Isibonakaliso esibalulekile sokubaluleka kwakho okuphakathi kwakho
Ukuzivocavoca kubhekisela endleleni umuntu acabanga ngayo ngamakhono abo ezinhlobonhlobo zempilo, kuhlanganise nezifundiswa , i-athletics, kanye nokuxhumana kwabantu .
I-Self-Concept ngokuzivocavoca
Uma kuqhathaniswa nakho ekuqaleni kwasebuntwaneni, abantu abayishumi nambili banombono wokuzibona ocebile. Ngenxa yokwanda okuhlangenwe nakho nokuthuthukisa amakhono okuqonda, umqondo wokuzigcina ukhula njengoba izingane zihamba esikoleni esiphakeme.
Ukuzivocavoca kuhlobene nokuzihlonipha , kodwa amagama awafani. Umqondo womuntu ngokwakhe uthinta ukuzethemba. Ngamanye amazwi, umqondo wokuzimela ubhekisela ekuqondeni okubanzi kokuzithoba kunokuzihlonipha. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukuzethemba kusekelwe ekuhloleni kwamakhono akho, kuyilapho umqondo wokuzimela ungenakugwetshwa ngokwemvelo.
I-Self-Concept ne-Self Existential
Njengoba amashumi amabili ekhula ekukhuleni, awazi kabanzi ukuthi yini ehlukanisa. Ukubheka kwabo ngokuzihlukanisa kwabo okuhlukile kuhlanganise nobuntu babo nezimfanelo zabo kukhula. Lesi yisakhiwo sokubaluleka esibalulekile somqondo wokuzimela. Ngaphandle kokuzihlukanisa ngokwahlukana nokuhlukana nabanye, abayishumi abakwazi ukubona okuhle okuhlukile okuvela kubo bodwa. Ngenkathi izinyanga ezimbalwa ezindala ziqala ukuziqonda njengabantu ngabanye, kodwa ama-tween aqala ukumba ngokujulile futhi azibonele nokuthi afanelana kanjani nezwe.
I-Self-Concept ne-Categorical Self
Njengoba izinkulungwane ezingu-12 zikhula futhi ziqaphela ukuthi zikhona, zikwazi ukuhlukanisa futhi ziziqhathanise nabanye. Imiklamo efana nobudala, ubulili kanye nosayizi yizigaba zokuqala zezingane ezincane njengezingu-4. Ekukhuleni, noma kunjalo, ukuzibonakalisa ngokwezigaba ngokwemidwebo yezimfanelo zengqondo ezifana namaphethini wokuziphatha, umcabango nomzwelo.
AmaTweens asebenzisa lokhu ukuze aziqhathanise nabanye. Kube khona abantu abaningi abadumile abasemuva abakholelwa ekuzihlukaniseni ngokwabo emigqeni yobulili. UMiley Cyrus noKeKe Palmer bobabili bakhulume ngokuthi babe ne-pansexual, okusho ukuthi abahlukanisi ubulili babo. Ingaphakathi lakho lingase lijwayelane nalesi sihloko, kodwa umqondo wabo awufanele ungathinteki kabi ngisho noma ungafuni ukubhala izici ezithile zazo.
Image, Self-Esteem, ne-Ideal Self
Ukufushaniswa kokuziphendulela okukhona kanye nokwehlukanisa ukudala ukuzethemba kwakho nokuzihlonipha kwakho. Uma uhlangothi lwakho lunombono omuhle ngamakhono abo kanye nabo, banezinga eliphezulu lokuzibheka. Imizwa engafanele yalokho abanye abakucabangayo ngabo, ukukhathazeka, noma ukufisa ukufana nomunye umuntu yizona zonke izibonakaliso zokuzithoba. Khuluma phakathi kwakho ngokubaluleka kokwamukela ngokwabo njengoba kunjalo, kuyilapho bezama ukuzithanda. Bazisize babeke imigomo yokuthuthukisa izinto abacabanga ukuthi badinga ukuzishintsha ukuze bakwazi ukuzethemba ukuzethemba okungcono futhi baqinise izici ezinhle zabo abazijabulelayo.
Umthombo:
Manning, Maureen A. Self-Concept, kanye nokuzibonga kwabantwana abasha. Izinsizakalo Zomfundi. February 2007.