngisho noma wenza konke okusemandleni akho ukubuka lokho akubona ekhaya ku-TV, kuma-movie noma ku- internet.

Kodwa kubalulekile ukuba abazali bagcine amathebhu ukuthi okuqukethwe okungavuthiwe izingane zabo zivezwa kuzo. Ucwaningo lubonisa ukuthi okuqukethwe kwamaphephandaba ezinobudlova njengama-movie wevidiyo namabhayisikobho we-TV kuthinta izingane, ngezifundo eziningi ezibonisa ukuthi ubudlova emithonjeni kungaba yingozi engozini yokuhlukunyezwa, ukunciphisa ukuzwela, ukukhuphula ukuziphatha okuphikisanayo nokuphazamisa, nokunye ukuziphatha okungahambisani nabantu kwezinye izingane

Ngakho yini abazali abangayenza ukuze bavikele izingane ezifunda esikoleni ebudloveni nasezocansi kumaphephandaba? Nanka amanye amasu okuhlola nokukhetha okuqukethwe kwemidiya ingane yakho ibonakala ku:

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Yazi Abangane Bengane Yakho

Bangobani abantwana abadlala esikoleni? Ingabe kukhona umngane othize owamnika imininingwane ngempahla enobudlova noma engafanele ayibonile, noma mhlawumbe ezwe ngaye evela kumntakwethu omdala? Ungazama ukukhuluma nabazali be-pal mayelana nokuba nengane yabo ithinte phansi ubudlova bezindaba kanye nezinto ezilinganiselwe nguR. Uma lokho kungasebenzi, ungacabangela ukuqondisa ingane yakho ebusweni nabantwana abazali babo abakholelwa ekunciphiseni abafundi babo esikoleni ukuthi bafinyelele kokuqukethwe kwezindaba ezivuthiwe.

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Bheka amawebhusayithi e-Media-Content Review abazali

Ulimi oluluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka? Ingabe kukhona ubudlova, futhi kubonakala kanjani? Kuthiwani ngokuqukethwe okucansi noma okucacile kocansi? Uzofuna ukumba ngaphambi kokuthi ulethe i-movie ekhaya lakho. Enye imithombo enhle yokuhlola i-Common Sense Media, inhlangano kazwelonke yezingcweti zezingane ezibukela amabhayisikobho, imidlalo yevidiyo, i-TV, izincwadi, kanye neminye imithombo yokusiza abazali ukuba benze izinqumo ezifanele ezinganeni zabo. (Uma unomntwana osekhulile esikoleni, ungase ufune ukufunda ukubuyekezwa naye ukuze uxoxe ngokuqondile ukuthi kungani ubeka i-movie ethile, ukubonisa, noma umdlalo wevidiyo.)

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Isikrini Ngaphambi kwesikhathi

Awudingi noma iyiphi into emangazayo ngenkathi ubheka i-movie kanye nezingane zakho. Yingakho ukubuka i- movie noma i-DVD ngaphambi kokuba ubusuku befilimu yomndeni kusibuko sobudlova bemidiya noma okunye okuqukethwe okungathandeki kuwumqondo omuhle. Uma uzibuza ukuthi iwebhusayithi iphephile, zihlole wena ngaphambi kokuvumela ingane yakho ukuthi ifinyelele. Kumageyimu wevidiyo, iya ku-inthanethi uphinde ufunde zonke izibuyekezo ongayenza mayelana nomdlalo bese ushayele isitolo segeyimu yevidiyo yakho yangakini ukuze ubone ukuthi noma yikuphi kubhalisi bezokuthengisa abanokuhlangenwe nakho koqobo ngomdlalo.

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Xhumana Nabanye Abazali

Abanye abazali abanezingane zokufunda esikoleni samabanga aphansi bangaba yimithombo enhle kakhulu yolwazi mayelana nodlame lwezokuxhumana kanye nokuqukethwe okucacile. Kungenzeka ukuthi, baye bahlangabezana nezinqumo ezifanayo mayelana nokuthi bangavumeli yini ingane yabo ukuba ibone i-movie ethize noma i-TV noma idlale umdlalo wevidiyo odumile. Ungashintsha ulwazi nolwazi, futhi uthole i-downdown yakamuva kulokho izingane ezingena khona.

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Nqaba Ukucindezela Kontanga-Futhi Fundisa Ingane Yakho Ukwenza Okufanayo

Akubona bonke abazali abavuma ukuthi yini enhle ngomntanakho. Okungaba yi- movie enhle yezingane emndenini owodwa kungabhekwa njengodlame komunye. Lokhu kungase kube yinkinga eminye imindeni kusukela kubazali abaningi kulezi zinsuku kuvumela ngisho nezingane ezincane ukubona nokudlala ngokuqukethwe okuqukethe ubudlova noma izinto ezingalungile.

Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuthi abazali bahloniphe imibono ehlukile futhi babone ukukhetha ngabanye njengaleyo kuphela-umuntu ngamunye. Gwema ukwahlulela abanye abazali ngezintandokazi zabo ezinganeni zabo bese ubacela ukuba benze okufanayo. Futhi uma ingane yakho izwa ukucindezelwa kontanga, zama ukuthola eminye imisebenzi abangayenza nabangani babo abangahileleki izikrini.

Ucwaningo luye lwabonisa ukuthi ukuqapha nokusika emuva kwesikrini kwaholela eziningana zezinzuzo ezinganeni ezifana nokulala okungcono, amamaki athuthukisiwe, kanye nenani eliphansi lomzimba womzimba. Futhi ukunciphisa ubuchwepheshe ngokujwayelekile-nokufunda ndawonye noma ukuphuma ngaphandle-umqondo omuhle.

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Yenza Izinqumo Kumntwana Wakho

Uma ngabe ingane yakho iyinhlobo yezinyane eliphethe ama-nightmares ngemva kokubona noma yini esesabekayo noma enobudlova ngokukhululekile, yenza okucacile kokuqukethwe okuphazamisayo nokwesabekayo, noma ngabe kulinganiswe i-PG noma i-PG-13. (Abanye abantwana bangase babesabeke yiParaNorman ngenkathi abanye bengacaciswa kancane nomqondo wezimpumputhe.)

Ungapheli futhi uvumele ingane yakho ibone into owaziyo ingamcasula ngoba nje ikucela ukuba wenze kanjalo; kungenzeka ukuthi usabele ekucindezelweni kontanga kumngane okungenzeka ukuthi uyibone. Ngendlela efanayo, ungamfaki okuqukethwe okungahle kumcasule ngoba nje ucabanga ukuthi kufanele kumkhathaze. Okukhathaza ingane eyodwa kungase kungabi nomphumela ofanayo komunye, ngakho-ke hamba ngesimo sakho ngomntwana wakho.

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Khuluma Ngokuqukethwe

Ukucwaninga kubonisa ukuthi ukuqapha kwabazali kokuqukethwe kwezindaba, okufaka ukubuka okuthile kwengane yakho nokuxoxisana ngalokho okubonayo, kuvikela izingane emiphumeleni emibi yokuqukethwe kwezindaba ezinobudlova, njengokuhlukunyezwa okwenyukayo.

Buka imibukiso namabhayisikobho nengane yakho noma kunini lapho kungenzeka khona, futhi ubheke lokho abakubonayo kuyi-intanethi noma kumdlalo wevidiyo. Uma ngabe ingane yakho ikubuza ngento ethile ayibonayo kumabhayisikobho noma kumdlalo wevidiyo owawubudlova noma obonisa imidwebo, yiba nomthelela ngangokunokwenzeka ngaphandle kokungena emininingwaneni eminingi kakhulu. (Ngisho nabafundi bebanga elidala, abangase bacabange ukuthi bangakwazi ukuphatha ubudlova obuningi bezindaba kanye nezinto ezicacile, bangabeswa yizithombe ezingalungile.) Chaza kafushane ukuthi ubudlova nezinye izinto ezivuthiwe zingabangela impilo ezinganeni-futhi kwezinye izimo abadala- nokuthi umsebenzi wakho ukuvikela inhlalakahle yakhe kuze kube yilapho esekhulile futhi engakwazi ukwenza izinqumo mayelana nokukhula kwabantu.