Yini okufanele uyenze, yisho, futhi uyiqonde lapho umzukulu wakho eyi-preemie
Siyakuhalalisela ngokuzalwa komzukulu wakho omnandi. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ungumfana noma intombazane, umzukulu wakho wokuqala noma owakho-10, kuyisikhathi esimnandi sokwamukela umntwana omusha emhlabeni.
Kodwa uma umzukulu wakho e-NICU, cishe uzwa ukuxuba kwemizwelo.
Kule minyaka yonke, ngibambe izandla nogogo nomkhulu ababesaba ukuthi umzukulu wabo ngeke aphile, futhi ngilalele amaNOMU nabomama bechaza izinto ezimangalisayo nezimbi abazali abazenzayo kulokhu okuhlangenwe nakho.
Ngingathanda ukwabelana ngezinye zezinto engizifundile, ukuze ukwazi ukungena ngaphakathi ngaphakathi kokunye okukwenziwayo nokungenzi lutho lapho indodana yakho noma indodakazi yakho ihlangabezana nesipiliyoni esesabekayo sokuthi ingane yakho ibe ne-NICU.
Izinyathelo Zokuqala
Celebrate! Ngisho noma kusabisa, kuhle ukuhlanganyela injabulo yakho ngomzukulu wakho omusha. Ngezinye izikhathi, wonke umuntu emndenini wonke uyesaba kakhulu ukuthi abakhohlwa ukwabelana ngemizwa yabo ejabulisayo.
Okwesibili, qonda ukucindezeleka ngokomzwelo lokhu kubangela indodana noma indodakazi yakho, futhi uzame kanzima ukubeka izidingo zakho kumshini wokushisa emuva. Ogogo nogogo abaningi bafuna ukuhileleka nomzukulu wabo omusha, kodwa i-NICU iyinto ehlukile ngokuphelele. Hlonipha izifiso zendodana noma indodakazi yakho, njengoba kunzima ukukwenza.
Okwesithathu, funda nge-NICU nangemuva kokuqeda isimo. Uma wenza lokhu ngesikhathi sakho, uzosindisa ingane yakho ukuthi kufanele ichaze izinto ngokuphindaphindiwe, okuwumthwalo wabazali abaningi be-NICU.
Izihloko ezimbalwa ezimangalisayo okuqala ngazo ziyi:
- Iyini i-NICU
- Iqiniso le-NICU (Umbono we-NICU Umhlengikazi)
- Okwenza izitha zihluke kunezingane ezigcwele
- I-NICU Equipment [nezithombe]
Kodwa sicela uqaphele ngalokho okufunayo kuyi-intanethi - izindaba eziningi ezesabisayo zikhona kwi-intanethi, futhi uzokwenza wena nendodana yakho noma indodakazi yakho akuthandeki ngokubanjwa ezindabeni zabanye abantu.
Namathela ezindabeni ezinhle nezincwadi zemfundo.
Okufanele ngikwenze
Kukhona izinto eziningi ezesabekayo ongayenza ukuze ube ugogo nomkhulu ocabangayo futhi osekelayo. Abazali be-NICU bavame ukucindezeleka kangangokuba kaningi abakwazi ukusho ukuthi yini abayidingayo, noma bakhathele kakhulu ukuba bangakusizi usizo. Ngakho uma unikeza usizo lwakho, yiba necacile. Banike usuku oluqondile olutholakala ngalo, banikeze izinto ezimbalwa ongathanda ukuzenza ukusiza, njenge:
- Ukunikela ukubuka abanye abazukulu ukuze abazali bavakashele umntwana omusha ku-NICU
- Ukunikela ukushayela amamsha amasha ku-NICU (uma ukuhamba kuyinselele)
- Nikela ukupheka ukudla
- Ukunikela ukuhlanza indlu / yenza izingubo zokugeza
- Uma ungumuntu we-intanethi savvy, nikeza ukuqala ibhuloho elikhathalelayo kubo
- Gcina uthinta izingcingo, ama-imeyli noma amanothi abhalwe ngesandla uma uhlala kude.
- Qaphela ukucindezeleka kwe-Post-Partum noma Ukucindezeleka Kwangemva Kokucindezeleka, okungathinta noma umzali. Bazisize ukuthi sekuyisikhathi sokuthola usizo kudokotela noma ochwepheshe.
Futhi okubaluleke kakhulu - Qhubeka wenze lezi zinto ZONKE kulo lonke i-NICU uhlale. Abazali abaningi bazizwa belahlwa ngemva kokuba injabulo yokuqala iqede. I-NICU ihlala ingakwazi ukuchitha amaviki ngisho nezinyanga, futhi abazali abasha bayakwazisa usizo sonke isikhathi.
Okungafanele Ukwenze
Sicela uthathe isikhashana ukufunda lesi sihloko mayelana nokuthi ungamsiza kanjani umuntu onzima. Mhlawumbe awucabangi nge-NICU njengenkinga, kepha abazali abaningi bazwa imizwelo ejulile futhi kubo, mhlawumbe bazizwa bengenhlekelele. Uwufunde?
Into ebaluleke kakhulu okumele uyikhumbule ukuthi udinga ukubeka izidingo zendodana yakho noma indodakazi yakho ngaphezu kwakho.
Sicela unga:
- Ukucasuka uma ungenakuvakashela umntwana (Ezinye ze-NICU azivumeli, futhi abazali abaningi abafuni nje omunye umuntu ngaphandle kwabo. Kuyinto evamile. Ngakho-ke noma ngabe kukucasula, sicela uyihloniphe.)
- Ukucasuka uma ungeke ukwazi ukubamba ingane (i-Ditto ngenhla.) Amamama amaningi e-NICU, ikakhulukazi, athukuthele ukuthi noma ubani ubambe umntwana wakhe, futhi kufanele abheke abahlengikazi nodokotela benza konke abafisa ukuthi bayakwenza. Into eyodwa abangayilawula yimuphi omunye obamba umntanakho, futhi ngezinye izikhathi abafuni ukuthi omunye umuntu angene. Kuyinto evamile, ngakho-ke sicela uhloniphe.)
- Buza ithani lemibuzo mayelana nesimo somntwana noma ukubikezela. (Yebo ufuna ukukhombisa ukukhathazeka kwakho, kodwa khumbula ukuthi abazali be-NICU bakhathazekile kakhulu. Ukukhathazeka kwakho mayelana nengane kufanele kufike okwesibili ukusiza abazali ukuba bathuthuze futhi bezolile.)
Okufanele Ukusho
Okubaluleke nakakhulu kunokusho ukuthi noma yini ulalele. Ukubuza nje ukuthi "Ubamba kanjani? Ngempela? "Bese ukulalela kuyoba ukwesekwa okumangalisayo.
Futhi, lezi zinto zikhulu:
- "Siyakuhalalisela!"
- "Bheka ukuthi ubumnandi kangakanani!"
- "Ubonakala enamandla kakhulu!"
- "Ubheka njengomama / ubaba / umkhulu / ugogo ..."
- "Ubamba kanjani? Ngempela?"
- "Ngizokugcina emicabangweni / emithandazweni yami"
Okungashiwo
Abantu abaningi kakhulu bangasho ngokungaqondile izinto ezicasula abazali abasha be-preemie. Uma uzama ukuzwela futhi ucabange, ungakhathazeki kakhulu ngalokho okushoyo. Kodwa nansi imibono yama-classic eyenziwa ngabazali abangathandi:
"Usemncane kakhulu." Abazali bayazi kahle ukuthi ingane yabo encane kangakanani, futhi ingumthombo wokukhathazeka okukhulu. Ngakho zama ukugxila emandleni nasemiphakathini.
"Ingabe uzobe ulungile?" Abazali bazibuza into efanayo, futhi abanakho impendulo. Ukwenza ukuba bakhumbule ukukhathazeka nokungaqiniseki kuyinkinga enkulu. Isikhathi sizokutshela. Gxila ku-manje nasezimpilweni.
"Wenzani ungalungile? / Yini eyabangela lokhu kungcoliswa kokuqala?" Bayazibuza into efanayo futhi mhlawumbe bazizwa benecala kakhulu (okungalungile) ngakho. Ayikho into eyenza imithi yesimanje ingayenza ngempela ukuvimbela ukuguqulwa komzimba, futhi kaningi kwenzeka nangona umama enza konke "okulungile." Ngakho ungangeze enecala lakhe ngokufakazela ukuthi kukhona into ayengayenza ukuze ayivimbele . Ngisho noma ngabe ucabanga ukuthi umama kungenzeka enze umsebenzi "olungcono" uma ekhulelwe, manje akusona isikhathi sokwengeza lowo mthwalo emndenini okhathazekile.
"Okungenani umntwana unabo" abatititters "abakhulu. Ngokuqinisekile, abahlengikazi be-NICU nodokotela baqeqeshwe kakhulu, kodwa akekho ofuna ukuba umntwana wabo anakekele omunye umuntu - abazali bafuna ukunakekela ingane yabo ngokwabo. Futhi abakwazi.
"Angazi ukuthi wenza kanjani! / Angingeke ngomelele ngokwanele ukuphatha lokhu." Akunjalo! Bafisa ukuthi babengekho, futhi kubenza bazizwe bebodwa ngoba bonke abanye bacabanga ukuthi babambe kahle uma eqinisweni bengase babe nomuzwa wokuthi bahlukana.
"Okungenani akudingeki uzuze konke lokhu kunesisindo." Kubonakala sengathi kuyinto engenacala yokukhuluma, kodwa cishe wonke omama bangathanda ukuthola konke okusindayo nokuningi - omama abaningi bayayinika ingalo yabo yesobunxele! - kunokuba ubukele umzabalazo wabo omncane wokuphila.
Futhi okubi kunazo zonke ... "Uyobuya nini ekhaya?" Futhi, kubonakala kungenacala, futhi kukhona into oyifunayo. Lona ngumzukulu wakho! Kodwa abazali bafuna ukwazi ukuthi ungubani, futhi odokotela nabahlengikazi abakwazi nje ukutshela lapho ingane yabo ikulungele ukuya ekhaya. Abazali baka-Preemie bacishe bazonde lo mbuzo njalo, ngakho-ke vele ugweme uma ungakwenza.
Futhi ngaphandle kokuba uxoxe njalo noNkulunkulu nendodana yakho noma indodakazi yakho, manje akusona isikhathi sokuletha lokho. Abazali baka-Preemie bavame ukulwa nokukholwa kwabo nentukuthelo yabo, futhi bavame ukucasula noma ubani okhuluma ngohlelo lukaNkulunkulu noma "Kungani uNkulunkulu enza lokhu." (Cabanga ngalokhu - kubonakala kuyingozi kakhulu ukutshelwa ukuthi uNkulunkulu uhlele okuthile okulukhuni nokubuhlungu kubo noma ingane yabo. Ngakho-ke kungenzeka ukuthi kungcono kakhulu ukugwema lesi sihloko ngaphandle kokuthi indodana yakho noma indodakazi yakho ithanda ukukhuluma ngoNkulunkulu nawe.)
Uletha Isipho?
Ngokuqinisekile!
Ugogo nomkhulu bahlonishwa ngezipho zokukhanyisa izingane zabo ezincane, futhi u-preemie ufanelwe nabo! Kodwa ku-NICU, ugogo nomkhulu abaningi bakhathazekile ukuthi bayothola into "engalungile". Nazi ezinye izipho ezivame ukuletha injabulo enkulu:
- Izindwangu ze-Preemie (hlola ezinye ze-ADORABLE nezamnandi lapha)
- I-NICU Posters ne-NICU Art Work
- Izilwane ezinamathambo (KUPHELA uma i-NICU izobavumela)
- Amakhadi ezipho zokudlela esibhedlela, ukupaka esibhedlela
- Amakhadi Ezinkokhelo ZeGesi, Ukudla, Amakhasimende
- Izincwadi zokufunda ngokuzwakalayo ezinganeni
- Amaphakheji wokunakekela, agcwele ukudla okulula, iphephabhuku, i-lotion ngesandla nezinye izinto ezihamba phambili
- Ukubuthwa noma usuku ku-spa, noma noma yikuphi okuphathayo ukuthi ingane yakho iyayithanda
- Isibhedlela sokuhlengika izandla esingenamandla kunoma imuphi umama oshaya
Okungayithengi
Lezi zinto zingabacasula kubazali abathile, ngakho-ke kungaba ngcono ukuyeka lezi zinto zesipho:
- Izimbali (Zikhumbuza abazali abaningi abasha ngemingcwabo)
- Izembatho zezingane ezigcwele isikhathi eside noma ezindala (abazali bakhathazeka ngengane yabo kungenzeka bangaphili isikhathi eside. Ngaphezu kwalokho akusizi ngalutho okwamanje)
- Izincwadi zezingane ezihloselwe izingane ezinesikhathi esigcwele
Awu, khona-ke unayo. Uma ufunde lonke lolu lwazi - Siyakuhalalisela! Manje usuqala ukuqala okuhle njengo-grandperent we-preemie! Qhubeka nomsebenzi omuhle!