I-Basics of Adoption Gay

Ukwamukelwa kwe-Gay Basics ukuze Ukwazi

Ukutholwa kwe-Gay akuyona into entsha. Ama-Gay kanye nama-lesbians asemukele isikhathi eside, kodwa umthetho ushintshile kancane kancane, ubahlinzekela izinketho eziningi kunanini ngaphambili. Amanye amaqiniso nezindaba azihlukile kulo mphakathi. Nakhu okuyisisekelo.

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Izinketho zokutholwa kwabazali bamaGay
I-ONOKY - Eric Audras / Brand X Izithombe / Getty Images

Imibhangqwana yama-gay ingacubungula izinhlobo eziningana zokwamukelwa, kusukela ekunakekelweni kwabantwana bezingane ekutholeni amazwe omhlaba. Ukwamukelwa okuphumelelayo kungancika ukuthi ngabe i-ejensi, izwe kanye / noma izwe livulekile kubazali abangama-gay.

Njengalabo abashadile abesilisa nabesifazane, umbuzo wokuqala wangempela wukuthi ukubelethwa kulungile yini wena nomndeni wakho. Hlola imizwa yakho kanye nokulindana komunye nomunye - ngosizo lomeluleki noma isazi uma kudingeka. Umgwaqo ozayo ungase ube nzima futhi ugcwaliswe izithiyo naphezu kokuthi ukutholwa komlingani gay kukhula endaweni evamile njalo nsuku zonke, ngakho qiniseka ukuthi uhamba ngezinyawo ngaphambi kokuba uqale.

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Isifundo Sekhaya Sokutholwa
Ukutholwa kwe-Gay nokulingana nabantu abesilisa nabesifazane kuyinto evamile eminyakeni yamuva. Kunezinketho eziningi zokwakha umndeni ngokutholwa. U-Brendan Smialowski / Getty Images

Isifundo sekhaya sokwamukelwa singenye yezithiyo zokuqala kunoma iyiphi inqubo yokwamukelwa. Esikhathini esedlule - futhi mhlawumbe namanje kwezinye izindawo zezwe - imibhangqwana yama-gay baye baqamba amanga mayelana nezimiso zabo ukuze bakwazi ukuzamukela. Omunye umlingani angase athathe ingane ngenkathi enye ezenza sengathi uhlala naye noma umngane. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukubaluleka kokuthembeka uma uthola. Nakuba kungase kube ngokomthetho ukushiya ulwazi oluthile, akulona umthetho ukukhuluma amanga uma ubuzwa umbuzo othize. Kungabhekwa njengokukhwabanisa futhi kungabangela ukuba ukwemukelwa ukuthi kunqatshelwe noma ukubekwa okuvele kusungulwe ukuze kuphazamiseke.

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Ukwamukelwa kweGay ngeNombolo
UFrank Martin Gill waseFlorida uchitha isikhathi nenye yamadodana akhe asekhulile. Ubelokhu elwa nokuvinjelwa kwezingane zokugonywa gay. Joe Raedle / Getty Izithombe

Inani eliqondile lamabhangqwana abesilisa abathandanayo abathandana nabo abatholakali, mhlawumbe ngenxa yokuthi umphakathi usabonakala ubhekene nokwesaba okuthile mayelana nokukhulisa izingane. Kodwa ezinye izibalo zikhona ngenxa yokucubungula kanye nokuhlola kwezwe, okubonisa ukuthi abazali abathandana nabesilisa nabesilisa abashadile basesimweni esincane.

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Ukwesaba Okuzungezile Gay Ukutholwa
Abanye bakhathazeka izingane bazoklolodelwa ngokuba nabazali abangqingili, intombazanyana idansa nomunye wabazali bakhe ngaphandle kokukhathazeka. I-Chip Somodevilla / Getty Images

Ucwaningo oluningi luye lwazama ukunquma ukuthi izingane zikhuliswe kanjani ezinyunyana zabangqingili nabesilisa nabesifazane. Lezi zifundo ngezinye izikhathi zihlaziywa kuye ngokuthi ubani owenzile ucwaningo. Amaqembu angamaGay nabesilisa abathandana nabo babonisa imiphumela emihle, kuyilapho izinhlangano zenkolo noma ezizimele zivame ukukhombisa imiphumela emibi. Izinto eziningi ezikhathazayo zizungezile ukuqonda ukuziphatha ngokocansi nokubeka ukuthi ngabe izingane zizokhula yini izinkinga ezingokomzwelo ngenxa yokuba nabazali abangama-gay.

Ucwaningo alutholanga ucwaningo olulodwa olubonisa ukuthi izingane zabazali abesilisa abesilisa nabesilisa abathandana nabo besifazane banesidingo nganoma iyiphi inhlonipho ephawulekayo.

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Ukwamukelwa kwe-Gay Legal and Issues
UFrank Martin Gill, oye walwela amalungelo alinganayo njengomzali ongumama-gay, uyeka ukuchitha isikhathi nomunye wamadodana akhe asekhaya. Joe Raedle / Getty Izithombe

Kuvame kakhulu ukuthi umlingani oyedwa abamukele futhi owesibili abe esebenza enkantolo njengomzali wesibili noma umzali oyedwa. Ukwamukelwa komzali wesibili kudala omunye umzali ohlonishwa ngokomthetho ngezingane ezitholayo, unikeza wonke amalungelo afanayo womzali / ingane kanye nemithwalo yemithwalo yeminye imindeni ejabulela. Cabanga njengokwamukelwa komzali oyedwa phakathi kwemibhangqwana eshadile yobungqingili. Ukutholwa komzali wesibili kunikezwe izinkantolo ezikhulwini ezingu-13 kanye neSifunda saseColombia ngo-2015.

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Ukusekelwa kanye Nezinsiza zabazali abangamaGay
Intombazane eneminyaka engu-5 ubudala ubudala ijabulela isikhathi nomndeni wayo. Lo mbhangqwana kwakudingeka uqale ukuhlala eVermont ukuze uzamukele. UDavid Friedman / Getty Images

Ngemuva kokutholwa kokugcina, impilo iqhubeka. Yonke imindeni idinga usizo oluvela emndenini nabangane. Abanye abashadile abashadile bathola ukuthi abazali babo - okungenzeka ukuthi babethukuthele ngesikhathi esisodwa mayelana nokukhetha kwezingane zabo zokuphila - beza nxa abazukulu befaka isithombe. Ngethemba ukuthi uzoba nokusekelwa okuningi 'ezweni lakho langempela,' kodwa izinsiza eziningi ze-intanethi ziyatholakala kubazali abathandana nabangqingili. Kuhle futhi kokubili izingane nabazali ukufunda izincwadi mayelana nemindeni njengabo.