Qala lo mkhuba onempilo masinyane, futhi wenze kube mnandi!
Ukufundisa izingane ngokuzivocavoca kungenye yezinto eziningi abazali abazenzayo ukuze izingane ziqale kahle. Uqhubeka ohlwini oluhlolisisa izingane, ukukhonza ukudla okunempilo, ukufunda ndawonye, nokunikeza izinkomba, kisses, nokudumisa ngokukhululekile.
Isinyathelo sokuqala sisiza abancane ukwenza umsebenzi wokuzivocavoca umcimbi wansuku zonke, manje futhi njengoba bekhula. "Ukuhamba nokuzivocavoca izingane kufanele kube umkhuba onjengoba ukuxubha amazinyo nsuku zonke-kodwa kumnandi nakakhulu!" uthi uRae Pica, umqeqeshi wezemfundo ohamba phambili nomlobi we- A Running Start: Idlalwa kanjani, umsebenzi womzimba kanye nesikhathi samahhala kwakha ingane enempumelelo (Marlowe & Company).
Kungani Ukufundisa Izingane Ngokuzivocavoca Kubalulekile
"Izingane zazalwa ukuba zihambe," kusho uPica, ekuqapheliseni ukuthi ukunyakaza kusiza izingane ukuba zithuthukise hhayi imizimba yazo kuphela, kodwa futhi nobuchopho bazo, ikhono labo lokufunda, namakhono abo omphakathi. "Akuthinti nje ukuthuthukiswa ngokomzimba , kodwa ukuthuthukiswa kwengqondo, ezenhlalakahle nezomzwelo-ingane yonke."
Ukukhula kwasekuseni kuyisikhathi esihle kakhulu sokubeka imikhuba emihle ukuze izingane zifune futhi zijabulele ukuzivocavoca esikhundleni sokuzigwema. Futhi-ke, ukuqala izindlela zakuqala ukuvuna izinzuzo ekuqaleni! "Ukuzivocavoca umzimba okunamandla kunika amandla ubuchopho ngamanzi, i-glucose, ne-oksijeni, sonke esiyidingayo ukuze sisebenze kahle," kusho u-Pica. "Futhi kutholwa lawo ma-endorphin, ngakho-ke sizizwa singcono kakhulu. Lokhu kuhamba kokubili abazali nezingane."
Indlela Yokuthola Umndeni Wakho Ukuhamba
Izingane zingase "zizalwe ukuthutha," kodwa uma zingaboni abazali bazo benza impilo kuqala, bazobuya ngokushesha ekungeneni ubhontshisi emabhodleleni amazambane.
"Okubalulekile kubalulekile abantu abadala ezibhedlela zezingane kubalulekile kubo," kusho uPaca. Ngakho-ke thina abadala kufanele sibe yizibonelo ezinhle. Izingane zilalela (ngisho noma kubonakala sengathi abasizwa ngathi sizicele ukuthi zithathe amathoyizi abo!). Ngakho qiniseka ukuthi uyabona abazali abasebenzisa, futhi bayakujabulela.
Ngaphandle kokuthi ube yisibonelo esihle, kungcono kuwe ukugqugquzela ukuzivocavoca izingane ngokuqiniseka ukuthi banesikhathi, isikhala, namathuba okuhambisa nokudlala. Kulula, futhi kunzima, njengalokho. Uma unenselele ngokuhlala endaweni yedolobha noma isimo sezulu esibi kakhulu, ungase udingeke ube nokudala ngokwengeziwe ngokuthola lezo zithuba namathuba. Futhi sonke siphikisana nesikhathi-ubani ongafanelana nakho konke esikufunayo futhi okudingeka sikwenze? Yingakho ukwenza umkhuba umkhuba kusiza. Sonke sithola isikhathi sokusunduza lawo mazinyo; sidinga ukuthola leso sikhathi sokuqina.
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Ukudlala nezingane zakho kunika abantwana abadlala nabo, kubonisa ukuthi ucabanga ukuthi ukudlala kubalulekile, futhi kukunikeza ithuba lokuhamba futhi. Kodwa izingane nazo zingakwazi, futhi kufanele zidlale ngokuzimela. "Izingane zizofunda okuningi uma zidlala zodwa: ukuxazululwa kwezinkinga, ukuxazulula izingxabano, ukuzwakalisa ukuziveza," kusho u-Pica.
U-Pica uphakamisa imidlalo emithathu elandelayo ukuze kube lula kumndeni womndeni. Abazali bangakhonza njengabagqugquzeli nabahlezi, noma bajoyine-noma ngabe nonke unemizwa yanamuhla.
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