Amathiphu angu-11 wokuphonsa i-Birthday Party Party

Ukusuka Kumemo Ukubonga Amanothi, Ama-Bets akho Ahamba phambili

Kubantwana abaningi, usuku lwabo lokuzalwa luyiholidi labo abathandayo. Futhi kungani- kungosuku olunikezelwe ngokuphelele kubo, gcwalisa ngekhekhe, amabhaluni, ukucula, kanye nezipho. Nakuba abazali abaningi becindezela emcabangweni wokuhlela i-party yokuzalwa, iminyaka yasenkulisa iyisikhathi esihle sokuphonsa eyodwa. Nakhu ukuthi ungagcina kanjani impilo yakho ngesikhathi uqinisekisa ukuthi wonke umuntu unesikhathi esihle.

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Ubudala buyinombolo ebalulekile

Qinisekisa ukuthi yonke into, kusukela emisebenzini eya esikhwameni esihle, ifanele iminyaka yobukhulu bezimenywa zakho. Uma kunezinhlobo ezahlukene zeminyaka, sebenzisa iminyaka yobudala bokuzalwa njengomntwana njengomhlahlandlela. Ingane yengane iphinde ikhombise kahle ukuthi zingaki izingane ezingamema, ukubusa kwesithupha ngokuyinhloko kungumntwana munye njalo ngonyaka. 2. Ngakho uma ingane yakho ishintsha ezine, zama ukugcina uhlu lwabavakashi ezinganeni eziyisithupha. Ubudala budlala indima ebalulekile ekusunguleni isihloko bese unquma ukuthi uzoba kuphi. Izingane ezincane zingase zikhululeke endlini kodwa uzizwe ingane yakho ukuze ufunde kahle isimo.

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Hlela ukuzijabulisa

Ukuzikhethela njalo kuyamnandi, kodwa ukuzalwa kwezinsuku zasenkulisa, ukuhlela (ngekamelo elithile lokugwedla) kuyindlela yokuhamba. Zama imisebenzi yokuhlela ngokuhamba kwesikhathi esifushane - izinyanga eziyi-10 kuya kwezingu-15. Futhi uma kukhona okukhethekile okuhleliwe, yenze ngaphambi kwekhekhe, isibonakaliso sokuthi i-soiree ihamba phansi. Khumbula, kulula kakhulu uma usebenzisana nezingane ezincane ezinokuqapha okufutshane, ngakho-ke ufuna ukuzama ukugwema imisebenzi lapho izingane kufanele zilinde khona, ikakhulukazi uma kunezinye izingane eziningi ephathini. Cabanga amabhubhu , amakhasi ombala, nezincwadi, shayela umdanso noma isiteshi sesiteshi, sigcwaliswe ngobumba, iphepha, i-glue nezinye izinto ezihambisanayo ezingenziwa yizingane. Zama ukuba nomsizi omdala owodwa kumsebenzi ngamunye.

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Buka i-Clock

Uma iqembu lakho lisemakhaya, kubalulekile ukuba nesikhathi sokuqala nesiphetho. Ungashiyi iqembu livulekile njengoba lingase lidibanise izivakashi futhi ungawavumeli ukuba bahlele lonke usuku. Amaqembu wezingane ezingaphansi kweminyaka emi-5, faka cishe imizuzu engama-90, phezulu kwamahora amabili.

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Ulwazi lokumema

Isimemo kufanele sihlanganise zonke izinto eziyisisekelo - ikheli, idethi, isikhathi nesithameli sokuhlonipha, kodwa kunezinye izingqinamba ezibalulekile abazali abangazibuza ngazo. Khombisa ukuthi ngabe ingane kufanele ilahle noma ngabe ungathanda umuntu omdala ukuba ahlale. (Ukulahla kuvame ukuqala cishe eminyakeni engama-5 noma 6, kodwa kusengumqondo omuhle ukuvumela ukukhetha kwakho kwaziwe.) Uma abazali bephuma izingane zabo, thola inombolo yocingo lapho bangafinyeleleka uma kunezinkinga. Futhi, phawula ukuthi ukhonza ukudla ukuze abantu bazi ukuthi badinga ukuphakela izingane zabo, futhi uma kunokwenzeka, babatshele ukuthi yini emenyu ukuze baxwayise abazali abaphethe izingane ezinomzimba. Faka usuku lwe-RSVP futhi ungazizwa uhleka ngokulandela ikholi yefoni uma ungazwa.

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Ukunquma indawo

Uma ungenalo igumbi noma ukuthambekela kokusingatha iqembu ekhaya, kunezindawo eziningi ongahamba kuzo, kodwa kufanele ubhale lolu hlobo lwenkampani izinyanga ezimbalwa kusengaphambili uma kungenzeka. Izindawo ezinhle zigcwalisa ngokushesha, ikakhulukazi lezo ezingabamba iqembu elilodwa kuphela ngesikhathi. Uma ukhetha ukugwema umzila wangaphambili wezinkampani ezifana ne-Build-a-Bear noma bowling, cabanga ngamakamelo okuzilibazisa angasese (okungenzeka ukuthi unesonto noma umlilo), ipaki (unosuku lwemvula), noma ngisho nendawo yangakini isikhungo sezinsuku. Lezi izindawo ezinhle ngoba zivaliwe ngezimpelasonto, abazali bangavame ukuqasha othisha ukuba basebenze iqembu futhi izingane zikhululekile ngoba yindawo abajwayele ngayo.

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Yilokho ukuzijabulisa!

Uma uqasha umculi weqembu lomntanakho - kungakhathaliseki ukuthi unayo ekhaya lakho noma endaweni engaphandle , cela imibuzo eyinhloko njengokuthi ukusebenza kwabo kungakanani, ukuthi bangakanani isikhala abayidingayo futhi uma bezogqoka isikhathi sonke. (Ezinye izinkampani zenza abadlali bazo bashintshe izingubo eziphakathi kweqembu ezingase zidideke izingane ezincane.) Uma izindleko ziyingxenye futhi ukuqashelwa ochwepheshe akuhambisani nesabelomali sakho, hlola esikoleni sakho esiphakeme. Ungase uthole amanye amalungu eqembu lomdlalo wezemidlalo ongathanda ukwenza noma abanye abafundi bezobuciko ongayisebenzela ukuthi wenze umdwebo obuso.

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Yini eMenyu?

I-pizza ivame ukutholakala kwimenyu yamaqembu amaningi asetsheni, kodwa ngokuqinisekile akusona kuphela okukhethwa kukho. Izinkukhu zezinkukhu, ama-sandwich amancane, izinja ezishisayo, i-bagels, imifino nokudipha kanye nezithelo kuma-skewers yizo zonke izinqumo ezinhle nezintandokazi ezincane. Zisheshe zilungiselele futhi kungenzeka zijabulise izivakashi zakho ezidala. Okuyiqiniso ukuthi, lokhu kuyindawo eyodwa okungenzeka ungadingeki ukhathazeke ngokuchitha imali eningi. Kungenzeka ukuthi izivakashi zakho ezinezintambo ngeke zidle okuningi - zizohlala zihlala nazo zonke injabulo yosuku.

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Cabanga Ngezihloko

Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ingane yakho yokufundela esikoleni ithanda uDora, Handy Manny, noma i-Backyardigans, amathuba okuthola amathuba okuzalwa wezinsuku ezithinta umbala, kusukela kumapuleti kuya kuma-hangings odongeni. Futhi akuyona nje imihlobiso. Abalingiswa abadumile bazinikele kwezinye izici zomkhosi, njengemidlalo, ukudla, kanye nemisebenzi. Ephathini leDora, isibonelo, ungasungula inkambo ye-adventure bese wenza isisindo semfuyo. Khonza ama-sandwiches owawunquma abaqaphi be-cookie esitimela esikhungweni seTomas the Tank Engine. Futhi uma uthanda kakhulu, isiphelo esikhulu singaba lapho umlingiswa ozithandayo wengane yokuzalwa ekhombisa khona. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ubambaphi iqembu, isihloko siyizinto ingane yakho ezofuna ukuzibandakanya nayo, ngakho qiniseka ukuthi uthole okokufakwayo.

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Ukuphela Okumnandi - Ikhekhe

Khuluma nengane yakho ngalokho angathanda. Ikhekhe kuyindlela enhle, kodwa kunjalo namakhekhe, ice cream sundaes noma ngisho namakhukhi amakhulu. Ungafaka isihloko (uma unayo) noma ngokubhaka ikhekhe lakho nokuhlobisa ngamathoyizi amancane noma ngisho nokuzama isandla sakho ekudwebeni okuthile. Izindawo zokubhaka zasekhaya, izitolo zokudla kanye nabathengisi abaningi be-big-box (cabanga ngo-Sam's Club noma i-BJ) nakho kungenza amaqebelengwane ehloko. Ungase ufune ngisho nezivakashi zakho ezincane zingene esenzweni - bhaka amaqebelengwane, ubeke icing, amafafaza nezinye imihlobiso njenge-chocolate candies bese uvumela ukuba bafinyelele emsebenzini bakhiphe ubuciko obuhle.

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Ngenhliziyo enhle

Yenza izikhwama ezinhle ekugcineni, njengoba izingane zihamba, ngakho-ke unciphisa kakhulu amathuba okulahlekelwa izinto noma ukungaqondi kahle. Kunokuningi okukhethwa kukho - uma unomcimbi we-Mickey Mouse Clubhouse, isibonelo, ukuthengwa okuhambisanayo naleso sihloko - izitika, izinothi, amapenki, nokuningi kuwo wonke amaphuzu amanani ahlukene. Uthando oluthandwayo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ingane yakho ingaba yiluhlobo luni lwezinhlobo, ziphuza izindebe. Bakhonza ngenhloso emibili - ungayisebenzisa ephathini bese ubathumela ekhaya nezivakashi. Uma ungajabuli ngomqondo wokuthenga iqoqo lamathoyizi amancane, cabanga ukuthenga into eyodwa - ifosholo ne-pail, incwadi noma ngisho nembala yamakhrayoni. Qiniseka ukuthi noma yini oyikhethayo ibhalwe ngokucacile ngegama lomntwana.

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Asikho Isikhathi Esifana Nale Namuhla

Mhlawumbe ingxenye engcono kunazo zonke yengane yakho, izipho zingaba yiqophelo losuku olukhethekile, nakuba, nezingane ezincane, kungase kube ngcono ukuzisusa ngemuva kokuthi iphephandaba seliphelile. Uma unquma ukuwavula ngesikhathi semikhosi, ungadinga ukuqeqesha ingane yakho kancane - uma ithola impinda noma into ayithandiyo, qiniseka ukuthi uyaqonda ukuthi akufanele ayimemezele emhlabeni. Qiniseka ukuthi amathoyizi ahlala emabhokisini abo ukuze agweme ukulahlekelwa izicucu. Futhi uma konke kushiwo futhi kwenziwa, qiniseka ukuthi uthumele (hhayi e-mail) amanothi akho. Lo msebenzi cishe uzowela kuwe, kodwa ingane yakho ingakwazi ukudweba isithombe noma ukubhala igama lakhe (uma lokhu kuyinto ekwazi ukuyenza).