Izindlela Zokuqeqesha Zezingane Ezingase Zishushiswe Noma Zinganakiwe
Abazali abavuthiwe abavunyelwe ukusebenzisa isijeziso somuntu ngezingane ezikhulayo. Abazali abamukelayo nabo bahlakaniphile ukuzama amanye amasu okuziphatha nokugwema ukujeziswa komuntu ngenxa yokuhlangenwe nakho kwezingane eziningi ezedlule ngokuhlukumeza nokungahoxiswa.
Uma othile eba umzali okhulelwe noma ebeletha izingane ngokuvamile zifakwa esimweni sokuphatha izimo ezinzima.
Izingane ohlelweni lokunakekela izingane zivame ukukhuthazelela ukuhlukunyezwa nokunganaki futhi zivame ukuveza imizwa yazo ngokuziphatha. Ezinye izingane ezingamanye amazwe ezamukelwa emhlabeni jikelele zingabonisa ukuziphatha okufanayo ngenxa yokuhlala entandane. Nazi ezimbalwa izingane zokuqondisa ukucabanga imibono eyasiza eminingi inhlalakahle kanye nemindeni ezithandayo.
Ukulungiswa kabusha. Ngokuvamile kuyasiza ukuzama ukuphazamisa ukuziphatha okungathandeki kwengane ngokuhlelwa kabusha. Isibonelo, uma ingane igxile ekuhlukumeza ingane yakini, zama ukuthakazelisa ingane emisebenzini ehlukile kwelinye igumbi noma uhlanganyele ingane ekwenzeni umsebenzi kanye nawe.
Yeka ukuziphatha. Lesi yisiyalo esibi kunazo zonke kimi njengoba ngithola ukunganaki ukuziphatha kube nzima kakhulu. Qinisekisa ukuthi uyayinaki ukuziphatha okungesiyingozi kumntwana noma kwabanye. Ukunganaki umlilo kuqala ukuziphatha, isibonelo, akusona isinqumo esihlakaniphile. Kodwa ngeke kube nzima ukungazinaki ingane ephuza isithupha sayo, wenqaba ukuthatha amasokisi akhe, noma ukuhlanza indlu yangasese. Kuwukuhlakanipha ukukhetha izimpi zakho.
Sebenzisa u-Love and Logic. Ngiyakhuthaza kakhulu ukuba yi- Programming Love and Logic Parent kubo bonke abazali, ikakhulukazi abazali abakhulayo nabazali abamukelayo. Lolu hlelo lusiza abazali bafunde ukuthi bangakhetha kanjani izimpi zabo njengalokhu kuphakanyisiwe ngenhla futhi benze amagama abazali bathi izingane zabo zifanele ngempela futhi zingenasisongo.
Isikhathi siphelile. Mhlawumbe omunye wamathuluzi omzali omdala kunabo bonke kule ncwadi uma kuziwa ekuqondiseni izingane. Isikhathi sokugcina umkhuba wokubeka ingane ekhoneni noma kwibhentshi lokugcina isikhathi ngenombolo ehleliwe yamaminithi. Umthetho omuhle wesithupha unyaka wengane kanye nomzuzu owodwa. Ingane ivame ukufakwa ukuze ibheke udonga. Qaphela ukuthi lokhu kungase kungabi yisinqumo esihle kubantwana abanenkinga yokunamathiselwe. Yenza ucwaningo oluthe xaxa noma ubuze umhlengikazi wengane yakho uma ukuhamba kwesikhathi kungaba indlela enhle yokuqondisa ingane enenkinga yokunamathisela. Uma kunjalo, cabangela isikhathi.
Isikhathi sokungena. Kuyafana nokuphuma kwesikhathi, kepha ingane ibambelela ohlangothini lomdala omnakekeli ngenombolo ehleliwe yamaminithi. Ingane yenza konke umuntu omdala akwenzayo. Uma umzali egeza izitsha, ingane imile eduze komzali. Cabanga nje ngale ndlela yokuziphatha uma umzali engagxilile ngokweqile. Umzali akufanele akhethe isikhathi lapho ingane isivele isebenza ekugcineni kwesikhumba somzali.
Bheka ochwepheshe. Ezinye izinkinga zokuziphatha zingase zibe mkhulu kakhulu ukuba umzali aziphathe ngokwazo. Cabanga ukusetha amaseshini onke amasonto ukuze umhlengikazi asebenze nengane noma umelaphi angase akhombise izikhathi zomndeni. Udokotela angasiza ingane ukuba iqhubeke isebenze ngengozi eyedlule ukusiza ukunciphisa izinkinga zokuziphatha.
Khuluma nengane mayelana nemizwa yabo. Enye yezindlela ezilula zokusebenza ngokuziphatha kwengane kungase kube ukukhuluma nengane mayelana nemizwa yabo. Siza ingane ukuba iqonde ukuthi kungani ikwenza. Ingane ikhala ngesidlo sasekuseni, izitsha zokusanhlamvu zingase zizwe intukuthelo. Umntwana osikhiphayo angase abe nomuzwa odabukisayo. Kubonakala kunengqondo futhi kulula kithi, kodwa izingane eziningi ezihlukumezekile zingasuswa emimoyeni yabo futhi zingakwazi ukukwazi ngokugcwele ukuthi zizwa kanjani noma kungani. Siza ukwabela imizwa ngezingxoxo. Indlela enhle yokwenza lokhu iwuhlelo lwe-4 Whats.
Ukuthola amalungelo nokulahlekelwa amalungelo. Enye indlela yokufundisa elula ukusiza izingane zibone ukuthi zikwazi kanjani ukuthola amalungelo ngokukhetha okulungile futhi zilahlekelwe amalungelo ngokukhetha okungalungile. Yindlela izwe elisebenza ngayo isikhathi esiningi; qhathanisa umsebenzi nokuthola imali yokukhokha kanye nokweba kanye nokuthola isikhathi sejele kanye nokulahlekelwa inkululeko. Ukuthola noma ukulahlekelwa amalungelo kungase kube ukuzuza noma ukulahlekelwa into ebalulekile noma ithuba noma ilungelo.
Imihlangano yomndeni wamasonto onke. Ukuhlangana ndawonye njengomndeni ukuxoxa ngezihloko ezihlukahlukene kungaba yindlela ephumelelayo kakhulu yokubhekana nokuziphatha okunzima. Khumbula ukuthi ungavumeli umhlangano ukuba uphume ekulawuleni. Thola izindlela ezimnandi zokuvumela wonke umuntu ithuba lokukhuluma. Zama ukuhlala uhle nezingane. Ungavumeli umhlangano ube yindlela yabanye abantwana ekhaya ukuhlasela umuntu oyedwa. Sisebenzisa umhlangano womndeni lapho izingane ezintsha ziqala ukungena ekhaya, kodwa nathi sithanda ukugcina imihlangano yomndeni masonto onke. Nazi iziqondiso zendlela ongakwenza ngayo imihlangano yomndeni wamasonto onke ekhaya lakho.
Ukuziphatha kwengane yomdwebo. Ngaziswa ngokubaluleka kumashadi okuziphatha ngenkathi ngisebenza ekhaya. Asihlolanga kuphela ukuziphatha okudingekayo ukuthi izingane ziqhubeke nokusebenza, kodwa futhi nezindlela zokuziphatha izingane ezivele ziphumelele. Lokhu kwavumela izingane ukuba zithole impumelelo nsuku zonke. Amashadi ezenzo zokuziphatha asiza umnakekeli nengane ukuthi abone ukuthi baqhubeka kanjani nokuziphatha okuhlosiwe, njengokuncintisana, ukungenzi umsebenzi wesikole, ukuphikisana, nokuningi. Kungasiza futhi ekusizeni abasebenzi bezenhlalakahle nabazali bokuzalwa ukuthi babone ukuthi ingane ikwenza kanjani ekhaya.
Hlanganisa amasu wokuziphatha kwengane. Kungaba lula kakhulu ukuhlanganisa amasu uma usebenza nezingane. Ishadi lokuziphatha lingashintsha kalula ukuthi libe umnotho wezinkinobho ezinamathekisthi kanye nengane, bese-ke izuza amalungelo asekelwe eshadini.
Ukusebenza nokuziphatha kungenye yezindlela zokukhulisa izingane noma zokubeletha ezingavamile kakhulu, kodwa mhlawumbe esinye seziqephu ezibaluleke kakhulu zokusiza izingane nemindeni babuyele endleleni. Uma singasiza izingane zikwazi ukuphatha lezi zindlela zokuziphatha nokuqonda ukuthi kungani zenza izinto ezizenzayo, ziqonde imizwa yazo, futhi zinqobe ukubhekana nokuhlukumezeka kokukhubazeka noma amakhono okuphila, sibasiza ukuba kube ngolunye usuku izakhamuzi ezakhayo.