Joyina Club!
Enye yezingcezu zokuqala ezeluleko engihlale nginikeza abazali abakulindile beziphindaphindiwe "Thola iklabhu endaweni yakho!" Kodwa ingabe udinga ngempela iqembu lokusekela uma unamawele? Ngezinye izinto ezikhathazayo, ezifana nezinkinga zezokwelapha nezinkinga zezezimali, abazali abaningi bangazibuza ukuthi kungani lokhu kufanele kube okubaluleke kakhulu. Kodwa-ke, ngizizwa kuyigugu ukuxhuma nabanye abantu abaye babhekana nezinselelo ezifanayo, izinkathazo nokucindezeleka.
Abazali abaphindaphindiwe abaphindaphindiwe banokuhlangenwe nakho ukuphendula imibuzo futhi banikeze izixazululo ezinkingeni abazali abakulindelekile.
Iyini Inhlangano Ye-Twin Izokwenza Ngami?
Kunezinzuzo eziningi zokujoyina iqembu labazali beziphindaphindiwe. Ezinye ziyabonakala ngokushesha: ukuqinisekiswa kanye nezeluleko ezivela kwabanye abazali, imininingwane yokuxhumana nabachwepheshe bezokwelapha endaweni, izimpendulo zemibuzo nokukhathazeka, ukufinyeleleka kumadili amahle ekusetshenzisweni kwezingane ezisetshenzisiwe ngobumnandi, njll. Ezinye zibonakala zingabonakali, kodwa nokho zithinta: ubungane besikhathi eside wena kanye nezimpande zakho, indawo yokuxhumana, ukusekelwa kwabazali, namathuba okuxhumana.
Imisebenzi embalwa kanye nezinzuzo ezimbalwa ezinikezwa amaqembu amaningi ahlanganisa:
- Ilabhulali yeqembu, enikeza amabhuku, omagazini, amavidiyo nezinye izincwadi ngokuphindaphindiwe.
- Uhlelo lwe-Buddy, ukuhlanganisa amamama alindele nabazali abanolwazi.
- Jabulela imibuthano yokuzijabulisa yabomama kanye / noma imibhangqwana.
- Ukudayiswa kweyadi, ngamathuba okuthenga kanye / noma ukuthengisa izingubo kanye nemishini.
- Izinhlelo zesevisi ezizuzisa umphakathi.
- Ukubamba iqhaza emibuthweni yesifunda, isimo sezwe noma sezwe.
- I-Playgroups yabantwana beminyaka yonke.
- Ukufinyelela ochwepheshe, ochwepheshe, kanye nezinye izikhulumi zezivakashi emihlanganweni.
Ngithola kanjani iklabhu yabazali bamawele?
Kubantu baseMelika, indawo yokuqala okuzoqala ngayo i-Multiples of America, eyaziwa nangokuthi yiNational Organization of Mothers of Twins Clubs.
Le nethiwekhi ixhuma amakilabhu angaphezu kuka-300 kuwo wonke ama-United States, emele imindeni engamalungu angu-25,000 ngamawele, ama-triplets kanye nama-triplets. Ihlanganisa amakilasi aqokiwe ama-Mothers of Twins Club (MOTC), Amama we-Multiples Club (MOMC), noma Abazali be-Multiples Club (POMC).
Iwebhusayithi yabo inikeza izinketho eziningana zokuthola iqembu endaweni yangakini. Sesha ngekhodi ye-zip. Izinhlawulo eziningi zichaza ngokuqondile ukuthi yiziphi izindawo nezindawo ezihlala kuzo; kungase kube nenhlangano engaphezu kweyodwa endaweni yakho, ngakho-ke ungathola ukuthi yikuphi okulula kakhulu lapho uhlala khona futhi usebenza khona.
Uma usengakwazi ukuthola lutho endaweni yakho, ungayeki. Akuwona wonke amakilabhu ahlobene ne-NOMOTC; abaningi abaningi bazimele. Isibhedlela sakho noma isibhedlela singase sibe nolwazi lokuxhumana, noma kungase kudingeke wenze okunye ukuhlola encwadini yefoni noma ku-inthanethi. Ungakwazi futhi ukuma ngekhasi lami le-Facebook ukuze uxhumane nabanye abazali bamawele nephindaphindiwe, abangakwazi ukukuqondisa eklabhu yendawo.
Kuthiwani uma ngingekho e-United States?
Amaqembu amaningi akhona emhlabeni jikelele, emazweni afana ne-United Kingdom, Australia, Canada, Ireland naseNingizimu Afrika. Leli khasi lixhumanisa namaqembu emhlabeni jikelele,