Ukuthola ukuthi i-middle or teen yakho ibanjwe nezidakamizwa esikoleni kungakushiya uzizwe sengathi uphakathi kwenhlekelele enkulu.
Kungakusiza ukwazi ukuthi ingane yakho ayilona yedwa. Nakuba imibiko kahulumeni wase-United States yokusetshenziswa kwezidakamizwa phakathi kwentsha ibonisa ukwehla kokusetshenziswa, izinga lokusetshenziswa kwezidakamizwa ezingekho emthethweni ngonyaka odlule-hhayi ukufaka inambuzane-namanje ngamaphesenti angu-5.4 phakathi kwama-graders ayisishiyagalombili kuya ku-14.3 amaphesenti phakathi kwabantu abadala esikoleni esiphakeme.
Ukusetshenziswa kwensangu yansuku zonke kusezingeni eliphansi kunazo zonke emashumini eminyaka, nakuba inambuzane isebenzisa phakathi kwentsha ijwayele ukuphakama emithethweni yezokwelapha, kanti amaphesenti angu-6 asebekhulile asetshenziselwa ukusebenzisa inambuzane nsuku zonke.
Ukubanjwa nezidakamizwa esikoleni, kubandakanya inambuzane ngisho nokuphuza utshwala , kungabangela izinkinga eziningi eziyinkimbinkimbi abazali ukuba bahambe ngazo. Kukhona imithetho yesikole sendawo, noma yimiphi imithetho yezingane noma yezobugebengu ephathelene nokutholakala kwezinto eziphathelene nezizathu zesikole, nemiphumela yezempilo nokuziphatha kokusetshenziswa kwempahla noma umsebenzi.
Isifunda ngasinye esikoleni sendawo nesifundazwe sizoba nemithetho nemithetho yaso ezosebenza esimweni ngasinye. Ngenkathi kungase kungabi nesisombululo esisodwa esisodwa-sonke isixazululo salolu daba, kunezinto ezithile okufanele uzicabange ngokushesha ukuthi zingakusiza ukusingatha imiphumela engabangela uma ingane yakho ibanjwe nezidakamizwa.
Cabanga Ukuxhumana Nommeli Ngakwesokudla
Uma ingane yakho noma ingane yakho ibanjwe ephethe izidakamizwa esikoleni, cishe bayokhishwa ukuthi bayaphula imithetho yendawo yokuhlukumezeka yendawo yobugebengu noma yezingane.
Umbuso ngamunye unesethi yawo yamakhodi obugebengu ahluke komunye nomunye. Imithetho ephathelene nokubuza, ukusesha, kanye nempahla kuthatha konke kuhluka phakathi kwamazwe.
Ukuxhumana nommeli kusenesikhathi kungasiza ekuvikeleni amalungelo omntanakho. Ngokuvamile, ummeli wangaphambili uxhumana naye uma ummeli angase akwazi ukukwazisa wena nomntanakho ngamalungelo abo nezinketho.
Umqondo ngemuva kokuxhumana nommeli ngokushesha uma ungeke ukuvimbela ingane yakho ukuba ingaboni imiphumela yezenzo zabo, kodwa ukusiza ukuqinisekisa ukuthi umphumela omuhle kunokwenzeka ingane yakho noma ingane yakho inikwe izimo.
Amacala obugebengu obugebengu namacala abancane angaba nemiphumela ehlala njalo ekuphileni komuntu osemusha. Kukhona amathuba okuba nomlando wenkantolo ongawalandela ube umuntu omdala, okungaba nomthelela ekwamukelwa kwabakolishi kanye nokukhethwa komsebenzi. Ngenhlanhla, iningi labantu linamathuba akhethekile noma amacala okuqala okubangela ukuhlukumeza izidakamizwa ukuthi angathinteki ngokugcwele ikusasa lomuntu osemusha. Ummeli onolwazi uzokwazi ukusiza wena nomntwana wakho ngenqubo yendawo.
Ummeli onguchwepheshe wezenzo zokusha noma izidakamizwa uzokwazi ukuthi izimo zendawo zisingathwa kanjani. Ezinye izindawo zinezinkantolo zentsha yendawo, noma ziyakwazi ukulahla amacala uma intsha ihambela ukwelashwa okufanele noma ukwelulekwa. Qinisekisa ukuthola ummeli obhekene nobusha, ubugebengu obuhlobene nezidakamizwa.
Ummeli kufanele akwazi ukunikeza iseluleko kusukela esikhathini sokuphenya, bese kuthi kunoma yiziphi izimo uma amacala akholwa ngokumelene nomlingani wakho noma osemncane.
Khumbula ukuthi kukhona nemithetho yesikole kanye nemithetho yendawo ophakathi kwakho noma osemncane ongase aphule.
Uma ungathanda ummeli ukuba akululekele ngezinkinga zesikole, qiniseka ukuthi wenze lokho kucacisiwe ngaphambili.
Cabanga Ukuthola Ukuhlolwa Kwezidakamizwa Noma Ukusetshenziswa Kokusetshenziswa Kokusetshenziswa Kokusetshenziswa Kokuphuza Utshwala
Ngezinye izikhathi abazali baye basola ukuthi ingane yabo ingase isebenzise izidakamizwa ngaphambi kokuba ibanjwe esikoleni nabo. Nokho, ngokuvamile, abazali bayashaqeka. Yini engase ifike njengomcabango onzima nakakhulu ngomzali obanjwe oqaphele: Uma ingane yakho ibanjwe, mhlawumbe kwakungesiyo okokuqala ukusebenzisa lesi sidakamizwa.
Ungakhuluma nomhlinzeki wezokwelapha oyinhloko wengane yakho ngokudluliselwa kokuhlolwa kwekhwalithi.
Uma uxoxisane nommeli, bangase bakwazi ukunikeza iseluleko ngokuthola ukuhlolwa, nokuthi ukuhlolwa kungathinta kanjani ingane yakho.
Thola noma yisiphi isaziso sokuMiswa noma ezinye izinyathelo zokuyala ekuBhalweni
Izikole eziningi zizobeka umfundi obanjwe nezidakamizwa noma utshwala ngokumiswa okwesikhashana lapho umfundi elahlekelwe khona okwesikhashana amalungelo akhe okuhlala ekilasini. Lezi zenzo zokuqondiswa kwezigwegwe ngokuvamile zilawulwa uchungechunge lwezinqubomgomo ezibhalwe encwadini yamalungelo omfundi. Qiniseka ukuthi uthole, futhi ugcine, ikhophi ebhaliwe yesilinganiso sokuqondiswa kwezigwegwe esithathwa yisikole kumntwana wakho.
Le fomu ebhaliwe kufanele ikutshele kahle ukuthi ingane yakho iyalwaphi, futhi ichaze isilinganiso esiqondile sokuqondiswa kwezigwegwe njengoba kuboniswe inqubomgomo yesikole. Ifomu kufanele ilandise ukuthi kungakanani ukumiswa okwesikhashana okufanele kube khona, nokuthi yini ingane yakho okudingeka iyenze ukuze ubuyele esikoleni.
Kumele futhi uthole ulwazi mayelana nendlela yokukhalaza ukumiswa. Uma ingane yakho ine- IEP (i-Individualized Education Plan), ingaba nokuvikeleka okwengeziwe ngalesi sikhathi. Izidingo zomfundi njengoba zifakwe ku-IEP kuzodingeka zibhekwe njengenqubo yokuyala. Lokhu akusho ukuthi ingane ene-IEP ayikwazi ukumiswa okwesikhashana, kodwa kunalokho ukuthi izimo zokumiswa kudingeka zibhekwe kanye nokukhubazeka.
Ingane yakho kungenzeka ukuthi ixoshiwe esikhundleni sokumiswe okwesikhashana. Futhi, uzofuna ukuqinisekisa ukuthi uthola futhi ugcine noma yiliphi irekhodi noma imibhalo. Uma ngabe ingane yakho ixoshiwe, qiniseka ukuthi uthola ukuthi ingabe isele unyaka wesikole noma ngaphezulu. Buza ukuthi kunezimo ezizovumela ingane yakho ukuba ibuyele esikoleni. Thola ukuthi yiziphi ezinye izinto ongakhetha kuzo ingane yakho, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi idluliselwa kwesinye isikole noma ukuya ohlelweni lwabafundi abaxoshiwe.
Thola Okushiwo Yizingane Zakho Okudingeka Uyenze Ukubuyela Esikoleni
Imibhalo yokumisa ingabhala noma yiziphi izinyathelo ingane yakho okudingeka ilandele ngaphambi kokuba uvunyelwe esikoleni, kodwa cishe akubandakanyi konke ingane yakho okumele iyenze ukuze ibuyele emsebenzini wesikole njalo uphumelele.
Ngaphandle kwezenzo ezibalulwe kwifomu lokuyala, ingane yakho noma ingane yakho ingase ilahlekelwe umsebenzi wesikole ngesikhathi sokumiswa. Thola esikoleni ukuthi yini okufanele ingane yakho idinga ukuyiqedela, nokuthi bazokwazi kanjani ukuqedela ngenkathi imiswe okwesikhashana.
Ukufaneleka kwemisebenzi yangaphandle kungathinteka. Qinisekisa ukuthi ubuza ukuthi ngabe yimuphi umsebenzi wesikole ingane yakho ehlanganyela kuyo izothinteka, futhi uma kunezinyathelo abangathatha ukuze babuyele ekuzibandakanyeni.
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Nakuba ukwehla kwengane yakho ebanjwe nezidakamizwa esikoleni kungaba nzima kakhulu, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi izinto kufanele zithule futhi. Nakuba imiphumela yokubanjwa izidakamizwa noma utshwala esikoleni ingaba yingozi, lezi zigameko ezivame ukuholela ekutholeni inkinga edinga ukunakekelwa, kungakhathaliseki ukuziphatha, ngokomzwelo noma okuhlobene nokuxhomeka kwamakhemikhali.
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