Okuhlangenwe nakho kwabantu abanokukhubazeka okungabonakali ngokuvamile kuvame ukungabonakali
Kuyini ukukhubazeka okungabonakali?
Yini ukukhubazeka okungabonakali? Leli gama lisho ngokukhubazeka okungabonakali kalula. Abantu abanokukhubazeka ekufundeni ekufundeni , izibalo, ukubhala nokubhala kwamabhuku ngezinye izikhathi kubonakala sengathi banokukhubazeka okungabonakali. Kodwa laba bantu bangase balwe nobunzima ngokufana nabalingani babo abanokukhubazeka okusobala.
Funda kabanzi mayelana nezinselelo abhekene nazo nokusekelwa abadinga ngalokhu kubukeza kwezimo zokufunda ezingabonakali.
Yini eyenza abantu abanokukhubazeka okufunda okungabonakali okuhlukile?
Abantu abanezinkinga zokufunda ezingabonakali zihlukile ngoba abaziveleli kubafundi abajwayelekile nakuba kungenzeka behluleka ukuthula. Babonakala njengawo wonke umuntu futhi abanakho ukuphazamiseka ngokomzimba okudinga ukwesekwa okubonakalayo njengokuhamba, izihlalo zabakhubazekile, noma izinsiza zokuzwa. Njenga ontanga abangenakho ukukhubazeka, bangahamba, bagijime futhi bahlanganyele ezemidlalo.
Kungani Ukukhubazeka Okungabonakali Kubonakala Inkinga?
Ngesikhathi abafundi abangabonakali bangase babonakale njengabo bonke abanye, lokhu akusilo ngempela inzuzo. Eqinisweni, ukufana kwabo kubangane babo abavamile kungabangela izinselele ezengeziwe kubo. Kungenxa yokuthi umphumela wokukhubazeka kwawo angeke ubonwe ekuqaleni. Uthisha angase athathe ingane ene-disorder disorder ejwayelekile kuze kube yilapho umfundi efaka inkulumo yakhe yokuqala.
Ngisho noma kunjalo, uthisha angase afinyelele esiphethweni sokuthi umfundi obonakala ejwayelekile wenza ukubhala imisebenzi embi ngenxa yobuvila, engaqapheli ukuthi ukukhubazeka kwentombazane kuthinta zonke izici zokuphila kwakhe, kuhlanganise nendlela afunda ngayo, esebenza, kanye nemisebenzi.
Ngokufanayo, ingane enenkinga yokucubungula okungahlolwayo ingasolwa ngokuthi ayilaleli, futhi ijeziswe ngento engenakho ukulawula.
Uma ukukhubazeka okungabonakali kungatholakali, abanye bangase babone lowo muntu njengokungalungi noma ukungabambisani. Uma kutholakala izifo zokufunda ezingenalutho, abantu abangafundile bangabeka icala lomuntu wokulimaza noma ukuvimbela ukukhubazeka. Bangenqaba ukuhlangabezana nezidingo ezikhethekile zomuntu ngoba abaqondi izinga lokukhubazeka embuzweni.
Yiqiniso, ukubhekana nokuziphatha okuhlobene nokukhubazeka njengokungalungi kuhlanganisa inkinga kuphela.
Izinzuzo Zokukhubazeka Okungabonakali
Abanye abantu abaneziphene zokufunda bayakwazisa ikhono "lokuhlangana nabantu" ngakho ukukhubazeka kwabo kufihliwe. Bayajabula ngokuthi emisebenzini engeyona yezemfundo, njengezemidlalo, imisebenzi yomphakathi, amaqembu esonto nemisebenzi yokuzithandela, bangakwazi ukuhlanganyela ngokuphumelelayo noma ngaphezulu kunabanye.
Ngaphandle kokukhubazeka okusobala kosizo lokuzwa noma isihlalo sabakhubazekile, lezi zingane zingathola kulula ukuxhumana nabangane abangenakho ukukhubazeka.
Inkinga yukuthi ingahamba ngezindlela zombili, futhi njengoba ubudlelwane behamba, kungaba nzima ukwazi ukuthi uzokwenzela yimuphi ingane eyodwa. Ezinye izingane zizokhula ngokukwazi ukuhlangana, kuyilapho abanye, ukukhubazeka kwabo behlanganiswa ukungaboni ngaso linye ngothisha nabaontanga, bazophelelwa ukubhekana nokubhekene nokukhubazeka kwedwa.
Ukusekela Abantu abanokukhubazeka okungabonakali
Izinyathelo ezingezansi zizokuvumela ukuba unike abantu abanezinkinga zokufunda ezingabonakali ukusekelwa abadingayo.
- Lalela umuntu onesifo sokukhubazeka futhi umlandele uhole ekukhulumeni naye.
- Qaphela ukuthi abanye abantu abaneziphene ezingabonakali bakhetha ukungakhulumi ngokukhubazeka kwabo futhi bazobe behlaselwa uma uzama ukukhuluma nabo ngakho. Futhi, landela ukuhola kwabo.
- Uma lo muntu edinga usizo, cela ukuthi ungabasiza kanjani nokuthi ungabasiza kanjani.
- Funda ngohlobo oluthile lokukhubazeka kokufunda .
- Uma ungumzali noma uthisha, yazi ukuthi amazinga amakhono womntwana aphi. Zama ukugcina umsebenzi udinga futhi ngenhla ngaphezu kwekhono lakhe lamanje lamanje. Lokhu kuzogcina ingane ingenselele ngaphandle kokufinyelela isiteleka esicasulayo, sokuvala. Lokhu kuzokusiza ekuhloliseni umzamo womntwana.
- Uma ungumqashi womuntu onokukhubazeka okungabonakali, funda indlela yokuphatha ukukhubazeka emsebenzini .
Ukukhuluma nabantu Ngokukhubazeka okungabonakali
Emphakathini wethu senza umsebenzi omuhle wokungazinaki indlovu ekamelweni. Abantu bahluka kakhulu ngendlela abafisa ukwabelana ngayo ngokukhubazeka kwabo. Uma ulandela ukuhola kwakhe, futhi kubonakala sengathi uzohlushwa ukukhuluma, ashiye yedwa. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uma ezimisele ukukhuluma, yiba indlebe evulekile. Abantu abanokukhubazeka okungabonakali bavame ukungaqondakali, futhi ukumnika ithuba lokukwazisa ukuthi ubona ukuthi uhlangabezana kanjani nakho kungamsiza ukuthi azizwe engenasese ezweni eliphethwe ngokuphelela.
Imithombo:
UPeltopuro, M., Ahonen, T., Kaartinen, J., Seppala, H., no-V. Narhi. Ukusebenza Okusebenza Ngokwemvelo: Ukubuyekezwa Kwezincwadi Ezihlelekile. Ukukhubazeka Kwengqondo Nokuthuthukiswa . 2014. 52 (6): 419-43.