Izingane Ezifuywayo Zivame Ukwabelana Ngezici Eziyishumi
Awazi ukuthi ungenzani ingane yakho. Ukuziphatha kwakhe kuyamangalisa futhi kuphazamisa. Ngezinye izikhathi uyazibuza ukuthi unayo i-ADHD, i-ODD, i-OCD, i-disorder disordination disorder, noma esinye isifo noma i-syndrome. Uyazibuza ukuthi unokukhubazeka kokufunda . Noma mhlawumbe, ucabanga ukuthi uvilapha futhi akanandaba. Mhlawumbe, noma kunjalo, ingane yakho inesipho. Ungatshela kanjani?
Izinhlobo ze-Giftedness
Okokuqala, kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi lobuphiko akuyona nje indaba yokuphumelela kwezemfundo.
Ingane (noma umuntu omdala) ingaba nekhono ezindaweni eziningana ezahlukene:
- Ubuhlakani
- I-Creative
- Ubuciko
- Ubuholi
- Isifundo
Ngakho-ke, ngisho noma ingane yakho ingeyona i-academic whiz, kungenzeka ibe nesipho kwezinye izindawo. Ngenkathi izikole zingase zibe nesithakazelo ekuhlakanipheni kwengqondo nokufunda, abazali kufanele basekele ukudala kwengane, ubuciko, noma ezinye izipho zabo. Lokhu kungase kubaluleke nakakhulu lapho ingane yakho ihamba emabhalweni aphezulu noma iqala umsebenzi.
Izivivinyo ze-Giftedness
Ngenkathi "ukuhlolwa okusheshayo" (okufana nalokhu ngezansi) kungakunika ulwazi kumakhono wengane yakho, akuzona ukuhlolwa kwangempela kokufaneleka. Uma ingane ikhonjiswe njengelinye isipho, izobhekana nezivivinyo ezihlukahlukene ezihlongozwe ngokucophelela, ezibekwe uphawu olucacile ukuze zithole ukuthi ngabe yiliphi izinga elingaphezulu ngaphezu kwesilinganiso. Ezinye zalezi zivivinyo zingabandakanya:
- Ukuhlola okujwayelekile kwe-IQ
- Izivivinyo ze-I-Non-verbal IQ
- Ukuhlolwa kokuphumelela
Imiphumela yalezi zivivinyo, ezilawulwa ochwepheshe abaqeqeshwe, inikezela izikole ngolwazi oludingayo ukubeka, ukufundisa, nokuphikisa ingane yakho.
Uhla lokuhlola lwezici zezingane ezinezintandane
Izingane ezinezinwele azihlali zihlala njalo ezindleleni ongayilindela. Isibonelo, izingane eziningi ezinamakhono zibonakala sengathi "zihamba phambili" ekilasini, kanti abanye bangase babe nesikhathi esinzima ukulawula isilingo sabo. Ngenxa yalokho, bangase bangabi izinkanyezi zeklasini; Empeleni, bangase babe nezinkinga ngokuphindaphindiwe kunalokho!
Ezinye izici zobunikazi zihambisana nezici zokukhathazeka kwentuthuko. Ngakho-ke kungaba nzima ukuthola ukuthi ingane isinekhono noma ixilongwa nge-ADHD, i-autism esebenzayo, noma enye inkinga ehlobene. Futhi-ke, kunokwenzeka ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi ube nekhono futhi ube nesifo sokuthuthukiswa.
Ungaphendula imibuzo elandelayo bese ubona ukuthi zingaki zokuziphatha okusebenzayo kumntwana wakho. Khumbula, nakuba akuzona zonke izingane ezineziphiwo ezifanayo, ngakho-ke akuzona zonke izingane eziphathekayo ezizobe nazo zonke lezi zici, kodwa uma ezinye zazo zizwakala zijwayele, ungase ufune ukufunda okuningi mayelana nezingane ezinezipho !
- Khuluma i-streak eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka, usebenzisa isilulumagama esingajwayelekile
- Buza imibuzo eminingi
- Kubonakala ngokungavamile ukuzwela ukungabi nabulungisa noma ukungabi nabubele
- Ukugqoka nawe ngemibuzo yakhe engapheli
- Ukukukhipha ngamandla akhe okubonakala engenamkhawulo
- Thola ukukhathazeka ngoba umsebenzi wakhe ungaphansi kokuphelela
- Gxila ngokuphelele emisebenzini nasemicabangweni
- Khetha ukusebenzela ngokuzimela esikhundleni seqembu
- Thola kunzima (noma kungathandeki) ukuvumelanisa nokulindela kwabanye
- Yiba nezinga elingavamile lokuthakazelisa ekuhleleni nasekuhleleni izinto noma imibono
Ngicabanga ukuthi Ingane Yami Iphethwe; Manje?
Uma uhlu lokuhlola olungenhla luchaza ingane yakho, ungase uthande ukucabangela ukuba ihlolwe noma ihlolwe ngezipho.
Khuluma nengcweti yengqondo yengane yakho noma umeluleki ukusetha ibhethri ye-IQ nokuhlolwa kwamandla ukuze ubone ukuthi uhlelo lwezemfundo lwezingane yakho lufanelekile yini izipho zakhe.
Kodwa-ke, uma ingane yakho ihlangabezana nobunzima ukukhuluma noontanga, ukunciphisa ukuziphatha okufisayo, noma ukuqedela umsebenzi ngesikhathi, ungase ufune ukuphakamisa imibuzo ngalezo zindaba kanye. Ingane yakho ingase ibe nekhono; Ngesikhathi esifanayo, noma kunjalo, angase abe nezinselelo okufanele zibhekiswe ukuze izipho zakhe zikhanye.
> Imithombo
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