Umama ufunda ngokushesha ukuqaphela ukukhala okungavamile kwengane yakhe. Kukhona ukukhala lapho belambile , ukukhala lapho bengakhululekile-ngisho nangokwesinye isikhathi lapho besaba.
Kungakapheli amahora ambalwa okuba ngumzali, ufunda ukuhlukanisa phakathi kokukhala okuhlukile kwezinsana, futhi kukusiza ukuba uphendule ngokufanele ukunakekela ingane yakho. Njengoba kuvela, kunesizathu sokuthi omama bafunde ngokushesha ukuhumusha ukukhala komuntu ngamunye-ngoba ubuchopho bomama balinganisa ezingeni eliyisisekelo kakhulu ekuphenduleni izingane zabo.
Ngaphakathi kwe-Brain's Mother lapho umntwana ekhala
Kuye kwaba nezifundo eziningi ezithakazelisayo ezenzelwe okwenzeka ezinhliziyweni zabazali lapho umntwana ekhala. Nakuba kungase kubonakale sengathi kuyinkambo elula-umntwana uyakhala, umama uyaphendula-isifundo esisodwa ku- Journal of Neuroendocrinology siyachaza ukuthi empeleni kukhona inani elimangalisayo lomsebenzi wobuchopho kanye nezinhlelo ezihambelanayo ezisebenza ukukhiqiza impendulo.
Ucwaningo olwenziwe ngo-2011 lwachazela ukuthi kunezindawo ezihlukahlukene zobuchopho ezihilelekile lapho umntwana ekhala. Ucwaningo luchaza inqubo yokuthi ubuchopho bomama "bushintshwa" ngomsindo womntwana okhala. Abacwaningi ocwaningweni bacabanga ukuthi izinguquko eziningi ezihlukahlukene emqondweni wengqondo womama empeleni ziqala ngaphambi kokuzalwa, ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, futhi zibandakanya ukwanda okukhulu kwe-hormone dopamine, okusiza ukulungiselela ubuchopho bayo ngokubeletha.
Izinhlelo zeHormonal ziyinhloko
Ngaphandle kwe-dopamine, i-hormone oxytocin idlala indima enkulu ekulawuleni ukuziphatha komama ekuphenduleni ukukhala komntanakhe.
Okokuqala, lapho ingane ifakwa esifubeni, ibangela i-oxytocin ukuba ikhukhule ubuchopho bayo futhi ikhuthaze ukubopha, ukuzwelana, kanye nezinye amahomoni "azizwa kahle" amsiza ukuba athole uxhumano oluseduze nengane yakhe.
Izinhlelo eziningi ze-hormonal zisiza futhi ukudlala indima ohlelweni "lomvuzo", ngokuyisisekelo ukukhukhula kwengqondo yomama nge-hormone ezizizwa kahle ekuphenduleni ukunakekela ingane yakhe.
Indlela yendalo yokuqinisekisa umama ujabulela ukunakekela ingane yakhe!
Wonke Umama Uhlukile
Ucwaningo lwango-2011 lwathola ukuthi kungase kube nokungafani kokukhululwa kwe-hormone nokulawulwa komama phakathi komama. Isibonelo, omama ababeletha ngokobulili empeleni babonisa ukuphendula okuningi kobuchopho ekwenzeni ingane yabo emasontweni amabili kuya kwangu-4 ngemva kokubeletha kunomama ababelethile ngokusebenzisa isigaba C. Ucwaningo lubuye lwathola ukuthi omama ababeletha babephendula ngokwengeziwe ezingeni lobuchopho kunomama ababezondla ukudla; lokho akusho ukuthi "babengcono" omama, kodwa kuphela ukuthi kwakukhona umehluko omncane wama-hormonal, mhlawumbe okudingekayo ekukhiqizeni ubisi nemithethonqubo.
Ubuchopho bomama bubuye buhle ngokwabo ukuze kuphendule kuphela ukukhala komntanakhe; lokho kuchaza ukuthi kungani umama angafunda ukukhala komntanakhe, kodwa hhayi wonke umntwana ekamelweni. Ungacabanga ukuthi bekuzokwenzekani uma bonke omama yonke indawo behlaziya ukukhala kwabo bonke abantwana? Ngokuqinisekile kuyoba ngokweqile ngokweqile ngenxa yobuchopho babo. Esikhundleni sokuvumela lokho kwenzeke, ubuchopho bomama buhlanza ngokuzenzakalelayo ukukhala kwamanye izinsana ukuze ukwazi ukugxila kuye.
Ezinye izici, njengokuthi umama unenkinga yokucindezeleka esikhathini esidlule empilweni yakhe, njengengozi noma ukugula kwengqondo, kungabangela ukuphazanyiswa komthethonqubo we-hormonal nokusebenza komqondo.
Ngisho nezinto ezinjengomama ezabanakekeli abaningi abahlukene njengengane ngokwazo zazihlobene nokungapheleli okuncane nengane yakhe.
'Umama Ubuningi' Ungokoqobo
Ucwaningo lwamuva luka-2017 ku- Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences luphinde lwaqinisekisa ukuthi izinguquko ezenzeka ezingeni lobuchopho kumama zingokoqobo nokuthi zenzeka kumama emhlabeni wonke. Izinguquko ebuchosheni bomama ezenzeka ekusabela kwengane ezikhalayo zithinta izingxenye zobuchopho bakhe ezenza ukuba athuthe futhi akhulume, ukucubungula imisindo, nokuba ngumnakekeli. Empeleni, bamsiza ukuba enze zonke izinto ezidingekayo ukuze anakekele usana.
Izinguquko ebuchosheni zitholakala ukuthi zahluke phakathi kwabesifazane ababenabantwana uma kuqhathaniswa nalabo abangenazo izingane.
Izwi elivela ku-Verywell
Ukukhala komntwana ngokuyisisekelo kubonisa enye yezindlela zokuqala umama afunda ngazo ngomntanakhe. Ukukhala komntwana kuyindlela yokukhomba kumnakekeli wayo ukuthi udinga uthando nokukhathalela. Futhi ngenxa yokulila kuphela ithuluzi lokusana lokusinda, ubuchopho bomama bomuntu bunempendulo eqondile kanye nokuphendula lapho uzwa ingane yakhe ikhala. Ingane yakho ingase ivele ikutshele ukuthi ilambile, kodwa ezingeni lobuchopho, kukhona okuningi okuqhubekayo kunalokho esingase sikubone.
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