Kuyini i-Twin Talk?
Enye yezinganekwane ezithandwayo ngokuphindaphindiwe ukuthi bahlanganyela ulimi oluyimfihlo, uhlobo lokuxhumana olwaziwa kuphela. Imibandela efana ne-idioglossia, ulimi oluzimelayo noma i-cryptophasia ichaza isimo sezinhlangothi ezimbili, umqondo othakazelisayo oye wabajabulisa abacwaningi nabazali ngokufanayo. Kodwa-ke, empeleni kunqabile kakhulu ngamawele ukuthuthukisa "ulimi" lweqiniso, futhi ngokuvamile kuvame kuphela lapho kuhlukaniswa ngokweqile.
Kuyini i-Twin Talk?
Esikhundleni salokho, lesi senzakalo empeleni sibangelwa amawele amancane alinganisa imizamo yomunye nomunye ngolimi, ngokuvamile engalungile. Zonke izingane zikhuluma izandi ezingafani; kuyindlela yabo yokwenza umsebenzi owaziwayo nokwenza uxhumano ebuchosheni babo obuholela ekuthuthukiseni ulimi. Kodwa-ke, amawele anganika ukubonakala ukuthi empeleni baqondana ukuzwakala komunye nomunye ... ngakho-ke umbono wokuthi bahlanganyela "ulimi oluyimfihlo". Njengoba bekhula futhi bephinda ukukhulumisana komunye nomunye, kungase kubonakale sengathi bakhuluma ngolimi oluyimfihlo, kuyilapho bevele bekhuluma kabi imisindo namagama. Cishe ngamaphesenti angu-40 amawele, ngokuvamile ama-monozygotic noma amawele afana nawo, azokwakha uhlobo oluthile lokukhuluma ngokuzimela, besebenzisa amagama, izigama, izifinyezo noma amagama asetshenziswa kuphela. Nakuba abazali kanye nabantwana bakini bevame ukuqonda incazelo, amawele ngokuvamile awasebenzisi amagama nabanye.
Ukuthuthukiswa kolimi ngamawele noma ngokuphindaphindiwe kuvame ukulibaziseka noma kuhluke kontanga. Olunye ucwaningo lubonisa ukuthi amawele, ikakhulukazi abafana, angase agweme izinyanga ngemuva kokukwazi ukuzwakalisa ngamazwi. Kunezici eziningi ezibangela ukulibaziseka kwenkulumo . Izingane zifunda ulimi kulabo abanakekeli, ikakhulukazi abazali.
Abazali beziphindaphindiwe, abavame ukukhathala futhi bagcizelelwe yizinselele zokunakekela izingane ezimbili noma ngaphezulu, zingase zingabandakanyi kahle izingane zabo. Amawele amancane ahlangana ndawonye ngaso sonke isikhathi, futhi njengababili abantu ababili abachitha isikhathi esiningi ndawonye, bafunda ukuthembela ezinhlotsheni zokuxhumana ezingekho emthethweni noma ezincane. Bakwazi ukwenza ngendlela yokuzijabulisa, ukuqonda ukuthintana komunye nomunye, izigunci noma amagama. Bazama ukulinganisa imizamo yomunye nomunye ekukhulumeni okukhulumayo, njalo baqinisa ukubiza okungalungile. Amawele ajwayele ukukhuluma ngokushesha futhi angase afinyelele amagama abo noma ashiye ama-consonants njengoba ebiza amagama, mhlawumbe emzamweni wokuncintisana ukukhuluma ngama-pair abo futhi abambe kuqala ukunakekelwa komzali wabo kuqala. Okokugcina, ezinye ukulibaziseka kungabangela imiphumela engqondweni noma engokomzimba yokuzalwa ngaphambi kwesikhathi .
Ezimweni eziningi, ukuphindaphindwa kuzobambelela othandweni babo bezingoma ngesikhathi beqala isikole. Kodwa kwabanye, izinkinga zokukhuluma zingabangela ubunzima kubantwana abathile eminyakeni edlule, ikakhulukazi ekufundeni noma isipelingi. Kwezinye izimo, ukungenelela kokuqala noma ukukhuluma ngezinkulumo kungasiza ekubhekaneni nezidingo ezikhethekile.
Amacebiso kubazali bamawele
Nakuba kuhle noma okuthakazelisayo, abazali beziphindaphindiwe kufanele bakhuthaze inkulumo efanele ngokukhulumisana ngamawele.
Nazi ezinye izicebiso:
- Khuluma, khuluma, khuluma! Khulumisana nezingane zakho, unike ingane ngayinye isikhathi esinengi isikhathi esisodwa.
- Nikeza inqwaba yokuchayeka kwezinye izingane, ikakhulukazi izingane ezindala, esikhundleni sokuba namawele amancane adlale ndawonye kuphela.
- Funda kubo. Izinzuzo zokufunda ezinganeni ziningi.
- Khuthaza izimpendulo zakho ukuze zizwakalise ulimi. Ungazivumeli izicelo ezivezwe izigxobo noma ezihlabayo uma zikwazi ukwenza izicelo usebenzisa amagama.
- Ungavumeli amawele amabili abe okhulumela omunye, Khuthaza ingane ngayinye ukuba ikhulume ngokwazo.
- Buza imibuzo ukubandakanya amawele akho engxoxweni. Njengoba bekhula, sebenzisa imibuzo evulekile ukuze ukhulume ngengxoxo.
- Ungaphazamise ingane yakho ukwenza izilungiso ngenkathi ekhuluma. Kunalokho, bavumele baqede, bese usho amagama ngokufanele ngokuphindaphinda kubo.