Uma ngibheka emuva izingxoxo nabanye abazali abamukelayo kanye nokuhlangenwe nakho kwami ngokwamukelwa kanye nokukhulisa izingane, ngicabanga ukuthi kunezizathu ezinhlanu eziqinile zokufuna ukwamukela ingane.
Nakuba wonke umuntu engase abe nesisusa sakhe sokuhlola ukutholwa komuntu, isisekelo sesifiso somndeni okufanele samukele futhi yini eshukumisela lowo mndeni phambili ukuba uqede ukutholwa, kufanele isekelwe kokuthile okujulile.
Izizathu Zokukhetha Ukwamukelwa
Isifiso sokunikeza ingane umndeni. Umndeni othakazelisayo ufuna ukunikeza ingane enomndeni nomndeni onothando. Lokhu kuhlanganisa konke okwenza ikhaya libe yindawo enothando ukuba ibe nomndeni oyisiqephu esamukelayo. Lesi sifiso sifaka ukushintshaniswa kwamasiko omndeni, ukwabelana kokholo, kanye nezinkathi zokwenza imemori. Kusho futhi ukwamukela ingane ukuthi bangobani-ngisho namaphutha abo. Ukuqonda ukuthi ingane inomlando namagugu okumele ahlonishwe futhi avunyelwe.
Isifiso sokusiza ingane iqhubekele ekuphileni. Abazali abamukelayo banesithakazelo ekusizeni ingane ukuba iphulukise ekusizini nasekuhluphekeni okudlule, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi lokhu kuvela ekuhlukumezweni , ukunganakwa , ukushiywa, noma izintandane. Umndeni osamukelayo ufuna ukusiza ingane ukuba iqale impilo entsha futhi iyazi ukuthi kuzoba khona ukukhuphuka nokuhlaselwa ngokubeletha okukhulunywayo futhi kulungiselelwe lezi zinselele.
Ikhono lokuhlinzekela enye ingane ngazo zonke izindlela. Umzali othakazelisayo ufuna ukuhlanganyela ikhaya lakhe nengane futhi abe nesinye isikhala somunye ingane. Babuye babe nesikhala nesimo sengqondo enhliziyweni yabo ilungu lomndeni elisha. Umndeni osamukelayo uvikelekile ngokwezimali ukuze usebenzise kahle.
Umndeni wonke osamukelayo uyavumelana nokutholwa. Wonke umuntu emndenini uyavuma ukuthi ukungeza ekhaya ngokusebenzisa ukutholwa kuyinto efanele ukuyenza. Zonke izingane ekhaya nazo zijabule ngokuthatha. Ukubhekana nokwamukelwa lapho abantwana bekhaya bengekho ebhodini necebo akuwona umqondo omuhle.
Umndeni osamukelayo uyazi ingane edingayo umndeni. Umndeni othakazelisayo uyayibona ingane edingayo ikhaya elithathayo. Ingane ingaba ngumngani womndeni, isihlobo, noma ingane abahlangana nayo esontweni noma ngaphakathi komakhelwane.