Izimpi zokuzikhethela ngokuvamile ziba inselelo kubo bonke abathintekayo abathintekayo. Kodwa-ke, uma ubaba ezama ukuwunakekela ingane, ungase uzibuze ukuthi ubulili bakho buyakuthinta kanjani icala lakho, ikakhulukazi uma umkhuba omama odlule ubonakala unenzuzo elinganiselwe ezinkantolo zomndeni kulo lonke izwe. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ubaba ongayedwa oya enkantolo okokuqala, noma ucela umyalelo wokugcina ingane okhona, uzofuna ukuthwala okulandelayo engqondweni.
Zifundise Ngezinhlobo Zezimpahla Zengane
Noma yimuphi ubaba ofuna ukuphishekela ukugcinwa kwengane yakhe kufanele aqale ngokuqonda umehluko phakathi kokugcinwa okugciniwe nokugcinwa okuhlanganyelwe. Le migomo ingaba yinkimbinkimbi ngoba ngokuvamile kunezinhlobo ezimbili zesitokisi okudingeka zizinqunywe: ukugcinwa ngokomzimba nokugcinwa komthetho. Ukugcina ngokugcwele kuvumela ukuba umzali oyedwa abe nokugcinwa kwengane ngokomthetho nangokwenyama, kanti ukugcinwa okuhlangene kuvumela bobabili amaqembu ukuba babelane ngengane yomzimba kanye / noma yomthetho. Ngokuvamile, izinkantolo zikhetha ukuthi bobabili abazali bahlanganyele ngokugcinwa kwengane ngokomzimba nangokomthetho, uma kunokwenzeka. Kodwa-ke, kungenzeka ukuthi abazali bahlanganyele ngokugcinwa komthetho kodwa hhayi ukugcinwa ngokomzimba. Ezimweni ezinjalo, kuvamile ukuthi umzali ongekho ukuphepha ukuba ahambele ngokukhululekile ingane.
Yiziphi Obaba Abadinga Ukuzifunda Ngomkhuba Wezingane Nokucwaswa
Nakuba le nkinga ivame ukuphikiswa, izinkantolo eziningi ngeke zibandlululise ubaba ngesikhathi sokuphikisana kwengane.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, izinkantolo zomndeni ngeke zibandlulula ngenxa yobuhlanga, ubulili, noma ubulili. Ngakho-ke, ngokusobala, ubaba ophilayo kufanele abe nethuba elilinganayo nomama uma kuziwa ekugcinweni kwengane, ecabanga ukuthi usemise ingane. Awuqiniseki ukuthi ngabe udinga ukucacisa ngokusemthethweni ukuthi ungumzali?
Hlola imithetho kuhulumeni wakho. Ezindaweni eziningi, kubonakala sengathi abazali babengashadile ngesikhathi sokuzalwa komntwana noma ukukhulelwe. Uma udinga ukusungula ubaba, noma umzali angayenza leyo nqubo ngokuxhumana neHhovisi lasekhaya leNkxaso Yengane. Gcina engqondweni ukuthi uhulumeni uzoqala futhi ukuhleleka kwezingane uma ungenayo eyodwa endaweni kakade.
Izinto ezicatshangelwe
Njengoba uqhubeka nale nqubo, uzophinde ufune ukuqonda okucatshangwa yinkantolo ngaphambi kokuya enkantolo eqhubekayo yokugcinwa kwenkantolo yengane. Ngenkathi kunezinhlobo ezithile ezivela embusweni kuya kuhulumeni, izinkantolo zomndeni ngokuvamile zibheke lezi zinto ezilandelayo:
- Ubuhlobo bomzali ngamunye nengane
- Izifiso zomntwana (kuye ngokuthi uneminyaka yakhe)
- Okuthandayo kakhulu ingane
- Ikhono lomzali ngamunye lokusekela ingane
- I-Paternity
- Izinsiza zezimali zomzali ngamunye
Ukuthola Usizo Oluvela ku-Federal Parent Locator Service (FPLS)
Uma ungazi ukuthi ingane yakho iphi, ungacela usizo ku-Federal Parent Locator Service (FPLS). I-FPLS ingasesha ulwazi lwazo oluyimfihlo oluphathelene nokuphika kwengane nomama wengane.
Ukwaziswa okuyimfihlo kufaka phakathi ikheli lokugcina lomama kanye negama nekheli lomqashi wamanje noma ogcina owaziwayo.
Amathiphu engeziwe mayelana nobaba abafuna i-Child Custody
Akukaze kube umqondo omuhle kubazali ukuphikisana, ikakhulukazi phambi kwezingane zabo. Esikhundleni salokho, kufanele wenze konke okusemandleni ukuxhumana nomuntu wakho mayelana nanoma yiziphi izithiyo ezikuvimbela ukuba ufinyelele isivumelwano esingahlelekile sokugcinwa kwengane. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kuyoba inzuzo yakho ukuthi uhlale ucabangela ukukhathazeka okungcono kwengane yakho. Ukuze uthole ulwazi oluthe xaxa mayelana nokugcinwa kobaba, funda imihlahlandlela yokugcinwa kwengane yakho noma ukhulume nommeli oqeqeshiwe endaweni yakini.