Ukubeka izikhathi ezingezansi zokuxoxisana nokucwaninga ulwazi olungasiza
Abazali abanezingane ezinamakhono bayazi ukuthi lezingane zithanda ukubuza imibuzo eminingi. Ziyamangaza kakhulu futhi azibonakali ukuthola ulwazi olwanele. Omunye wamagama abo abathandayo kakhulu "Kungani." Kungenye yeyodwa yemibuzo ayithandayo.
Ngesinye isikhathi nje kuyadinwa futhi kuphazamise ukuqhubeka nokuphendula imibuzo engapheli ngokuthi "kungani". Futhi ngezinye izikhathi, asikwazi nje izimpendulo zaleyo mibuzo!
Ngenhlanhla, abazali bangasebenzisa amasu athile ukuze babe nezinkulumo eziphumelelayo kangcono nezingane ezinezintandokazi lapho izingane zibaqhuma ngemibuto.
Musa Ukushicilela Imibuzo Engapheli
Yize kungase kube nzima ukuphendula yonke imibuzo ingane encane ingase ibe nayo, asifuni ngempela ukuvimbela isifiso sabo ngokubatshela ukuthi bayeke ukubuza imibuzo eminingi. Sifuna ukukhuthaza ilukuluku lwezingane zethu, kodwa senza kanjani lokho ngaphandle kokuba ubuchopho bethu bube umuthi womqondo ekupheleni kosuku olude?
Into eyodwa ezosiza ukuguqula isimo sengqondo. Esikhundleni sokubheka ukuthi ukukhathazeka njengokucasuliwe, abazali bangase bacabange ukuthi izingane zabo zilambile ukuthola ulwazi.
Ngeshwa, ukushintsha kwesimo sengqondo ngeke kube lula ukuphendula imibuzo noma ukwenza abazali bangakhathali ekupheleni kosuku.
Amasu Wokubhekana Nemibandela Engapheli
Isikhala sokuphendula umbuzo kuze kube yisikhathi esikahle kakhulu.
Nakuba izingane zingase zifune impendulo ngokushesha, akudingeki ukuba unikeze eyodwa. Ungavuma umbuzo bese uphendula ukuwuphendula kuze kube yilapho. Isibonelo, lapho uJenny encane ebuza ukuthi kungani kufanele adle ubhontshisi bakhe obuluhlaza, umama angasho ukuthi, "Ngiyaqonda ukuthi awuthandi ubhontshisi obuluhlaza, kodwa angifuni ukuphikisana ngokubaluleka kwabo ngesikhathi sokudla.
Singakhuluma ngakho kamuva. "Yiqiniso, umama kudingeka alandele futhi axoxe ngezici zobhontshisi eziluhlaza noJenny kamuva.
Ungesabi ukusho "Angazi." Ngezinye izikhathi abazali bakhathele ukuzama ukuthola izimpendulo kuzo zonke imibuzo ingane, ikakhulukazi uma bengezona ochwepheshe endaweni yokubuza. Isibonelo, lapho uJenny encane ebuza ukuthi kungani amavithamini amhle kuye, umama angaphendula, "Lo ngumbuzo omuhle, Angazi kahle ukuthi kungani. Mhlawumbe singabheka impendulo ndawonye." Yiqiniso, umama manje unesibopho sokubheka ulwazi noJenny.
Indlela Yokulandela
Izingane ezinezinwele zinezinkumbulo ezinhle kakhulu , okusho ukuthi angeke bakhohlwe ukuthi umama noma ubaba uthe bazoxoxa ngombuzo kamuva noma babuke impendulo. Uma usebenzisa lezi zindlela, qiniseka ukuthi uzilungele ukulandela. Lokho kusho ukuthi uma uphendule ukuhlehlisa, ulungele ukuba nengxoxo kamuva. Noma uma uthi uzobheka ulwazi nengane yakho, lungele ukwenza njalo.
Kodwa-ke, mhlawumbe umqondo omuhle wokuba nemikhombandlela evamile yokuthi uzobhekana kanjani nale mibuzo kamuva. Uma kungenjalo, ungaphetha uphinde uphinde uphendule imibuzo uma usuke ukhathele kakhulu noma umatasa kakhulu ukuba ungawaphenduli.
Isibonelo, ungabeka eceleni isikhathi esithile sosuku lwezingxoxo. Kungenzeka ngemuva kokudla ukudla. Eqinisweni, kungenzeka uma izitsha zokudla zihlanzwa bese ikhishi lihlanza. Ungenza ingane yakho ikusize ukuhlanza emva kokudla futhi ngesikhathi sokuhlanza, ungaba nengxoxo. Uma unezingane ezingaphezu kweyodwa, lowo onombuzo ongaphenduliwe nguye osiza ngokuhlanza. Inzuzo eyengeziwe kule nqubo yukuthi izingane zingase zibone isikhathi sokuhlanza njengesikhathi sokuhlanganyela nabazali babo kunokuba kube nzima isikhathi sokusebenza.
Imibuzo ongakwazi ukuphendula ngoba wayengazi impendulo idinga ukuphathwa ngokuhlukile.
Phela, kwakungeyona nje isikhathi noma ukukhathala okwakuyinkinga. Kwakuwukuntula kolwazi. Ukubheka ulwazi nsuku zonke kunganezela kalula ekukhathaleni futhi ngokuqinisekile kuzothatha isikhathi! Kunokuba uzame ukuphendula yonke imibuzo nsuku zonke, yenza uhlu lwemibuzo engaphendukiyo ezayo phakathi nesonto. Uhlu lungabhalwa encwadini, ephepheni elifakwe esiqandisini, noma ngisho nephepha eliphambili (noma ibhodi leposi) elidluliselwe emdongeni wekamelo lomntwana. Ekupheleni kwesonto, wena nomntanakho ungathatha uhlu lwemibuzo emtatsheni wezincwadi bese uthola ezinye izincwadi okungenzeka zibe nezimpendulo. Uma unesikhathi phakathi nesonto, ungaphinda useshe i-Internet izimpendulo.
Ukufaka phezulu
Kungase kubonakale sengathi lezi zindlela zizothatha isikhathi esiningi. Kodwa-ke, amathuba okuhle ukuthi akudingeki ube nazo zonke izingxoxo noma uthole izimpendulo zaleyo mibuzo. Ingane ingase ingabi nentshisekelo ngokwanele yokuphishekela ulwazi, kepha ngokuhlehliswa esikhundleni sokungafuni ukuphendula imibuzo, uyakhuthaza kunokuba unqabe ukulangazela kwengane yakho. Futhi ugcina uhlu olude lwezifundo ezingase zihlolwe nengane yakho noma nini lapho kuvumela.