Inqubo Yokuba Umzali Wokutholwa
Umzali osamukelayo ngumuntu ohlinzeka ikhaya elingapheli kwengane noma izingane ngokusebenzisa inqubo yomthetho. Igama eliyisisekelo "lingunaphakade." Umphumela wokuphela awufani nokubeletha ingane. Ukuba umzali osamukelayo kuza nazo zonke izinjabulo, ukukhathazeka, ukuhleka, ukukhungatheka, imithwalo yemfanelo kanye namalungelo okukhuliswa komzali nomntwana wengane noma yemvelo.
Inqubo Yokutholwa
Inqubo yokwamukelwa ingavela ngezindlela eziningi. Ungase ujwayelane noma uhlotshaniswe nomama wokuzalwa futhi uhlele ukutholwa phakathi kwakho. Lokhu kuvame ukubizwa ngokuthi ukwamukelwa kwangasese, nommeli noma abameli abasebenza njengabaxhumanisi ukuze benze imininingwane kunokuba i-agency yokutholwa. Ungase uthathe isinqumo sokuthola ingane engumntwana oye wafakwa ekunakekeleni kwakho, noma ukhethe ukusebenza nge-ejensi yengane engaziwa ngaphambili noma ngisho nokuyamukela evela kwelinye izwe,
Izinyathelo Zokuzokwamukelwa
Kuzo zonke izimo, isifundo sekhaya ngokuvamile siyadingeka. Isisebenzi senhlalakahle sizohlangana nawe namanye amalungu omndeni oseduze ekhaya ukuze athathe izintambo zomndeni wakho, ukuhlola izizathu zakho zokufuna ukwamukela, nokuqinisekisa ukuthi ikhaya lakho liphephile futhi lifanele ingane - awunayo uhlala ekamelweni elilodwa lokulala egumbini lesishiyagalolunye le-hi-rise engekho indawo yokudlala etholakalayo.
U-hi-rise angase angakufaneleki, kodwa ikamelo lokulala elilodwa lingase lidingeke lihambe emzini ofanelekile. Umqondo awukuthi ukuvimbele ekubeni ngumzali osamukelayo kepha ukuqinisekisa ukuphepha nenhlalakahle yengane oyithathayo. Izenzo eziningi ezithathayo nazo zidinga ukuhlolwa kwangemuva nesitifiketi esivela kudokotela wakho ukuthi awunaso isimo sempilo lokho kungakuvimbela ukuba unakekele ingane.
Uzoqhubeka nokulandela izinyathelo zomthetho zokwamukela, ekugcineni ekuboneni kwenkantolo lapho ukwemukelwa kwamalungelo okugunyazwa yijaji futhi kuqedile. Inkantolo izokubiza wena - umzali ongumzali - njengomzali wengane yomthetho esikhundleni somzali noma abazali. Abazali bezinto eziphilayo kumele basayine amalungelo abo omthetho ngaphambi kokuthola ingane.
Umphumela wokwamukelwa
Uba nomthwalo wemfanelo ngokuphelele ngomntanakho ngazo zonke izindlela njengomzali osamukelayo: ngokomthetho, ngokwezezimali, ngokomzwelo, ngokomzimba nangokomoya. Uma uhlukanisa futhi ungagunyazwa ingane yakho eyamukelwe, uzokhokha ingane. Ingane inelungelo elingokomthetho lokuthola ifa kuwe njengoba nje ingane ezalwa ngokwemvelo ingaba. Unelungelo elingokomthetho lokwenza zonke izinqumo ezibalulekile mayelana nokuphila kwengane, kuhlanganise nokunakekelwa kwezokwelapha nokwelashwa, yiziphi izikole azokuya kuzo nokuthi iyiphi inkolo oyoyikhulisa kuyo.
Ukubhaliswa kokutholwa
Isitifiketi sokuzalwa kwengane esamukelwe sichitshiyelwa ukufaka amagama esikhundleni sabazali bokuzalwa nalabo abazali abamukelayo. Isitifikedi sokuzalwa sokuqala sabekwa uphawu. Iningi lamazwe alivumeli abamukeli ukuthi babone noma bafinyelele izitifiketi zabo zokuzalwa zokuqala, kodwa ukubhaliswa kokutholwa kwezingane kuye kwavela ezweni lonke eminyakeni yamuva.
Bavumela ababelethi nabazali bezinto eziphilayo ukuba babhalise ngokuqonda ukuthi bafuna igama labo litholakale uma ingane yabo noma umzali futhi ebhalisa futhi efuna ukwazi ulwazi lwabo.