Izizathu Eziyisikhombisa Zokukhohlisa Akulungile

Amaphuzu Okukhuluma Abazali Abazohlanganyela Nabo Abasha

Ukukopela sekube isifo phakathi kwentsha. Kuye kwavame kakhulu ukuthi intsha eningi inomuzwa wokuthi iyinto evamile futhi ayiqondi ukuthi kungani engalungile.

Ngo-2012, amaphesenti angu-51 entshonalanga avumile ukuthi ayekhohlisile ekuhlolweni ngonyaka odlule kanti amaphesenti angu-32 avumile ukuthi ayekopishe idokhumenti ye-intanethi ngesabelo. Abafundi abangamaphesenti angama-55 abacwaningiwe bathi baqamba amanga kumfundisi ngento ebalulekile ngonyaka odlule.

Ubuchwepheshe bukhohlisa kalula futhi kuba nzima othisha ukuthola. Abafundi basebenzisa ama- smartphones abo ukubuka izimpendulo ekilasini-noma ukuthumela izimpendulo kubangani babo.

Bangathatha umsebenzi womunye umuntu kusuka ku-intanethi futhi bazame ukuyidlulisa njengeyabo. Kunezinhlelo zokusebenza zokuhumusha umsebenzi wesikole wasekhaya wangaphandle, futhi ngezinye izikhathi kukhona izabelo eziqedile zesikole ezithunyelwe kumawebhusayithi.

Abanye abasha bacabanga ukuthi basiza abangani babo ngokwenza umsebenzi wabo kubo. Abanye bathi bayakhohlisa ngoba bazizwa sengathi bangaphansi kwengcindezi enkulu yezemfundo.

Ngokuvamile, ukucindezela ukuba "sisize" abanye abafundi kubangelwa ukucindezeleka kwentsha yanamuhla izwa ukuthi iphumelele. Bangase bacabange ukuthi abazali bazo bazuzisa ukuphumelela ngaphezu kwanoma yini enye noma bangase bacabange ukungena ekolishi kuzo zonke izindleko kubaluleke ngaphezu kokuthembeka.

Ama-Top 10 okukopela amaphuzu okukhuluma

Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi usola ukuthi ingane yakho ingabenza umsebenzi wesikole ekhaya noma uzama ukwenza umsebenzi wokuvimbela noma yiziphi izinkinga ngaphambi kokuba uqale, khuluma nengane yakho ngezinye izingozi ezihlobene nokukopela.

La maphuzu okukhuluma angakunikeza umbono wezinto ongafuna ukubhekana nazo.

1. Ukukopela kungamanga . Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ukopisha iphepha lomunye umuntu, noma ubeke into ethile oyitholile kuyi-intanethi, uyazi ukuthi unomthwalo wemfanelo emsebenzini.
2. Ukukopela kuyindlela yokuba . Ukuthatha umsebenzi womuntu futhi ukuyibiza ngokwakho ukweba.

1. Ukukopela kungalungile kwabanye . Abafundi abasebenza kanzima ukuze bathole amamaki amahle akudingeki baqhudelane nalabo abangenzi umsebenzi wabo. Futhi, ngelinye ilanga abantu bazokholelwa emakhono akho. Uma amakhono akho engekho okwangempela ngoba ukopela, uzobavumela labo bantu bahle.
2. Ukukopela kuyisilimaza . Uma ukopela, uzitshela ukuthi awukholelwa emakhono akho okwanele okwenza umsebenzi owodwa.
3. Ukukopela kungalungile kuwe . Ukufeza ukuzwa kuhle futhi kusiza ukwakha ukuzethemba nokuzethemba . Lezi izinto ezimbili ezibaluleke kakhulu kumuntu omdala ophumelelayo ophumelelayo.
4. Ukukopela kwenza isinyathelo sokufunda esilandelayo sibe nzima . Ukusebenzisa isibonelo esilula: uma ungafundi izici zakho eklasini leKhemistry ngeke ukwazi ukwenza izibalo zamakhemikhali eziyinkimbinkimbi. Ngakho-ke, ukudlula kuzodingeka ukhohlise futhi noma uqale kusukela ekuqaleni. Kulula ukufunda nje izinto eziyisisekelo okokuqala.
5. Ukukopela kubulala ukwethemba . Thola ukubanjwa ukukopela kanye kanye nezibalo zeziphathimandla zizohlala zinzima kakhudlwana ukukuthemba-ngisho noma ungaphinde uphinde ukukopela.
6. Ukukopela kubangela ukucindezeleka . Ukudlulisa umsebenzi womunye umuntu njengokwakho kusho ukuthi uzodinga ukungathembeki futhi ukukhohlisa kungokwemvelo okucindezelayo. Ukugcina lezo zimfihlo kwenezela ukucindezeleka okwengeziwe kokutholakala njengomculi.

1. Ukukopela kuyisithunzi kulabo abakuthandayo. Ulwazi lunamandla futhi uma othile ekwabelana nawe ulwazi kuyisipho.
2. Ukukopela akupheli esikoleni esiphakeme. Ukukopela ngokuvamile kuba yisinqamuleli. Kuphenduka umkhuba omubi ongakulandela kulo lonke elasekolishi nasemsebenzini wakho wesikhathi esizayo. Esikhundleni sokuba 'umuntu okhohlisayo,' cishe uyoba 'umculi oqhubekayo.'

Ukukhuluma Nengane Yakho

Bamba izingxoxo njalo nengane yakho mayelana nokukopela. Buza imibuzo enjengokuthi, "Ingabe omunye wabangani bakho bakhohlisa?" "Ingabe ukukopela inkinga enkulu esikoleni sakho?" noma "Ingabe unomuzwa wokucindezela ukukopela ukuze uzame ukuqhubeka?"

Lalela ukuthi ingane yakho isho ukuthini ngokukopela. Buza ingane yakho ukuthi yini ocabanga ukuthi iwukukopela ezweni lanamuhla ledijithali.

Ukukopela kungase kube nzima ukuchaza. Ingabe kulungile ukusebenzisa iwebhusayithi ehumusha amagama akho ngolunye ulimi? Ingabe ukukopela uma uthatha iphepha ngaphandle kwe-intanethi kodwa ufake ezinye izigwebo ngamazwi akho? Nxusa imibono yakho yengane ngalezi zinhlobo zemibono bese wabelana ngemibono yakho.

Khumbula ukuthi kubalulekile ukuba ube yisibonelo esihle . Uma ukhohlisa intela yakho noma ungathembeki uma ubuyisa izinto esitolo, ingane yakho izofunda ukuthi kulungile ukukhohlisa uhlelo. Bonisa ingane yakho ukubaluleka kokuthembeka, ngisho noma kunzima.

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