Ukuvumela ingane endala ukuba ihlale ekhaya ngenkathi uhamba ngokushesha noma ngisho nehora noma amabili emva kwesikole uze ufike ekhaya uvela emsebenzini uvame ukwedlula imali futhi isebenze kunokuzama ukuthola ukunakekelwa kwezingane. Ngomthetho ofanelekile kanye nezinga lokuvuthwa, ilungiselelo lekhaya elilodwa lingasebenza. Kodwa-ke, kunezinqwaba zokuphepha nokuziphatha okumele zigweme.
Iyiphi Iminyaka Ebhekwa Kuphephile?
Isikhathi lapho ingane ingase ishiywe khona ekhaya ngokwayo ihlukahluka kusuka kumbuso kuya kwesifundazwe noma kungenzeka ingacacisiwe indawo yakho.
I-KidsHealth.org ithi akusilo umqondo omuhle ukushiya izingane ezingaphansi kuka-10 ekhaya kuphela. Kodwa iminyaka lapho ingane ikulungele khona iyohluka, ngisho nakubantakwethu. Ngolunye uhlu olungapheli lokukhathazeka kokuphepha, abazali abaningi nabanakekeli abanokuziphendulela bayakuphikisa ngokuqinile ukuthi izingane akufanele zishiye ekhaya zodwa. Nakuba iseluleko esinengqondo, kungase kungabi njalo ngaso sonke isikhathi.
Imindeni eminingi ivumela izingane zabo zakudala ezineminyaka eyisithupha noma eziphakathi kwekhaya ukuba zihlale ekhaya kuphela ngemva kwesikole. Kodwa ochwepheshe bezingane baxwayisa ngokuthi "izingane ze-latchkey" yizo ezikwazi ukungena enkingeni lapho ikhaya lodwa, njengoba kunamathuba okuqala ukuxhumana okungalungile ku-inthanethi, bukela ithelevishini kubonisa ukuthi ngeke uvumele, uhlole izidakamizwa noma utshwala, noma ngisho ukuzibeka ngendlela engalimazi nabantu abangabazi.
Ikhaya elilodwa lezingane eziphakathi kwesikole
Uma ukhetha ukuvumela ingane yakho ukuba ihlale ekhaya yedwa, izazi zincoma ukuthi izingane ezingena esikoleni esiphakathi cishe zingasithatha kahle umthwalo wemfanelo.
Uma uhlela ukuqala ukuvumela ingane yakho ukuba ihlale ekhaya yedwa ngemva kwesikole, wethula ilungiselelo njengendlela yokuqapha, lapho uvumela kancane kancane amathuba okwandisa ingane yakho ukubonisa ukulungele.
Isibonelo, ungase uzame ukugijima okusheshayo noma ukuya esitolo bese ucela ingane yakho ukuthi ihlole nawe njalo imizuzu engu-15 ngocingo.
Ukwazi ukuthi ingane yakho ingakushiyela ngokuphepha futhi ngokunembile isinyathelo sokuqala esifundeni esifanele. Ukusuka lapho, ungakwazi kancane kancane ukwandise isikhathi sekhaya wedwa kuze kube yilapho bobabili nikhululekile nesimo.
Uhlu Lokuhlola kanye Nemithetho Yokuphepha
Yakha uhlu lokuhlola olubhalwe phansi lwemithetho yokuphepha nemigomo ingane yakho okufanele ilandele. Isibonelo, shayela umzuzu lapho efika ekhaya, hlola ukuthi iminyango ivaliwe, ungaphenduli ucingo ngaphandle kokuthi ilungu lomzali noma ilungu lomndeni elivunyelwe, akukho khompiyutha engaqinisekisiwe, futhi uqedele yonke imisebenzi yesikole).
Qinisekisa ukuthi ingane yakho iyaqonda imithetho futhi ivumelana nabo. Okubaluleke kakhulu akuvumeli ingane yakho ukuba iphendule umnyango, idlale ngaphandle egcekeni langaphambili, noma utshele noma ubani (ngomuntu noma ku-intanethi) ukuthi uyedwa yedwa.
Uzophinde ufune ukusungula imithetho ethile mayelana nokudla. Uzozizwa uvikelekile kakhulu uma ungavumeli ingane yakho ukuba ipheke noma yikuphi ukudla ngaphandle kwe-microwave. Awufuni ukukhathazeka ngemililo yokupheka yengozi noma ama-burner asele kuso. Qinisekisa ukuthi ingane yakho iyazi izinyathelo ezithatha uma kwenzeka umlilo noma olunye oluphuthumayo.
Inkinga Yokuziphatha Ingathuthuka
Abazali kufanele bazi ukuthi isiteleka esibhekene naso ekhaya singadukisa. Loluhlelo luhamba kahle ngoba bobabili umzali nengane bafuna kube yimpumelelo.
Ingozi ifika lapho ingane ikhululekile ngokuba yedwa ekhaya futhi iqala ukufuna ukuzimela okukhulu nakakhulu. Ukuzibamba kungabangela isilingo sokuba nomngane, uphume ngaphandle egcekeni langaphambili, noma uthathe ukuhamba ngokushesha. Yilapho lapho kungenzeka khona ingozi noma inkathazo.
I-kati kanye neminyaka yokuqala yentsha yilapho abazali abaningi bevuma ukuvumela ingane ukuba ihlale ekhaya yedwa. Kodwa-ke, ukukhula kuyaphinde kufinyelele esithombeni futhi isifiso sokuhlola imithetho nokuphikisana negunya. Ngenxa yezingozi ezikhulayo, izikole eziningi kanye nezinhlelo zokuzijabulisa zedolobhana zinezinto ezenziwa ngemuva kwesikole (okungenani ngezindleko ezincane kakhulu noma ngisho namahhala) ukugwema phakathi / abasha ukuya ekhaya ukuya endlini engenalutho.
Ukuqapha ukuhlelwa
Uma ukhetha ukuvumela ingane yakho ukuba ihlale ekhaya yedwa, kuzodingeka uqaphe ekuhloleni ukuthi imithetho ilandelwa ngenkathi usukho. Izingane zivame ukufakazela ukuthi abazali abasebenza bagxilile futhi bakhathele futhi abaqapheli ukuhlola imininingwane.
Okokugcina, zama ukuthola umakhelwane owazi ukuthi ingane yakho iyoba yedwa yedwa. Mcele ukuthi agcine iso elihlakaniphile ekhaya lakho (nezingane zakho) futhi akubize uma kukhona ukuziphatha okungafuneki noma izenzo eziphawulweyo.
> Imithombo:
> Ikhaya Lodwa Izingane. I-American Academy of Child & Psychiatry. http://www.aacap.org/aacap/Families_and_Youth/Facts_for_Families/Facts_for_Families_Pages/Home_Alone_Children_46.aspx.
> Ukushiya Ikhaya Lakho Lwodwa Lodwa. KidsHealth kusuka Nemours. http://kidshealth.org/en/parents/home-alone.html