I-Webster's II New Riverside Dictionary ichaza "u-foster" njengo:
"Ukukhulisa: ukukhulisa. 2. Ukuhlakulela nokukhuthaza. Ukunikeza noma ukwamukela ukunakekelwa kwabazali nakuba kungahlobene negazi noma izibopho zomthetho."
Ukunakekelwa okuningi, ukukhulisana nokukhuthazwa kuyahambisana nokukhulisa ingane ekhulelwe. Kunamaphepha amaningi nemihlangano, kodwa ngaphezu kwakho konke, ukuba ngumzali okhulisayo kusho ukuhlinzeka ingane ngamathuba amasha angase angenalo.
Ukukhuthaza Ingane Kusho:
- Ukuqondisa umndeni wokuzalwa nokusiza ngenqubo yokuhlanganiswa komndeni.
- Ukuthatha ingane yokukhukhumeza noma yokuphatha okokuqala.
- Ukubonisa ingane eyizingane zakhe iziqhumane zokuqala ngomhlaka 4 kuJulayi.
- Ukusiza isikole esikoleni samabanga aphezulu esikoleni esiphakeme futhi ubeke umgomo wokuya esikolishi noma esikoleni sokufundela umsebenzi.
- Ukubhaka ikhekhe lokuzalwa lomntwana wokuqala, nakuba ephenduka ayisishiyagalombili.
- Ukwabelana ngokuhleka kwehlobo ngezingane ezingakaze zigijime nge-sprinkler ngaphambili.
- Ukugcina uxhumano nomntwana okhulile osekhulile okwamanje obeletha ingane yakhe futhi akakucabangi ukuthi uyinani lomkhulu.
- Ukukhuthaza ingane ekhulelwe ukuba iphakamise ngaphezu kwezingqinamba zesikhathi esidlule bese iqhubeka nokuphila.
Indlela Yokuba Umzali Ongumzali
- Imithetho yokukhuthaza umntwana isethwe ngumthetho kahulumeni ukuze ihluke, kepha ukuba ngumzali okhulayo cishe uqala ngokuvakashela ukwahlukana okusemthethweni ezweni lakho. Kuzodingeka ugcwalise uhlelo lokusebenza, kodwa eziningi zenza lezi zitholakale ku-intanethi. Isicelo sizohlinzeka ngemininingwane ejwayelekile mayelana nomndeni wakho nendlu yakho, futhi ingase ibuze ukuthi kungani ufuna ukukhuthaza ingane. Ungase unikezwe ithuba lokusho ukuthi ngabe ungathanda yini usana, ingane encane noma ingane endala-ngisho nentsha.
- Ukuhambisa isicelo kuvame ukulandelwa iklasi yokumayela noma uchungechunge lwamakilasi. Uzohambela nabanye abafuna ukuba abazali ababelethi. Kuyinto yeqembu, hhayi inkulumo eyodwa-inye, futhi akuyona nje imfundo. Ungabuza imibuzo ukuze uzizwe ubuhlobo obuseduze ozoqala nawo nokuveza noma yikuphi ukukhathazeka onakho.
- Ukukhulisa izingane ngokuphindaphindiwe cishe kuhilela isifundo sekhaya. Isisebenzi sezenhlalakahle sizofika lapho uhlala khona ukuze uhlangane nawe namanye amalungu omndeni futhi uqinisekise ukuthi ikhaya lakho liphephile futhi likhula. Inkolo yakho, ubuhlanga, ubulili, kanye nesimo somshado azikwahlulelwa futhi azibheki, nakuba ubudala bakho kuyisici esithile-kumele uvame ukuba ngaphezu kweminyaka engu-21 ubudala. Izifundo zasekhaya zingabandakanya ukuvakashelwa okuyisihlanu noma kwezi-10.
Ithemba Lokuvumela Ukuhamba
Kungase kudingeke ufunde ngokuyeka ukuhamba ekugcineni. Umgomo oyinhloko wokunakekelwa kwentombazane uhlale uhlanganisa ingane ngokuzalwa komzali noma abazali bakhe. Okunye ukuziphatha noma isigameko kwenze ukuba ingane isuswe ekhaya, futhi uhulumeni uzosebenza ekulungiseni leyo nkinga ukuze umndeni uphinde uhlanganiswe. Ngesinye isikhathi lokho akunakwenzeka, noma kunjalo, futhi ingane isethelwe ukutholwa. Abazali abavame ukunikeza ithuba lokuqala lokutholwa, kepha uma unquma ngokumelene nalo ngesizathu esithile, ingane izohanjiswa ekhaya elisha.