Nakuba abazali bevame ukukhononda ngobunzima bokuqeqesha ama-potty izingane zabo, imindeni eminingi, ukuqeqeshwa ngamanzi kuyinto elula. Ngisho noma kunezinkinga noma izingane zibonisa izimpawu zokuphikiswa kwamapayipi, ngokuvamile, ekugcineni zizoqeqeshwa ngamanzi.
Izimpawu Zokulungela
Noma kunjalo, lokhu akuyona njalo inkinga yezingane ezinokulibaziseka kwentuthuko noma ukukhubazeka, njenge-autism, i-Down syndrome, ukuphuza kwengqondo, ukukhubazeka kwengqondo, njll.
Izingane ezinesidingo esikhethekile zingaba nzima kakhulu ukuqeqeshwa ngamanzi.
Iningi lezingane libonisa izimpawu zokulungela ngokomzimba ukuqala ukusebenzisa indlu yangasese njengabantwana abancane, ngokuvamile phakathi kwezinyanga ezingu-18 no-3 ubudala, kodwa akuzona zonke izingane ezinokuzilungiselela kwengqondo kanye / noma kwengqondo ukuqeqeshwa ngamanzi kule minyaka. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukugcina izinga lokuthuthukiswa kwengane yakho, hhayi engqondweni yakhe yobudala ngenkathi ucabanga ukuqala ukuqeqeshwa kwamanzi.
Izibonakaliso zokulungela kwengqondo nezengqondo zihlanganisa ukukwazi ukulandela imiyalelo elula nokubambisana, ukungabi namahloni angcolile nokufuna ukuba bashintshe, ukuqaphela uma enesisindo esigcwele noma kudingeka abe nokunyakaza kwamathumbu, akwazi ukukutshela lapho udinga ukuvuthwa noma ukunyakaza kwesibindi, ecela ukusebenzisa isihlalo samathambo noma ukucela ukugqoka izingubo zangaphansi ezivamile.
Izimpawu zokulungela ngokomzimba zingabandakanya ukukwazi ukutshela lapho ingane yakho iseduze ukuvuthwa noma ukuhamba ngokuhamba ngamathumba ngesibindi sakhe, ukuma noma lokho akushoyo, ukuhlala okomile okwesikhashana amahora amabili ngesikhathi, nokuhlala nesiguli ukunyakaza.
Kuyasiza futhi uma engakwazi ukugqoka kancane kancane nokuziphazamisa.
I-Issues Training Potty Izingane Ezinezidingo Ezikhethekile
Izingane ezinokukhubazeka ngokomzimba zingase zibe nezinkinga nokuqeqeshwa kwamanzi okubandakanya ukufunda ukufika ebhodweni futhi kungenakudliwa. Isihlalo esikhethekile se-potty nezinye izimo ezivumelanisiwe kungadingeka ukuba zenzelwe lezi zingane.
Izinto zokugwema lapho ingane yangasese iqeqesha ingane yakho, futhi isiza ukuvimbela ukumelana, iqala ngesikhathi sokucindezeleka noma isikhathi sokushintsha emndenini (ukuhamba, ingane entsha, njll), ukuphoqa ingane yakho ngokushesha, nokujezisa amaphutha. Kunalokho, kufanele uphathe izingozi namaphutha kalula. Qinisekisa ukuthi uyahamba ngezinga lomntanakho futhi ubonise isikhuthazo esinamandla nodumo uma uphumelele.
Njengoba isibonakaliso esibalulekile sokulungela kanye nesishukumisi sokuqala ukuqeqeshwa ngamanzi kuhilela ukungakhathazeki kumbukiso ongcolile, uma ingane yakho ingakhathazeki nge-diaper enonakele noma emanzi, kungase kudingeke ukuthi uyishintshe ibe yizingubo zokugqoka zangaphansi noma ukuqeqeshwa ngesikhathi semini ukuqeqeshwa. Ezinye izingane zingaqhubeka nokugqoka i-diaper noma ukudonsa uma zihlukunyezwa, futhi wazi uma zingcolile.
Uma usulungele ukuqala ukuqeqeshwa, ungakhetha isihlalo samathambo. Ungenza ingane yakho uyihlobise ngezitika futhi ihlale kuyo ngezingubo zayo ukubuka i-TV, njll ukuze imsize ukuba ijwayele. Noma nini lapho ingane yakho ibonisa izimpawu zokudinga ukuvuthwa noma ukuba nokunyakaza kwamathumbu, kufanele uyiyise esihlalweni samathambo bese uyichazela ukuthi yini oyifunayo. Yenza isimiso esifanayo sokumenza ahambe ebhodweni, adle izingubo zakhe, ahlale ebhodweni, futhi ngemuva kokuqeda, edonsa izingubo zakhe ahlanze izandla zakhe.
Ekuqaleni, kufanele umgcine ehlezi imizuzu embalwa ngesikhashana, ungafaki futhi uzilungiselele ukulibazisa ukuqeqeshwa uma ebonisa ukumelana. Kuze kube yilapho engena ebhodweni, ungazama ukukhipha izindiza zakhe ezingcolile esihlalweni sakhe samathambo ukuze usize sibonise ukuthi ufuna yini ukuthi akwenze.
Ukuqeqesha izingane ngezimfuno ezikhethekile
Ingxenye ebalulekile yokuqeqesha ama-potty izingane ezinesidingo esikhethekile ukusebenzisa i-potty njalo. Ngokuvamile lokhu kufaka phakathi 'indlu yangasese ehleliwe' njengoba kuchazwe encwadini ethi 'Toilet Training Without Without Tears' nguDkt. Charles E. Schaefer. Lokhu 'kuqinisekisa ukuthi ingane yakho inamathuba amaningi okusebenzisa indlu yangasese.' Ukuhlala phezu kwamanzi kufanele kwenzeke 'okungenani kanye noma kabili ngehora' futhi emva kokuqala ukubuza, 'Kufanele uhambe ngamanzi?' Ngisho noma ethi ayikho, ngaphandle uma engavumi ngokuphelele, kuwumqondo omuhle ukumyisa ekhathini.
Uma lo mkhuba uvuna kakhulu ingane yakho, khona-ke ungamyisa emanzini kancane kancane. Kungasiza ukugcina ishadi noma idayari lapho ehlunga njalo noma enhlabathini ukuze ukwazi izikhathi ezihle zokuhlala naye ebhodini futhi ukwandise amathuba akho okumele ahambe ngawo. Kanti futhi uyakwazi ukuhamba emva kokudla nokudla okulula futhi yisikhathi esihle sokumyisa emanzini. Ukuvakashelwa njalo ngezikhathi lapho angase asebenzise khona ukuvakashelwa kwamanzi ngobuningi nokumbalwa kwezinye izikhathi zenye enye enye indlela enhle. Ezinye izindlela ezinhle zihlanganisa ukufanekisa, lapho uvumela ingane yakho ukuthi ibone amalungu omndeni noma amanye abantwana asebenzisa indlu yangasese, besebenzisa amazwi okubuka. Lokhu kuhilela ukulandisa okwenzekayo nokubuza imibuzo ngenkathi ukuqeqeshwa ngamanzi, njengokuthi 'uvele uhlala ebhodweni?' noma 'ingabe uvele ungena emanzini?'
Ngisho nangemva kokuba eseqala ukusebenzisa le potty, kuvamile ukuthi abe nezingozi futhi abuyele emuva noma aphinde aphindwe ngezikhathi ezithile futhi anqabe ukusebenzisa le potty. Ukuqeqeshwa ngokugcwele kwamanzi, ingane yakho iqaphela lapho kufanele ifike emanzini, iya emzimbeni wokugezela futhi idonsa phansi ibhulukwe, ivule noma inomzimba wayo, futhi igqoke yona, ingathatha isikhathi, ngezinye izikhathi kuze kube izinyanga ezintathu kuya kweziyisithupha. Ukuba nezingozi noma ngezikhathi ezithile ukwenqaba ukusebenzisa i-potty kuvamile futhi akubhekwa njengokumelana.
Ekuqaleni kokuqeqeshwa, ukuphikiswa kufanele kuphathwe ngokuyeka ukuqeqeshwa kwamasonto ambalwa noma ngenyanga bese uzama futhi. Ngaphezu kokudumisa nokukhuthazwa okuningi lapho esebenzisa noma ehlezi nje emanzini, imivuzo yenyama ingaba isisusa esihle. Lokhu kungafaka izinsimbi ezingasetshenziswa ukuhlobisa isihlalo sakhe samathambo noma ithoyizi encane, ukudlala noma ukuphatha. Ungahlola futhi ukusebenzisa ishadi lomvuzo futhi uthole ukwelashwa okhethekile uma ethola izitifiketi eziningi eshadini lakhe.
Ungaphinde unikeze ukuphatha noma umvuzo wokuhlala omile. Kungasiza ukuhlola ukuze uqiniseke ukuthi akenzanga nengozi phakathi kokuvakashela ebhodweni. Uma esomile, ukuthokoza kakhulu nokunikeza udumo, isikhuthazo, mhlawumbe ngisho nomvuzo, kungasiza ekuqinisekiseni ukungabi nengozi.
Ukuzikhandla Okuhle Ngezingozi
Enye indlela ewusizo 'ukuziphatha okuhle kwezingozi.' UDkt. Schaefer uchaza lokhu njengalokho okufanele ukwenze uma ingane yakho inengozi kanye ne-wets noma inhlabathi ngokwayo. Le nqubo ihilela ukutshela umntanakho ngokuqinile lokho akwenzile, ukumyisa ebhodweni lapho angahlanza khona futhi aguqule yena (nakuba kungenzeka ukuthi uzodinga ukusiza) bese uqala ukuzisebenzisa usebenzisa le potty. UDkt. Schaefer uncoma ukuba asebenzise izinyathelo ezijwayelekile zokusebenzisa ama-potty okungenani amahlanu, kusukela lapho "ingane ihamba endlini yangasese, ihlehlisa ibhulukwe, ihlala kancane endlini yangasese (imizuzwana emithathu kuya kwemihlanu), isukuma, iphakamisa ibhulukwe , ugeza izandla, bese ebuyela endaweni lapho kwenzeka khona ingozi. " Futhi, nakuba uzama ukumfundisa imiphumela yokwenza ingozi, lokhu akufanele kuthathe uhlobo lokujeziswa.
Nakuba kungathatha isikhashana futhi kudinga ukubekezela okukhulu, izingane eziningi ezinesidingo esikhethekile zingaba yimpu eqeqeshwe yiminyaka yobudala engama-3 kuya ku-5. Uma uqhubeka nezinkinga noma ingane yakho imelana kakhulu, khona-ke cabanga ukuthola usizo lochwepheshe.
Ngaphandle kwezingane zakho, ungase uthole usizo ku-Occupational Therapist, ikakhulukazi uma ingane yakho inesibindi sokubambezeleka kwezimoto okubangela ubunzima bokuqeqeshwa kwamanzi, i-Psychologist yengane, ikakhulukazi uma ingane yakho imane imelana nokuqeqeshwa kwamanzi kanye noPhezulu wezingane.