Ukwenza umkhuba wokuhlelwa komsebenzi osemncane ukusiza ukuhlukumeza ukuhlukana
Kungu-8: 00 futhi ufaka izicathulo zakho ukuba ushiye emsebenzini; uthatha ingubo yakho ukuze uphume isidlo; ususa i-suitcase yakho ukubamba indiza yenkomfa yomsebenzi; noma uvele uvuke embhedeni ukuze uye endlini yokugezela. Ingane yakho iba yindlala. Ukukhala, ukumemeza, ukunamathela emlenzeni wakho. Ukucela ukuba ungashiyi.
Abazali abaningi baye babhekana nalesi simo ngenye indlela.
Udinga ukushiya ingane yakho nomnakekeli (noma omunye umzali), kodwa awukwazi ukusiza uzizwe udabukile futhi unecala ushiye ingane yakho kuma-hysterics. Mhlawumbe nawe uzizwa ungenamahloni kancane phambi komhleli noma elinye ilunga lomndeni. Lesi simo sicindezela futhi sithukuthelela abazali.
Ngezansi kukhona amathiphu kanye nolunye ulwazi oluwusizo lokusiza abazali ukuba banciphise inkinga yokuqubuka kokuhlelwa kokuhle.
Ukuziphatha kuyinto evamile
Njengoba kudabukisayo njengoba ungase uzizwe ukubuka ingane yakho ikhala, kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi ukuziphatha kwengane yakho kuvamile. Ukukhathazeka kokuhlukanisa kuqala ezinyangeni ezingu-8. Ngalesi sikhathi ukuthi izingane ezincane zingakwazi ukuthi abazali bahlukene ngabanye futhi bangashiya. Nokho izingane ezincane azikwazi ukuqonda umqondo wokuthi umzali uzobuya. Kungumsebenzi wakho ukubasiza baqonde ukuthi abazali babuya.
Ngenisa Abanye Abanakekeli
Isinyathelo sokuqala sokuhlukanisa ukuhlukaniswa kwabantwana siletha abanye abanakekeli.
Ngesikhathi ingane yakho inenyanga engu-6, abazali kufanele bathulise abanye abanakekeli ukuze ingane ikwazi ukuqhuba ngaphandle komzali. Omunye umnakekeli uzokwenza futhi akhulume ngokuhlukile kunomzali. Ukuba phakathi kwamanye abantu abanakekeli kuzokwehlisa ukukhathazeka ngokwehlukanisa lapho ingane iya esikoleni noma ngezikhathi lapho umzali engekho.
Qala i-Goodbyes Ekuqaleni
Ngesikhathi esencane uqale isimiso sokuthi ingane yakho ihlehlise noma nini lapho ushiya. Ukuhlelwa okusheshayo ngokumanga kanye nomswakama kuhle. Inzuzo ende engokomzwelo ayiyikusiza ukukhathazeka kwengane yakho. Tshela ingane yakho imvume noma ngabe ugijima esitolo bese ubuyela kumaminithi angu-10. Uma uhamba ngokuphindaphindiwe futhi ubuyela ngokuhlelwa okuhle, kuzoba lula ukuthi ingane yakho iqonde umqondo wokuhlukaniswa.
Thuthukisa Isiko
Umkhuba ngokusiza unciphisa ukukhathazeka kwengane yakho futhi unikeze ukuphepha. Noma ngabe yimuphi umkhuba owenzayo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi u-five high and wave or kisses amabili ne-bump bump, kuzothumela ingane yakho isignali ukuthi sekuyisikhathi sokuba ushiye. Imikhuba ibaluleke kakhulu lapho ingane yakho isiya esikoleni kodwa akukaze kube sekuseni kakhulu ukuqala umkhuba.
Khumbuza Ingane Yakho ukuthi Abazali Bahlale Babuyela
Ngaso sonke isikhathi lapho ushilo ukuthi utshele ingane yakho ukuthi uzobuya. Ungasho nje ukuthi "umama uzobuya emuva" noma "abazali bayobuya njalo." Kubalulekile ukuba izingane zizwe futhi ekugcineni ziqonde ukuthi abazali bahlale bebuya. UDaniel Tiger unesiqephu esihle ngoma ingoma ehehayo ekhumbuza izingane ukuthi "Ukukhuphuka Kubuya."
Ungagodli
Ngisho noma ungase ucabange ukugoqa ngaphandle into okufanele uyenze ukugwema ukuqubuka; akunjalo!
Ukuzulazula kuyakhohlisa ingane yakho futhi ithumela umyalezo odidekile. Esikhundleni salokho, yenza uhlelo nomnakekeli wakho ukuqondisa kabusha ingane yakho uma ukuqubuka kuqala ngengoma, ithoyizi oyithandayo noma noma yini oyikhethayo. Bese usho lokho okusheshayo nokuphuma.
Ungabuyiselwa emuva
Zama okusemandleni akho ukuthi ungabuyeli emuva uma ingane yakho iqala ukukhala futhi ikufinyelele. Ukubuyela emuva ngemuva kokushiya kuphela kunika ingane yakho isikhuthazo ukukhala kanzima futhi isikhathi eside ngokuzayo. Njengoba kunzima kangakanani kuwe, zama ukukhumbula ukuthi ukungena ekutheni ukuqubuka kuyinto efanelekile ukusiza ukuthuthukiswa kwengane yakho.
Uma udinga ukubuya, phinda uzuze futhi umkhuba futhi ukhumbuze ingane yakho ukuthi uzobuya. Yiba ocacile njengoba ungakwazi mayelana nokuthi uzobuya nini, ngokwemigomo yezingane.
"Uzobe nosuku olumnandi kangaka [faka igama lomhleli]. Umama kufanele ahambe emsebenzini, kodwa uMama uzokubona emva kokudla! Abazali bahlale bebuya. Ngiyakuthanda!" Nika isikhonkwane futhi ubambe futhi uhambe.