Imithombo yezenhlalo ishintshe indlela esixhumana ngayo, thola izindaba futhi sabelane nabanye nabanye. Kuleli zwe elisha lapho abezindaba bezenhlalo basinika khona ibhokisi legiva lethu elingenamingcele, lithinta nakakhulu ukubeletha kwethu. Ngaphambi kokuthi ulayishe isithombe esilandelayo esilandelayo somntwana wakho futhi ulindele ukuthi ukuthandwa kungene, bheka ukuthi imithombo yezenhlalo ishintshile kanjani thina mzali.
Sima isikhashana
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Imithombo yezenhlalo idale isikhashana emakhanda ethu. Kulezo zinsuku zokubeletha lapho sizogubha noJoshi noma sigijimela ekusizeni kukaMorgan, manje asizange sithathe isikhathi sokuthatha isikhashana ukuze sinqume ukuthi lo mzuzu ufanelwe ngu-Facebook. Sithatha lawo ma-smartphones bese siwaqhaqhazela kunokuba sinikeze ama-high fives okusheshayo ngokuzama ukuthi ukudla okusha noma ukumangazela kulowo mfana-kodwa kodwa owesabekayo ukuthuthela ezingxenyeni zokugqoka.
Kulo mzuzwana omfushane wokuma isikhashana, silahlekelwa okuthile okukhethekile. Siphuthelwa ukuthi umzali wemvelo kanye nokuxhumana kwengane lapho kungomabili, akukho ukwabelana noma ukuthandwa ngumuntu ngaphandle.
Sifanisa
Njengomzali, ungabala kakhulu ukugijima kulowo mama ohlale eqhayisa ngomntanakhe nakho konke okufezile okufezile. Ushaye izigameko zakhe zakuqala, wamukelwa esikoleni esihle kakhulu edolobheni futhi angasho izinhlamvu zamagama phambili, emuva, nangezilimi ezimbili ngesikhathi esithathu.
Ngenxa yemidiya yezenhlalo, akudingeki ukuba uye endaweni yokudlala ukuze ubhekwe nalo lwazi. Okuhle kunazo zonke ngezingane zonke manje kuhanjiswe kuwe emgqeni omuhle wesikhathi, ugcwaliswe ngezithombe, ngqo ekhaya lakho.
Abazali basabela ngokuthandayo nangamazwana kodwa impi eyimfihlo evela ngaphakathi.
Abazali abaningi babika ukuthi empeleni baqhathanisa ukuphumelela komzali wabo nokuthi yini ezwa sengathi bangaphumeleli ngokusekelwe kulokho abakufundayo kumithombo yezenhlalo. Lokho kufinyelela ngisho nasemakhaya ethu njengoba siqhathanisa nendoda esesabekayo kakhulu ngoba efika ekhaya kusenesikhathi emsebenzini ukupheka umndeni ukudla okunempilo emizimbeni yethu ngobusuku besimisa ukudla okudla okusheshayo futhi sidle sakusihlwa emotweni.
Uma ubheka imithombo yezenhlalakahle, iningi labazali abahlanganyeli okuhle, okubi nokubi. Imithombo yezokuxhumana ifana ne-real-time scrapbook lapho wenza isinqumo sokuqaphela ukungahlanganyeli nezinkinga zakho noma izinsuku ezimbi. Sihlanganyela ohlangothini lwe-glossier wokuphila ... futhi kanjalo nabanye abantu.
Ukuthi "wonke umuntu owenza kangcono kunami" ukudala ukucindezeleka okungadingekile. Ucwaningo lwamuva lubonisa ukuthi ukuyeka i-Facebook kwenza abantu bazizwe bejabule.
Ngisho no-Pinterest akavikelekile. Ucwaningo olusha oluthola i-Pinterest lungase libe ngumthombo wokucindezeleka. Ukuzwa sengathi awukwazi ukuphila kuze kube yilapho umama othumele izikhonkwane eziyi-1,000 ze-craftschool zasemuva uthatha umonakalo kuwe uma wenza kahle uma uthola ishazi nsuku zonke.
Singaqapha
Zibuze ukuthi ungaphezu kokuqukethwe komphakathi futhi cishe uzothi, "Cha." Manje zibuze ukuthi ucabanga ukuthi abangani bakho bayaphumelela futhi impendulo izoshintsha ekumangaliseni, "Yebo."
Imithombo yezenhlalo iphendulile abazali kuba abaqashi. Siphakamisa isikhathi sethu ngezithombe nezibuyekezo, ngezinye izikhathi izikhathi eziningi ngosuku. Futhi akukho sihloko sibonakala singekho emkhawulweni, izingozi zokuqeqeshwa kwamanzi ukuze zihlanza ukudubula.
Yilokho ucwaningo olusekele futhi. I-University of Michigan i-CS Mott Children's Hospital I-National poll yezempilo yezingane yabathola ukuthi abazali abangama-75% bacabanga ukuthi abanye abazali bayaphumelela. Bathi "ukushayela" kuncike ezithombeni ezingalungile kuya emininingwaneni eminingi enganikeza indawo yengane.
Sinikeza Isikhathi Sethu
Zama lokhu kuhlola. Akukho ukukopela. Ngena njalo ngomzuzu uthatha ifoni yakho noma uhlale kukhompyutha ukuze usebenzise imidiya yomphakathi.
Uma usungeza yonke imizuzu yakho yesonto, cishe uzokwesaba ukuthi uphathe kanjani isikhathi sakho.
Imithombo yezokuxhumana izokukhipha isikhathi esiningi kunalokho ucabanga ukuthi kungenzeka. Vele ubuze izingane zakho uma zicabanga ukuthi ungumzali ophazamisekile. Isikhathi sokuthi ungase uchithe nomndeni wakho noma uthathe isikhala sesikhathi esisodwa ukuze ulayishe kabusha.
Lokhu akusho ukuthi kufanele ushiye imidiya yomphakathi ngokuphelele. Vele uqiniseke ukuthi ubeka imingcele ukuze wonke umuntu abe nezikhathi lapho engavulwa futhi ejabulela inkampani yomunye nomunye.
Sidala izingane ezibizwa nge-Fame-Hungry
Ingabe ingane yakho ike yabuza ukuthi uzoyithumela yini isithombe ku-Facebook? Ingabe ufuna ukwazi ukuthi bangaki abathandayo abathola ngalo pic oyithumele izolo? Uma kunjalo, ngeke abe ngowokuqala.
Ucwaningo lubonisa ukuthi, njengabazali, lapho sithumela izithombe zezingane zethu kuma-social media, senza futhi izingane ezidumile ezilambile. Baziqaphela ukuthi bangaki abangani bethu be-Facebook, abantu abaningi abantwabethu abakwaziyo, bechofoza ukuthi inkinobho enjengokuthi.
Siziqhayisa (Kuningi kakhulu)
Sonke siyaziqhayisa emithonjeni yezenhlalo ngoba izingane zethu ziyamangalisa. Yiqiniso, uyaziqhenya ngezingane zakho futhi ufuna abantu bazi.
Abanye abazali baqala ukugoqa amehlo lapho izibuyekezo ziba ngokweqile, njengokuthumela izibuyekezo eziningi ngosuku. Okubi nakakhulu lapho abazali beqala ukuqubuzana nezibuyekezo ezifihliwe njengento yokuzonda (u-Eliza akazange amthole ubuhle bakhe bezemfundo kimi.) Ngokuqondile Njengoba leli khadi lombiko!) Noma ukuziqhenya okubamba abanye phansi (uKaleb wenza ucingo lokuqala ebhola Iqembu ayikho ukufudumala kwamabhentshi kuye!).
Senza Umzuzu Ophelele-Isithombe
Ingane yakho ibukeka ihle kakhulu kulesi sikhwama esiphezulu. Thatha i-smartphone.
Manje fakaza. Wayezobheka umkhonto uma isandla sakhe sisekhanda lakhe. Cha, isandla siphakeme kakhulu. Okuphansi. O, linda. Kuthiwani ngaleyo boa ebomvu ebomvu? Lokho kuzobukeka sengathi kuqhathanisa nalesi hat. Manje yibambe. Kulungile, nje ume lapho ngomzuzu. Kumelwe ngithumele lokhu ekhasini lami le-Facebook.
Umsindo njengengxoxo owaye nayo? Imithombo yezenhlalo igcwele lezo zithombe-eziphelele, ngaphandle kwalezi zithombe-eziphephile ezithatha ama-shots angu-15 we-pose efanayo kanye nesiqondiso esivela kuwe njengomthwebuli wezithombe esithombeni se-supermodel.
Ngaphambi kokuba uthumele izithombe zengane yakho ku-intanethi, kufanele uhlole ubuhle nokuqapha. Uma usenquma ukuthi ufuna ukwabelana ngezithombe zakho, susa lezo zibhamu futhi ujabule nezingane zakho. Vele uthathe isithombe njengokungathi nguwe kuphela ozokubona, hhayi umhlaba. Uzothokozisa futhi ukuthatha izithombe kuzoba lula kuwe kokubili.
Sakha i-Digital Footprint
Khumbula lapho umama wakho efake isithombe sakho esinamahloni lapho usencane? Kulungile. Zonke lezo zithombe zalinganiselwe kuma-albhamu esithombe abelwe phakathi kwamalungu omndeni ngoba i-Facebook ayikho.
Namuhla, sidala isiteji se-digital ngesikhathi sokuqala esilayisha isithombe sezingane zethu ku-intanethi. AmaKholeji nabaqashi baqhubeka bebheke amathuba okubheka i-Inthanethi ukuze babheke izithombe, amazwana, nokuthunyelwe. Iyini intando yesitoreji yengane yakho ngokusho kwakhe lapho esemdala?
Imithombo yezenhlalakahle ingenye yezindlela eziningi esingayenza, ngenhloso noma cha, ephula ubumfihlo bezingane zethu. Ngisho noma ucabanga ukuthi uphephile ngoba unezilungiselelo zobumfihlo ku-akhawunti yakho futhi ungasusa izithombe zakho noma kunini lapho ufuna khona imithombo yezokuxhumana, akusho ukuthi uqeda lokho okushiwo yi-digital. Isayithi le-Facebook lithi akukho konke okususiwe ngaphandle kokuthi ususe unaphakade i-akhawunti yakho. I-Twitter isusa okuqukethwe okungakapheli izinsuku ezingu-30 ngemuva kokususwa. Kodwa noma kunjalo, sonke siyazi uma isithombe silayishiwe, siphuma lapho noma ngabe ufuna ukuyibuyisela emuva. Izithombe zingagcinwa, zabiwe, futhi zisatshalaliswe ngisho noma ungafuni ukuba khona futhi ngaphandle kolwazi lwakho.
Siphakamisa Impumelelo Yethu Yokubeletha Ngokuthandwa, Ukuthanda, Izintandokazi, kanye Nama-Tweets
Uthumela isithombe somntanakho futhi uthola ukuthandwa okungu-33. Bese uthumela isithombe senja yakho futhi ithola ukuthandwa okungu-67. Ingabe abantu bacabanga ukuthi inja yakho ikhulile kunezinyane lakho?
Silayisha isithombe somntanakho sihlasela i-pantry yebhalethi ye-chocolate yekusasa. Sithola ukuthandwa okungu-50 +. I-Hooray ngathi, akunjalo? Khona-ke uthola amazwana owodwa kusuka kulo munye umzali othi angeke avumele ingane yakhe idle i-chocolate ngekusasa. Futhi imizwa yakho ibuhlungu.
Akumiseli. Kubonakala sengathi kunokuncintisana okungavamile kwezokuxhumana ukuze kube ngumzali ojabule kakhulu, onamandla kunazo zonke, onomdlandla kakhulu futhi osenza sibe mama nabababa abalinganisa impumelelo yethu yokubeletha ngokusekelwe ekuthandweni kwabanye abantu, othandekayo, izintandokazi kanye nama-tweets kabusha okuqukethwe kwethu .
Uma ususe wonke ama-akhawunti wakho futhi ushiywe emithonjeni yezenhlalo kusasa, ingabe lokho kungakwenza ube nempumelelo engaphansi kokubeletha ? Akudingeki ukuba uye kulokho okwedlulele uma ungafuni kodwa ukuthi imithombo yezenhlalo isithinte kanjani abazali kufanele futhi kusenze sihlolisise ukuthi sibheka kanjani ukubaluleka kokuphila kwethu.