Ukusizwa kwamaMama angabodwa

Ukuzali ngokwakho akulula. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uqale nje kulolu hambo noma uke waba ngumzali womzali okwesikhashana manje, kuzoba nezikhathi ezinzima uma udinga umthamo owengeziwe wosizo nokusekelwa. Uma lezo zikhathi zifika, kubalulekile ukwazi ukuthi ungaphila usizo lwezezimali olusekelwe ezidingweni. Nazi imithombo engu-7 yosizo lwamamama abangashadile, kuhlanganise nosizo lukahulumeni.

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Ukusekelwa kwabantwana

Ake sibhekane nakho. Ngeke ucabange ngokushesha ngokusekelwa kwengane njengomthombo wokusiza omama abangashadile. Ngokuvamile, izinkokhelo azihambisani noma azifiki. Kodwa yilapho lokhu kungumthombo obalulekile wosizo okumele ucabange ngawo: kufanele ufeze ukusekelwa kwengane ngaphambi kokuba uhulumeni ahlole ukuthi ufanelekile yini eminye imithombo yocingo kumama abangashadile. Kulungile. Benza ukuthi uhambe ngezinyathelo, noma ngabe i-ex yakho ayikwazi ukutholakala noma ayikho esimweni sokusiza ngokwezezimali. Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi uhulumeni ufuna i-ex yakho ukuba inikele ngemali ngaphambi kokuba izinyathelo zikahulumeni zingene futhi iqoqe ukuhlehlisa. Ngakho-ke uma ucabanga ukufaka isicelo sosizo lomphakathi, kuzodingeka ufeze ukusekelwa kwengane kuqala noma ngesikhathi esifanayo.

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Abangane nomndeni

Uma unesidingo sosizo, ungabali abantu abakuzungezile. Kungenzeka ukuthi, abangane bakho nomndeni bakho bafuna ukukubona uphumelele futhi bezimisele ukusiza ngandlela-thile. Lokhu kungase kukusize ukuthi uzuze ukubuyiswa kwemali okwesikhashana njengokuthi ukhokhele ukulungiswa kwemoto noma ekhaya kungalindelekile noma ngokusiza ukunakekelwa kwezingane zakho ngenkathi uqala umsebenzi wesibili noma unciphise ekunakekeleni kwezingane. Futhi uma u-co-parenting ne-ex wakho, khumbula ukuthi bangangena futhi banikeze ukunakekelwa okwengeziwe kwezingane ngenkathi usebenza amahora ambalwa engeziwe.

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Izinhlangano zomphakathi

Amasonto asendaweni, izinhlangano zenkolo, nezinhlangano zomphakathi zingase futhi zikwazi ukunikeza usizo lwesikhashana noma zikukhomba ezinsizeni ezengeziwe endaweni yakini. Ezimweni eziningi, akudingeki ube yilungu lenhlangano ethile ukuthola usizo lwazo.

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Amathanga Wokudla

Enye imithombo yocingo yindawo yakho yokudlela yasendaweni yokudla. Lezi zibizwa nangokuthi 'amabhange okudla.' Basebenza ngokunikeza iziqu ezifana ne-pasta, ilayisi, imifino enamathanga, kanye nezinye izinto zangasese. Ezimweni eziningi, amabhange ezokudla anqunyelwe ezintweni ezingenakonakala, kodwa ezinye zihlinzeka nobisi namaqanda. Futhi nxazonke zamaholide, zingase zinikeze ama-turkeys afriziwe noma ama-hams. Okuhle kakhulu, bangakwazi ukukusiza ngisho noma usutshelwe ukuthi 'uhola okuningi' ukuze ufanelekele usizo lukahulumeni. Ama-pantry yokudla nawo avame ukuba nezinsiza ezixhunyiwe kahle, ngakho-ke angakwazi ukukhomba eminye imithombo yocansi kumama angashadile endaweni yakini.

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I-TANF

I-TANF imelela Usizo lwesikhashana lweMindeni Ehluphekayo. Lona uhlelo olwalwaziwa ngokuthi 'inhlalakahle.' Ngenye yezinhlobo ezivame kakhulu zokusekelwa kukahulumeni kwabomama abangashadile. Kodwa-ke, uhulumeni ushintshe imithetho yokufaneleka ukucela abahlanganyeli ukuba basebenze isikhathi esithile noma bakhombise ukuthi ufuna umsebenzi. Ngisho noma ngabe usuhlelelwe i-TANF ngaphambilini, kungase kube umbono omuhle wokusebenzisa futhi.

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I-WIC

Phakathi kwezinzuzo zomama ongashadile, u-WIC-omelela Abesifazane, Izinsana, Nezingane-ungomunye wezikhulu kakhulu. Luhlelo lokudla okunomsoco lwabesifazane abakhulelwe njengamanje, abahlengikazi, noma abakhulisa abantwana abangaphansi kweminyaka emihlanu. Uma uhlangabezana neziqu eziyisisekelo, kufanelekile ukufaka isicelo se-WIC ukuthola ukuthi uhlangabezana neziqu ezidingekile zohlelo, futhi .

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Shayela u-2-1-1

Ngaphandle kwalezi zinhlelo, kunemithombo eminingi yendawo yocingo lwamamama angashadile angase angaziwa kabanzi. Ukuze uthole ukufinyelela kulawa, zama ukubiza isiteshi se-2-1-1 sendawo yombuso wakho wendawo. Mane uchaze opharetha ukuthi uluhlobo luni lusizo oludingayo nokuthi yini, uma ikhona, usizo olusamukelile kakade. Bese bangakutshela eziningana zezinhlelo endaweni yakho, kusukela kumakilasi okubeletha kanye nezinhlelo zokufunda ngezezimali ukuze kwenzeke izenzakalo zikaMama 'Day Out' esifundazweni sakho.