"Kushisa kakhulu." "Angifuni ukuya endlini kaGogo." "Le nkinga igaxa." Ukulalela izikhalazo ezivela kumntanakho kuzogqoka ukubekezela kwakho.
Futhi, ukukhononda akulungile kumntanakho. Uma ehlale egxile embi, uzoba engozini enkulu yezinkinga zempilo yengqondo kanye nezinkinga zenhlalo.
Uma ingane yakho ikhononda kakhulu, noma uma ihlamba njalo , kubalulekile ukubhekana nalokhu kuziphatha.
Uma ungakuvimbeli lapho esemncane, angakhula aze abe umuntu omdala ohlala ekhononda njalo. Nanka amanye amasu okusiza ukulungisa ukungabi nalutho:
1. Yamukela imizwa yengane yakho
Into yokugcina ofuna ukuyenza ukunciphisa indlela ingane yakho ezwa ngayo ngokuthi into ethi, "Yeka ukukhala noma ngizokunika into yokukhala." Lokhu akusizi nje usizo.
Esikhundleni salokho, thola izindlela zokwazisa okuncane ukucindezeleka kwengane yakho bese uqhubeka. Uma ukuziphatha kwengane yakho kudinga ukungenelela okungaphezulu, hlela ukuziphatha, hhayi umzwelo .
Ngezinye izikhathi izingane zikhononda ngoba zifuna ukwazi ukuthi zibhekana neminye imizwa enzima noma ukukhathazeka ngokomzimba. Ukuvuma nje ukuthi uzwa ngazo ngezinye izikhathi kungakwanela ukuxazulula phansi kancane. Yisho into efana nokuthi, "Ngiyazi ukuthi awukhululekile okwamanje ngoba sesisemotweni isikhathi eside kodwa sisenayo ihora elilodwa."
Uma kukhona imibhikisho eminye noma ingane yakho iqala ukukhala , ingayinaki futhi icacise ukuthi ngeke uqaphele imizamo emibi yokuthola ukunakwa.
2. Khuthaza ukuxazulula izinkinga
Uma ingane yakho ikukhononda ngento ethile, mkhuthaze ukuba axazulule le nkinga . Uma ethi, "Ngishisa," lapho edlala ngaphandle, cela, "Ucabanga ukuthi kufanele uyenze ngalokho?" Uma edinga usizo ekucabangeni okukhethwa kukho, mkhumbuze ukuthi angahlala emthunzini noma acele usizo ukuthola isiphuzo esibandayo.
Ukufundisa amakhono akho okuxazulula izinkinga ezinganeni kungamsiza ukuba abone ukuthi ukuza kuwe nokukhononda akunakwenzeka ukulungisa inkinga. Kodwa, angacela usizo ekuxazululeni inkinga noma angakwazi ukuxazulula indlela yokuxazulula inkinga eyedwa uma kufanelekile ukwenza kanjalo.
Uma izingane zithuthukisa amakhono abo wokuxazulula izinkinga, zingase zingabi namandla okukhalaza. Futhi uma ungazami ukuxazulula zonke izinkinga kubo, ngeke udale umuzwa wokungazisi usizo.
3. Phakamisa Okuhle
Uma ingane yakho ihlale ishesha ukukhomba okubi kunoma yisiphi isimo, zizimisele ukukhomba okuhle. Lokhu kungasiza ingane yakho ukuba ithuthukise umbono olinganiselayo wezwe kunokuba nje ibone okubi.
Uma ingane yakho ikhononda ukuthi ayikwazi ukugibela ibhayisikili ngoba imvula, umkhumbuze imisebenzi emnandi yangaphakathi ongayenza esikhundleni sayo. Ngokukhomba okuhle, ungase ukwazi ukumkhumbuza ukuthi cishe zonke izimo zinehlangothi elikhanyayo.
Nini Ukufuna Usizo Lomsebenzi
Ngezinye izikhathi, isimo sengqondo esibi kakhulu singabonisa inkinga yezempilo engqondweni. Izingane ezinenkinga yokucindezeleka, isibonelo, ngokuvamile zihlala zibhekene nezinto ezimbi futhi izingane ezinenkathazo zivame ukuzicabangela izimo ezimbi kakhulu. Uma usola ukuthi ukukhathazeka kwengane yakho njalo noma ukuhlukunyezwa kungase kube uphawu lwezinto ezingathí sina, khuluma nodokotela wezingane zakho.