Lapho Uzobheka khona, Imibuzo Yokucabangela, nokuthi Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi Uzothola Umnikezeli
Udokotela wakho uye wakhuthaza ama- egg donor IVF , futhi unqume ukuphishekela le ndlela eya kubazali. Kodwa uzotholaphi i-egg donor? Ukwenza kanjani isinqumo?
Izindaba ezinhle ukuthi akudingeki ukuba uzibonele wena ngokwakho. Udokotela wakho wokubeletha kanye nomeluleki ojwayele ukwelashwa kwe-donor yokuzala kufanele akusize usebenze ngezinketho zakho.
Ngingayitholaphi i-Egg Donor?
Nansi imithombo evame kakhulu yokuthola i-egg donor. Ungabheka eyodwa kuphela, noma ucabange amaningana ngaphambi kokukhetha ukhetho oluhambisana nomndeni wakho.
Umtholampilo wakho wokuzala : umtholampilo ohlinzeka ngemithi yakho ye-IVF ingaba nedatha yabaxhasi ngokwabo.
Ezinye imitholampilo zizosebenza kuphela ne-egg donor seziyingxenye yohlelo lwabo, futhi ngeke zivumele iziguli ukuba zisebenzise i-ejensi.
Uma usebenzisa i-egg donor ehlobene nomtholampilo wakho, ungakhokha kancane kancane kunokuba ungene ejensi. Noma kunjalo i-pool yakho yabaxhasi abazoyikhetha kuyo ingalinganiselwe.
I-ejenti yokunikezela amaqanda : Kunezinhlobo zama-ejensi okuphela kwebhizinisi okuthola abaxhasi abangabakhona futhi abaxhuma kubazali abahlosiwe.
I-ejensi ingase ibe yindleko kunokuba idlule emtholampilo wakho, kodwa i-pool yakho yabaxhasi kungenzeka ibe enkulu kakhulu. Bangase bakwazi ukukusiza ukuthola umuntu onemikhuba ethile.
Ibhange leqanda : Ngokusha okusha endaweni yesehlakalo seqanda, ibhange leqanda linganikeza inketho engabizi kangako kwi-egg donor IVF.
Ngebhange leqanda, umnikeli usuvele uhambile umjikelezo wokunikela, futhi amaqanda akhe aye agwetshiwe.
Ibhange leqanda yindlela engabizi kakhulu ngomjikelezo wezokwelapha (ngaphandle kokusebenzisa umuntu owaziyo uqobo).
Kodwa-ke, amaqanda abuyiselwa futhi agwetshiwe ngaphambi kwesikhathi somjikelezo wakho. Lokhu kungase kungathinte noma kungathinteki izinkinga zakho zokuphumelela.
Futhi, ikhwalithi lebhange leqanda namaqanda aqhwaqwe luyahlukahluka kakhulu. Njengamanje, amabhange amaqanda awadingeki ukuba ashicilele amazinga okuphumelela.
Omunye umbhangqwana ongenalutho (I-IVF Egg Sharing) : Kungenzeka futhi ukuba nomunye umbhangqwana ongenalutho abe ngumnikelo wamaqanda.
Kulolu cala, kungaba omunye umbhangqwana emtholampilo owodwa wokuzala ohamba nge-IVF, kodwa engaziwa izici zokukhiqiza i-ovarian.
Umbhangqwana ongenalutho onika amaqanda awo ungathola isaphulelo esincane kumjikelezo wabo we-IVF ngokuthi "ukwabelana ngeqanda" nomunye umbhangqwana.
Izinga lempumelelo lizohluka, futhi kungenzeka ukuthi ngeke kube namaqanda okwanele womjikelezo we-IVF womnikeli nombhangqwana abadinga amaqanda abanikeli. Uma lokho kwenzeka, umnikeli uqala kuqala kumaqanda atholakalayo.
Ingabe Umngane wami / Uhlobo Lwakho Ungayinikeza Amaqanda Akhe?
Umngane noma isihlobo anganikela amaqanda ayo, uma edlula ukuhlolwa kwengqondo nokwelashwa okudingekayo kuwo wonke ama-egg donors.
Inzuzo yokuba nelungu lomndeni linikeza amaqanda ayo ukuthi ingane izobe isenalo uxhumano lwezakhi zofuzo kumama, ngisho nangaphandle ngqo. (Ngokuqinisekile umnikeli angabuka emndenini womlingani wesilisa, kodwa amalungu amaningi omndeni azongeniswa ngokuzenzakalelayo ngenxa yengozi yezofuzo nezinkinga zokuziphatha.)
Futhi, uma ilungu lomndeni noma umngane lingumnikelo weqanda, bangahlala bexhumana nengane. Babengeke babe "umzali" womthetho noma wamasiko, kepha bangaba nobuhlobo.
Kodwa-ke, kunamathuba amabi kakhulu okusebenzisa umuntu owaziyo njengomnikeli.
- Izinkinga zomthetho ezingenzeka, ikakhulukazi uma umnikeli enquma ukuphikisa ukuthi ngubani "umzali wangempela" noma uma umbhangqwana ohlosiwe uhlukaniswa
- Imiphumela yengqondo, ikakhulukazi uma izinqumo ezivame ukuya kubazali zithinteka izifiso zabanikeli
- Ukucindezeleka ngokomzwelo, kufaka phakathi imizwa yokufutheka, umhawu, ukudabuka, noma ngisho nokudabuka (uma umjikelezo uhluleka)
- Umnikeli angeke abe yisinqumo esihle kakhulu ngokuphumelela kwe-IVF, uma kuqhathaniswa nomnikeli ohlolwe umtholampilo noma i-ejenti
Okunye okubalulekile ukwazi ukuthi umndeni noma umngane akavumi ukuthola i-honorarium yomnikelo. Leyo mali iphuma kumuntu ongenasifo noma umbhangqwana hhayi emtholampilo. (Yingakho i-egg donor IVF ne-donor eyaziwayo engabizi kakhulu-akudingeki ukhokhe umnikezeli isikhathi nenkathazo yokunikela.)
Ngaphambi kokuba umngane noma ilungu lomndeni livume ukuthi lihlolwe njengomuntu onganikela, kufanele bazi nokuthi yini ehilelekile ngaphambi kokuba bazinikele enkambisweni.
Kuthiwani Ngokubeka Isikhangiso Somuntu Somuntu We-Egg Donor?
Ezinye imibhangqwana inquma ukuthola i-egg donor ngokubeka noma ukuphendula izikhangiso zomuntu siqu . Qaphela ukuthi lokhu kungaba yingozi. Kukhona abakwa-scammers ngaphandle lapho befuna ukukhohlisa abazali abahlosiwe. (Kukhona nabakwa-scammers abafuna ukukhohlisa abaxhasi bamaqanda abanikezelayo.)
Kunezimo ezithile lapho ukufuna i-egg donor ngezikhangiso zomuntu kuyindlela engcono kakhulu. Mhlawumbe ufuna othile othize: Isiqu se-Jewish-Asian Harvard.
Uma uzozama umzila wesikhangiso somuntu siqu, qhubeka uqaphele. Cabanga ukuthi kungcono yini ukuqasha i-ejensi ukuthola isicelo sakho esithile, kunokubheka ngokwakho.
Yiziphi izidingo okufanele ngizicabange uma ngikhetha i-Egg Donor?
Ukunquma ukuthi yiliphi iqhaza lomklamo ozolikhethela inqubo yomuntu siqu nangesinye isikhathi ngokomzwelo. Iseluleko esivame ukunikezwa kakhulu ukukhetha i-egg donor enephrofayli efana nomuntu ongathanda ukuba umngane naye.
Kodwa ingabe i-egg donor ezwakala sengathi umngane ophelele uhola ingane efana nomnikeli?
Lokhu akunakwenzeka ukusho. Ihlela phansi ekuphikisweni kwemvelo ngokumelene nokukhulisa.
Ukukhetha i-egg donor onomphumela ophelele we-SAT futhi ophothule phezulu kweklasi lakhe eHarvard akusho ukuthi ingane yakho enikelwe ngabanikeli izolandela indlela efanayo. Lutho neze.
Ezinye izinto abazali abangakwazi ukuzicabangela zihlanganisa:
- impilo yonke kanye nokuphila komnikeli
- ukubukeka ngokomzimba
- ukubonakala ngokomzimba okufanayo kumama ohlosiwe
- izibalo zobungcweti (izikolo ze-IQ, izikolo ze-SAT, ikolishi eya khona, njll)
- ukugijima
- ukuhlanganyela ngokwenkolo (ikakhulukazi uma abazali abahlosiwe bengamaJuda)
- izinkomba zobuntu nezokuzilibazisa ezinikezwe kuphrofayili yokunikela
Yiziphi izinto ezibaluleke kakhulu kuwe? Ayikho impendulo engalungile noma eyiyo ngempela.
Lesi yisihloko esihle sokuxoxa nomeluleki ojwayele ukubhekana ne-IVF nezindaba zokuzala.
Ingabe Sizohlangana Ne-Egg Donor Yethu?
Ngaphandle kokuthi usebenzisa umngane noma ilunga lomndeni, akunakwenzeka. Kodwa hhayi ngokuphelele umbuzo.
Ezinye imitholampilo kanye ne-ejensi zinikeza izinkontileka zabanikeli "abaziwayo" noma "abaziwayo".
Kulezi zimo, ungase uhlangabezane nomnikeli ngaphambi komjikelezo wakho. Kungenzeka futhi ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi ube nobuhlobo obunjalo obuqhubekayo ngemuva kokuba ingane ekhulelwe ingane izalwa. Lobuhlobo bungase kube ngokuxhumana okulotshiwe noma kungabandakanya ukuxhuma ubuso nobuso.
Ezinye izinkontileka ezinikwa abaxhasi abazivumelayo zivumela ingane ekhulunywe ngabanikeli ukuba ixhumane nabaxhasi babo esikhathini esizayo, uma ifuna. Lokhu akusho ukuthi abaxhasi nabazali abahlosiwe bazohlangana noma baxhumane nenye indlela.
Kungani ukhetha umnikeli owaziwayo?
Kamuva empilweni, izingane ezingabanikazi abazithandayo (kanye nabazali bazo) zifisa ukuthi zazi okwengeziwe ngomnikeli owabasiza ekuletheleni kuleli zwe. Inkontileka ye-donor eyaziwayo ivumela uhlobo oluthile lokuxhumana.
I-side-note ebalulekile: ngenxa yokushintsha imithetho nezinhlangano ezizimele ezihlose ukuxhuma abanikeli ngenzalo yabo, kungenzeka nokuthi wena noma ingane yakho ungagcina ukuhlangana noma ukuzwa okuvela kumnikezi esikhathini esizayo ngisho noma ekuqaleni uzimisele ukusebenzisa i-donor "engaziwa".
Isibonelo, i-Donor Sibling Registry isiza ukuxhuma inzalo kubanikazi babo bezakhi zofuzo ngisho nakumnikeli. Lokhu kungenzeka kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kunini isivumelwano esasayinwe.
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