Yini Ongayilindela Ngalesi Sigaba
Njengamazinga amaningi okuthuthukiswa kwengane, inkathi yentuthuko eneminyaka engu-6 ibonakala ngokuphikisana. Ingane eneminyaka eyisithupha ubudala izothatha unyawo lwakhe ngokuqinile emnyakeni wezinyane elikhulu kunalokho akwenza njenge-kindergartner; ngesikhathi esifanayo, uzobe engakutholi ukungavikeleki okuvela ekungeneni ezweni elikhulu ngaphandle kokududuza njalo umama nobaba.
Njengoba eqhubeka efunda esikoleni, izinsuku zokudlala, amaqembu okuzalwa, neminye imisebenzi ngaphandle komzali, angase afune futhi adinge ukunakekelwa nokududuzeka okungcono ekhaya.
Ukuqwashisa ngokomzwelo
Abaneminyaka eyisithupha bazokwazi ukuzwa imizwelo-kokubili ngokwabo nakwabanye. Bangase baqonde imibono eyinkimbinkimbi njengendlela yokuqapha ngokungazilimazi imizwa yomuntu, ngokuthi, ukusho okuthile okubaluleke kakhulu ngabo ngqo kulowo muntu.
Ukuqiniseka nokungavikeleki
Kubaningi abaneminyaka engu-6 ubudala , isikhungo sendawo yonke, kuzo zonke izinhloso nezinhloso, kuzoba yibo. Abantwana abaneminyaka eyisithupha bazophinde baxoxe nabanye ngezindaba zabo, futhi ngokwemvelo balindele abanye ukuba banesithakazelo kubo njengoba kunjalo. Bayoziqhenya ngokufezeka kwabo kanye namakhono abo futhi bazofuna ukwabelana ngemidwebo yabo, amakhono emzimbeni, nezinye izinto eziphathelene nabo ukuthi bazizwa bebenza baphumelele futhi bazikhethele.
Kuzoba abazali ukuthi baqondise izingane futhi bafundise ngomugqa omuhle phakathi kokuzethemba nokuziqhayisa.
Ngesikhathi esifanayo, bazozizwa bengalondekile futhi bazofuna ukudunyiswa kwabanye. Abaneminyaka eyisithupha bangase bafune ukwenza izinto ngokugcwele futhi kungase kube nzima kubo uma ukusebenza kwabo kungalungile njengoba befuna ukuthi kube (uma belahlekelwa emdlalweni noma bengabonakali ukuthola isithombe ukubukeka nje indlela abayifunayo ngayo, isibonelo).
Bazofuna ukungenelela futhi bazofuna abangane babo esikoleni ukuze bavume izinto abazenzayo. Abaneminyaka eyisithupha bangase babe nobunzima ukwamukela ukugxeka noma ukuyala futhi bangase bazwele kakhulu ukuyala.
Okukhulu kwalokhu kungalondeki kuzosuka ekuthutheleleni kwemvelo eneminyaka engu-6 kuya ekuzimele. Abazali bangasiza ngokuqaphela lokhu kuqhutshwa nokudonsa futhi bangasiza ingane yabo ukuba izwe kangcono ngokuqhubeka phambili ngokwabo ngokunikeza isimo esiduduzayo ekhaya lapho izingane zingazizwa zivikelekile emisebenzini yansuku zonke nokuqinisekiswa kothando nokuqonda.
Ukungaziphathi kahle kanye nezintandokazi
Abaneminyaka eyisithupha bazovame ukubona izinto njengezimnyama nomhlophe futhi bazoveza imibono eqinile ngezinto. Bangase bahambe besuka ku-elation ngento ethile ekungathokozisweni okuphelele uma kukhona okungahambi. Bangase babone into enhle futhi enye into embi futhi izoba nenkinga yokubona umhlabathi ophakathi.
Lolu hlobo lokucabanga luvamile kubantu abaneminyaka engu-6 ubudala, abazama ukuhlela nokuhlukanisa izwe elibazungezile. I-Pigeon-holing into ibe yisigaba ingasiza izingane ezineminyaka engu-6 zikwazi ukuziqonda, futhi zingabasiza bazizwe sengathi bangakwazi ukubona okuhlangenwe nakho okungaziwa nokusha. Abazali bangasiza ngokuphatha izingane ngokucophelela ekucabangeni okungenamahloni, ngokuphakamisa ukuthi babone izinto kusuka kwamanye amaphuzu wokubuka-ikhono abazothola ngokwemvelo njengoba bekhula.
Ubumfihlo
Abantwana abaneminyaka eyisithupha bangase baqale ukuveza isifiso sokuba semfihlo lapho begqoka noma beqeda (nakuba abaningi bazobe bejabulela isikhathi sokugeza nomzali oseduzane futhi bazocela umama noma ubaba ukuthi bageze izinwele zabo). Izingane kule minyaka zingase ziqale ukuthola ulwazi mayelana nemizimba yazo, ubulili, nobulili, futhi ungalindela imibuzo mayelana nokuthi izingane zivelaphi.
Ukuzimela
Abaneminyaka eyisithupha baqhubeka behlanganyela emisebenzini ngaphandle kwabazali babo. Kodwa njengoba beguqukela ekuzikhuliseni okuzimele, bayobe bancike kakhulu ekuvikelekeni kwekhaya, imizila, abazali, nabangani. Imizila elandelwayo efana nemikhuba yasebusuku, imisebenzi yesikole ngemuva kwezinsuku zokudlala nabangani kuyoba ibalulekile kubantwana abaneminyaka engu-6; labo, imisebenzi ejwayelekile kanye nobuhlobo bazohlinzeka ngokuphepha abayidingayo lapho behlangabezana nezinselelo ezingavamile kanye nolwazi.
Izingane kule minyaka zingase zibuye ziveze nesifiso sokuzikhethela izingubo zazo, zigeze, zihlanganise nezinwele zazo. Abazali bangasiza ukugqugquzela ukuzinakekela okuzimele futhi banikeze isiqondiso nokusizwa (ngokuvumela izingane zigeze futhi zize "ekusizeni" ekugcineni noma ziphakamise i-sweater kanye ne-tights uma kubanda kakhulu ukuya esikoleni nje ngesiketi esikhanyayo, isibonelo).
Ukukhathazeka kokuhlukanisa kungase kube yinkinga yabantwana abaneminyaka engama-6, kepha kuzoba nzima kakhulu njengoba izingane zivame ukuqinisa izibopho nabangane esikoleni futhi zijwayele ukuchitha isikhathi esiningi kude nekhaya.