Ukuqala kwesikole esiphakeme kungaba yisikhathi esithakazelisayo-kodwa esesabekayo-kubabaningi abaningi. Ngaphambi kokuba ingane yakho iqale esikoleni esiphakeme, kubalulekile ukuba nezingxoxo ezithile ezizosiza ingane yakho ukuba ilungele impilo yangempela yentsha. Nazi izinto ezinhlanu okufanele utshele ingane yakho ngaphambi kosuku lokuqala esikoleni esiphakeme:
1. "Wonke umuntu akwenzi."
Kuningi lokukhuluma ngazo zonke izinto intsha ezitshela ukuthi yenza-ukuphuza, ukusebenzisa izidakamizwa, nokwenza ucansi ukubiza amagama ambalwa.
Kodwa, iqiniso liwukuthi, eziningi zalezi zimangalo azikho iqiniso.
Eqinisweni, ucwaningo lubonisa ukuthi ama-clique ama-stereotypes avame kakhulu ukuwedlula . Intsha ekholelwa ukuthi 'ama-jocks' noma 'izingane ezidumile' zisebenzisa izidakamizwa noma zithandana, kungenzeka ukuthi zihlanganyele kulezo zenzo. Ngeshwa, umbono wokuthi "wonke umuntu uyakwenza" uvame ukwenza izinto eziningi ezingalungile esikoleni esiphakeme.
Setha irekhodi ngqo. Xoxa nomntanakho mayelana nendlela abanye abasha abazama kanzima ukuba babonakale bepholile. Ngenxa yalokho, kungenzeka ukuthi badlulise iqiniso noma batjele izindaba ngalokho abakwenzayo ngomzamo wokwamukelwa.
2. "Ngilindele amamaki amahle kuwe."
Intsha izovame ukwenza lokho okulindelwe. Futhi nakuba kungenempilo yokufaka ingcindezi enkulu kwengane yakho, kubalulekile ukusetha okulindelweyo phezulu ngokwanele ukuthi uzomkhuthaza ukuba enze konke okusemandleni akhe.
Qinisekisa ingane yakho ukuthi nakuba kungase kube nomsebenzi ofanele esikoleni esiphakeme, umsebenzi uzokwazi ukuphathwa.
Hlala uhileleka emfundweni yengane yakho futhi uthathe izinyathelo zokuqinisekisa ukuthi uhlala ekhuthazwa ukuthola amamaki amahle.
3. "Umusa udaba."
Ucwaningo lubonisa ukuthi intsha ithola imiyalezo exubekile mayelana nezindinganiso zabazali bazo . Intsha eningi ikholelwa ukuthi abazali bayo bafuna ukuba bahlakaniphe, okungaphezu kwalokho abafuna ukuba babe nomusa.
Xoxa ngentshisekelo nentombazane yakho ngemigomo enempilo.
Yenza kucace ukuthi ufuna ingane yakho iphumelele, kodwa uchaze ukuthi awufuni ukuthi ingane yakho iphenduke ngokuziphatha okubi noma ukuziphatha okubi ngokokuzama ukuphakama phezulu. Khuluma ngokubonisa umusa nobubele.
4. "Ungathola inkululeko ngokungibonisa ukuthi ungenza izinqumo ezinhle."
Iningi lentsha lifuna amathuba amaningi okuzimela. Bonisa ingane yakho ukuthi ingaba nokuzimela okuningi-kodwa umthwalo owengeziwe kufanele uzuzwe. Chaza ukuthi angakukhombisa lapho ekulungele inkululeko eyengeziwe ngokwenza kahle ngokuzimela kwakhe kakade.
Uma engakwazi ukufika ekhaya ngesikhatsi sekhasi lakhe lamanje, kungani ungamvumela ukuba ahlale ngemuva kwesikhathi? Noma, uma engakwazi ukuthola imisebenzi yakhe yasekhaya nemisebenzi yakhe yesikole eyenziwa ngesikhathi, kungani ungathanda ukumethemba ukuthi uzofunda ukushayela? Chaza ingane yakho ukuthi amandla akhe okuthola inkululeko eyengeziwe incike ekuziphatheni kwakhe.
5. "Izinqumo ozenzayo manje zingathinta impilo yakho yonke."
Intsha kudingeka ikwazi ukuthi izinqumo zabo eziningi zingabathinta phakade. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yi-post engalungile kumithombo yezenhlalo, noma isinqumo esiyingozi esingapheli kahle , kungaba nemiphumela emibi kakhulu ekukhethweni kwabo.
Yazisa ingane yakho ukuthi uzoba namathuba amaningi okwenza izinqumo eyedwa-awukwazi ukuba khona ukuze ubone ukuthi wenzani lapho esesikoleni noma ngaphandle nabangani.
Mxhwele kuye ukuthi kubalulekile ukucabanga ngaphambi kokuba enze okuthile futhi azenzele izinqumo ezempilo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi abanye abazungezile bakhetha ukukwenza.