Ukuthola ubulili bomntwana wakho kubonakala kuyinto wonke umuntu akwenzayo. Ngenkathi izinombolo ziphezulu kakhulu, 80 +%, ngokuqinisekile akuwona wonke umzali. Eqinisweni, kubonakala sengathi kukhona umkhuba wamuva okwenzeka emuva ukuwugcina imfihlo, uma kungenjalo, okungenani kubo bonke abanye. Lapho ebuzwa ukuthi kungani abazali bengathandi ukuthola ubulili bomntwana ngaphambi kokuzalwa, nansi ezinye zezinto ozizwayo:
Vimbela ukuhlukumezeka ngokocansi noma izilinganiso zobulili
Ngenkathi ungase uvulekele izinketho eziningi uma ungazazi ubulili bomntanakho, ukwazi ngokuzenzekelayo kukubeka engumfana oqondile noma isigaba somfana . Ezinye imindeni zikhononda ukuthi uma ziyazi ukuthi zintombazane noma umfana, zihlaselwa ngezipho zalowobulili. Cabanga pink! (Noma luhlaza okwesibhakabhaka.) Nakuba lokhu kungenzeka noma kungakukhathazi.
Kuye kwaxoxwa nokuthi omama ababazi ubulili bezingane zabo ngaphambi kokuzalwa bachaza ukunyakaza kwe-fetal ngokuhlukile. Ngakho ukukhahlela okunamandla kuba ngumdlali webhola lomdlalo wesifazane futhi owesifazane ube ibhola le-ballerina ngokuphambene nomane oqinile, onempilo. Lokhu kungase kube into yokumane uqaphele uma ukhetha ukuthola.
My Mystery Great Last
Abazali abaningi bakusho imfihlakalo ukuthi kungani befisa ukulinda. Bajabulela ikhono lokuhlola zonke izinketho ezingqondweni zabo. Imfihlakalo yokungakwazi, ukudlala nayo yonke incwadi yamagama wengane, kunokuba nje ingxenye eyodwa kuphela, into eyenziwa abazali abaningi ngempela.
Iminye imindeni iwubonga ngempela lezi zikhathi ezikhethekile. Ngiyazi ukuthi ngenye yezingane zethu, lapho sasingazi, ukuzwa ingane yakini isho ukuthi, "Ingumfana!" Kwakungumsindo omuhle ngempela futhi enye yezinkumbulo zami zomsebenzi ezithandekayo. Noma omama bakhomba iqiniso lokuthi bazizwa sengathi umsebenzi wawulula uma bengakwazi.
Bakhuluma ngokugxila kanzima futhi bazizwe bejabule kakhulu kunokuba beyazi umphumela. Lokhu akulona iqiniso kuwo wonke umuntu kodwa nakanjani kuzokugcina uqagela kuze kube ngumzuzwana wokugcina.
Yenza Umsebenzi Ujabulise Kakhulu
Khuluma mayelana nembukiso enkulu! Ukubeletha yilapho okwenzeka kuyo yonke indawo, kungabe kusaba khona. Ukuzwa ukuthi uyintombazane noma ungumfana ovela kumlingani wakho ngesikhathi sokuzalwa yinto abanye abayithola ekhethekile kakhulu. Lokhu akukwazi ukuchazwa ngempela kwi-ultrasound ngenxa yokuchazwa kweskena okudingekayo.
I-Ultrasound ayihlali ihlale ilungile
Kukhona futhi amathuba okuphutha njenganoma yikuphi ukuhlolwa . Ngenkathi isibalo samaphutha sibonakala sishiye eminyakeni yamuva, kusengenzeka. Lokhu kungaholela ekudabukeleni noma ngisho nokucindezeleka, okuyinto, ngenkathi yesikhashana, isasebenza futhi akuyona into ofuna ukubhekana nayo lapho uzalwa. Lokhu kuyiqiniso ikakhulukazi uma wonke umuntu ekutshela ukuthi kufanele ujabule ngomntwana onempilo, engaqapheli ukuthi usuvele usulele ingane engqondweni yakho, kodwa nokho ukuthi usetshenzisiwe ngenye insana enempilo.
Asikho Isidingo Esokwempilo Sokusetshenziswa Kwe-Ultrasound
Uma ungenayo isidingo sezokwelapha se-ultrasound futhi umshuwalense wakho awukufihli, kungenzeka ukuthi awunalo ithuba lokuthola.
Lokhu kusebenza nasezivivinyweni ezingavamile zokuhlolwa kofuzo ezenzelwe ukuzimisela ngokocansi kuphela. Uma abazali kufanele bakhokhe ephaketheni noma bekhathazekile ngemiphumela engaba khona yokuhlolwa, bangase bakhethe ukungahambi nayo. Njengoba ukuhlolwa kwezakhi zofuzo ezinjenge-amniocentesis kuthatha ingozi encane kakhulu kodwa yangempela ekukhulelweni, akuvamile, uma kwenzeka ngaphandle kwesizathu.
Kukhona nomphakathi ophakathi - onolwazi, kodwa ungayibheki. Lokhu kuhilela ukuba nolwazi olufakwe emvilophini eveziwe. Khona-ke ungaba ngaphezu komzuzwana owodwa phakathi kokukhulelwa ngesikhathi sokuqokwa kwe-ultrasound nomuntu ongaziwayo ekamelweni njengokungathi ungathola.
Mhlawumbe unquma ukuvula imvilophu emotweni kanye nomlingani wakho. Mhlawumbe ulinde kuze kube sekupheleni kosuku lokuzalwa komntwana, noma mhlawumbe ulinde futhi ulivule ngemuva kokuzalwa kwengane. Unezinketho.